Considering the multi- cultural make-up of societies and countries, I wish to ask this:
Is it considered an appropriate thing to do, when you look squarely into their eyes, when having a conversation with them. Or is it seen as being cocky or rude?
Please, I need views from different ethnic and cultural extractions, because I look into people's eyes, regardless of who they are..
Thanks.

Depends on the culture really. Growing up in the UK, I was taught by my teachers that not looking someone in the eye, especially adults was disrespectful whereas in certain nigerian cultures, looking elders in the eye can be seen as being rude.

Depends on who the elder is to you and the topic of discourse.

Eye to eye contact won't be disrespectful if its an old relative asking of your family's welfare, same for an elder asking for directions or help.

When an elder is giving counsel, settling dispute, praying or blessing a younger person, its best not to maintain eye to eye contact as it might appear rude.

My personal opinion oh.

valen la bella: Depends on the culture really. Growing up in the UK, I was taught by my teachers that not looking someone in the eye, especially adults was disrespectful whereas in certain nigerian cultures, looking elders in the eye can be seen as being rude.

So, how do you cope when you travel round the world? Because, these issues would definitely arise, every now and then...

ifyalways: Depends on who the elder is to you and the topic of discourse.

Eye to eye contact won't be disrespectful if its an old relative asking of your family's welfare, same for an elder asking for directions or help.

When an elder is giving counsel, settling dispute, praying or blessing a younger person, its best not to maintain eye to eye contact as it might appear rude.

My personal opinion oh.

I think ma'am, that you added a very important clause to this.."depending on who the elder is to you"... That, in my idea, is very key!!!
And your opinion is very much appreciated, ma'am...
**Smiles**

IdeasDrive: Considering the multi- cultural make-up of societies and countries, I wish to ask this:
Is it considered an appropriate thing to do, when you look squarely into their eyes, when having a conversation with them. Or is it seen as being cocky or rude?
Please, I need views from different ethnic and cultural extractions, because I look into people's eyes, regardless of who they are..
Thanks.

In American culture, it's considered rude or disrespectful to not look your elders in the eye/face when they are talking to you or you are talking to them.