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The Quran View On This! by Fetus(m): 10:34am On Dec 29, 2012
Salam alaikum to all my muslims brothers and sisters. I'm a muslim whom fell in love with a christian.. we both really each other...my challenges are now that she is really worried about the difference in religion likewise me...my question what is d quran view on this?..need your urgent replies....kindly help us...we are worried! Ma salam
Re: The Quran View On This! by iyb(m): 1:06pm On Dec 30, 2012
A muslim Man is Allowed to marry any of the people of the book i.e christians and jews what u should be worried about is after marriage if God bless you with a child how can you make sure you raise them up as muslims take care
Re: The Quran View On This! by hadbak: 11:34pm On Jan 01, 2013
Islam isn't against it but it is betta n advisable to marry a muslim woman. It is important u knw dt ur unborn child has right over u I.e right to marry a pious woman, right to a good name, right to islamic education among odas. Also sharing same faith wit ur spouse is a vital ingrediant in marriage as it binds u strongly. More so comunicatn wil b smooth n efective more in dt maner. May Allah grant us understandgs, ameen
Re: The Quran View On This! by LogicSense: 8:06am On Jan 02, 2013
Sometimes the word love is overrated. The only true and everlasting love is when you love for the sake of Allah. Loving someone because the psn has straight leg, pointed nose etc only is lust. Whether to marry xtian or not depend on one's state of akeedah, passion for the deen and what you want your household to look like. We muslims are too weak in faith and ignorant in knowledge of our deen to marry xtian.look around you 99% of those that ventured into that dangerous journey either lose their deen on the way or lose their children to xtianity.see the like of tinubu, fashola, gani fawehinmi-all their children are on the other side.even if she agrees to join your religion, it might not last long because if there is any problem she wil quickly suggest church. Gani fawehinmi's wife notwithstanding that she was sent to hadji, she went back to church with her children even during his husband's lifetime.two of my brothers lost their deen for this. The permission in the ayah is a burden that is difficult to carry because you must do jihad on her. The only people that can do it are those with strong alkeeda.even with this,the problem is that if they do not live long, their children wl be taken to church.a good and conscious muslim shl think about the future of islam.not just thinking of marrying a muslim but marrying a muslim with perfect understanding of islam.muhammad(saw) told us that the best criteria for marriage is religion.
Re: The Quran View On This! by maclatunji: 10:26am On Jan 02, 2013
^Exactly, that love that OP has won't last forever. What shall he be left with after that?
Re: The Quran View On This! by tbaba1234: 12:35pm On Jan 02, 2013
There is a reason why pre-marital relationships are haram. It allows people to enter the most important decision of their life thinking rationally not influenced by 'Love' or 'Lust'.

Believers, guard yourselves and your families against a Fire fuelled by people and stones, over which stand angels, stern and strong; angels who never disobey God’s commands to them, but do as they are ordered: (surah 66:6)

You are responsible for your home and will be responsible for the misguidance of your family. The only time, Allah addresses disbelievers directly in the Quran is the ayah after the one above. People from muslim backgrounds who went astray. Throughout the Quran, Allah addresses disbeliever only once directly.

‘You who disbelieve, make no excuses today: you are only being repaid for what you used to do.’ (Surah 66:7)

Use your head before jumping into this, there will be no 'love' after 5 years... Will you be regretting your decision? Would you still be on your deen? Do you think your Eeman and knowledge is strong enough to handle this kind of relationship? What about your children? Do you genuinely think you can bring her to Islam?
Re: The Quran View On This! by Fetus(m): 1:00pm On Apr 06, 2013
@all tank u so much 4 ur opinions...i wud work on it!

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