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Pls Help It Is Urgent by kaka23(f): 4:18pm On Feb 27, 2008
girls in here how do u handle a stingy boyfriend not that he doesnt give but has to look for change b4 he gives u the money am almost being forced to leave him
Re: Pls Help It Is Urgent by ssdm(m): 4:56pm On Feb 27, 2008
is it because of money dat think of living him?
Re: Pls Help It Is Urgent by efuah(f): 4:59pm On Feb 27, 2008
laughing my cute humps off! grin grin grin forgive me poster, cldn't control maself. embarassed

errr. . . looking for a change? to buy what? lmao lipsrsealed

explain pls. . . waiting. . .

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Re: Pls Help It Is Urgent by talk2sulta: 5:04pm On Feb 27, 2008
@poster
do you want him or his money?why wont he find change?or should he give you 100bucks when youve actually asked for 50bucks.

I dont know your worldview but I suggest you work hard to make some money and get yourself some respect.
Re: Pls Help It Is Urgent by Nautillus(m): 5:08pm On Feb 27, 2008
ROFLMAO

Serves you right . . . , waiting to help finnish his hard earned cash.

I go hustle my money [hustle] you go follow my chop am [chop am]
Na me bring you come lagos [lagos] do i look like your father . . . . .lol
Re: Pls Help It Is Urgent by jkpretty(f): 5:14pm On Feb 27, 2008
Abeggi enough of "do u want him or his money" epele saints of nairaland.

both r important. The guy & his money . . .

ROFLMFPAO
Chai . . .Looking for change shocked shocked shocked
@poster sorry for laughing but i can't stand a stingy person?
Re: Pls Help It Is Urgent by Nobody: 5:16pm On Feb 27, 2008
I cant believe you said this is urgent. Ha, i weep, If you want money go find work. It pains me in this age and time, when we are trying to push for women empowerment and some women just want to sit and be grabbing money. Sister please, emancipate your self from mental slavery, work for your money, nobody will stop you from spending your money anyway you want it, on the other hand he works for his money, its his right to determine how to spend it.

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Re: Pls Help It Is Urgent by efuah(f): 5:19pm On Feb 27, 2008
aisha2:

I can't believe you said this is urgent. Ha, i weep, If you want money go find work. It pains me in this age and time, when we are trying to push for women empowerment and some women just want to sit and be grabbing money. Sister please, emancipate your self from mental slavery, work for your money, nobody will stop you from spending your money anyway you want it, on the other hand he works for his money, its his right to determine how to spend it.
Worrrrrrrrd!!! kiss
Re: Pls Help It Is Urgent by Nautillus(m): 5:22pm On Feb 27, 2008
jkpretty:

Abeggi enough of "do u want him or his money" epele saints of nairaland.

both r important. The guy & his money . . .

ROFLMFPAO
Chai . . .Looking for change shocked shocked shocked
@poster sorry for laughing but i can't stand a stingy person?

LMAO . . . . .Money & Man . . . . .all join LOL
Re: Pls Help It Is Urgent by annboga(f): 5:26pm On Feb 27, 2008
Babe,all this thing abt a guy is stingy should stop.for christ
sake u should also be doing sth n stop depending on a guy to give u money,
abi nah him born uuuuuu, pls make a passs abeg, safe
Re: Pls Help It Is Urgent by Simsima2(f): 5:27pm On Feb 27, 2008
ahnahn, WAIT!!!, Is dis a once in a while thing or an everyday thing?
Re: Pls Help It Is Urgent by efuah(f): 5:29pm On Feb 27, 2008
Learn how to fish not only how to eat fish n compliment "awww it's sweet. . . abi u get?
I work reaaaaaaal hard and spend my money in my own way. . . i choose to "change" or spend all.
Re: Pls Help It Is Urgent by Busta(f): 5:42pm On Feb 27, 2008
Nautillus:

LMAO . . . . .Money & Man . . . . .all join LOL

In a way, that is true.

@topic,
Money or no money, I can't stand a cheap, stingy guy.
not about depending or a guy or that I have to work. Even if i work, its only nice, loving and romantic that my guy shld spend on me.
u have to spend on me oh. That is why he is the man and I am the woman  tongue
Re: Pls Help It Is Urgent by adeboo(f): 6:05pm On Feb 27, 2008
Girl, i don't know how to say this but all i know is that a stingy man is very hard o.

I have dated one and its never a pretty picture - just know what you are going into.

Just imagine moi, when i came to Nija, i asked him for some feeding money and he gave me 200 naira!
Egami - what is that for?
Re: Pls Help It Is Urgent by Dreloaded(f): 6:09pm On Feb 27, 2008
Busta:

. Even if i work, its only nice, loving and romantic that my guy shld spend on me.
u have to spend on me oh. That is why he is the man and I am the woman tongue

See that's different cos he's freely spending on you cos he wants to not because you begged for it

Never understood the whole asking dudes for money. Gross.
Re: Pls Help It Is Urgent by pahtahkee: 6:20pm On Feb 27, 2008
kaka23:

girls in here how do u handle a stingy boyfriend not that he doesnt give but has to look for change before he gives u the money am almost being forced to leave him
At least he still gives you money. Yet you call him a stingy boyfriend Are you loving him because you expect a financial greasing of your bag?

Abeg leave him and let him find true and genuine love from the person who will truly love him!
Re: Pls Help It Is Urgent by ty4real(m): 6:51pm On Feb 27, 2008
@ Poster!
I keep wondering when african woman will actually live up to all this woamn liberation, emanciaption thing sef!Why in the first place make it a habit to be asking him for money, kinda looks as if you are not industrious yourself!Wake up go find work and stop waiting for your man to bring in the doe always! Infact when you make it an habit that you are very okay, he will be the one to tell you to keep the change grin grin grin grin But men the guy stingy smalll ooooo shocked shocked shocked
Re: Pls Help It Is Urgent by Nobody: 7:27pm On Feb 27, 2008
Guys don suffer, E ya!!!!! cheesy Abeg pity the guy grin grin grin
Re: Pls Help It Is Urgent by tRoOE(f): 7:28pm On Feb 27, 2008
ty4real:

@ Poster!
I keep wondering when african woman will actually live up to all this woamn liberation, emanciaption thing sef!Why in the first place make it a habit to be asking him for money, kind of looks as if you are not industrious yourself!Wake up go find work and stop waiting for your man to bring in the doe always! Infact when you make it an habit that you are very okay, he will be the one to tell you to keep the change grin grin grin grin But men the guy stingy smalll ooooo shocked shocked shocked

Oh shut your trap, and I see you are trying to sound intelligent even though all the vocabularies you used are not necessary neither does it goes with sentence structure.
And quit generalizing


@posters

Abeg dump him jare, gosh I can't stand stingy people in general, people like him are those that can't eat healthy because they don't want to spend


Re: Pls Help It Is Urgent by adeboo(f): 7:35pm On Feb 27, 2008
tRoOE:


Oh shut your trap, and I see you are trying to sound intelligent even though all the vocabularies you used are not necessary neither does it goes with sentence structure.
And quit generalizing


@posters

Abeg dump him jare, gosh I can't stand stingy people in general, people like him are those that can't eat healthy because they don't want to spend





Very very true.
Nobody isnt saying that we dont spend on our men.
But as Nija women, i have been brought up to expect certain things from ma man am not by any chance saying that i dont spend on him o but i have been spoilt by my Nija men and thats just how it is.

Stingy men - are a no go area o.
Re: Pls Help It Is Urgent by Nobody: 7:39pm On Feb 27, 2008
I don't think if you have a job you would be thinking about change.

@posters
Abeg dump him jare, gosh I can't stand stingy people in general, people like him are those that can't eat healthy because they don't want to spend

This is the talk of a thief.

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Re: Pls Help It Is Urgent by tRoOE(f): 7:54pm On Feb 27, 2008
adeboo:


Very very true.
Nobody isnt saying that we don't spend on our men.
But as Nigeria women, i have been brought up to expect certain things from ma man am not by any chance saying that i don't spend on him o but i have been spoilt by my Nigeria men and thats just how it is.

Stingy men - are a no go area o.
Can you imagine going to a restaurant with a stingy man, you can't even order from the menu especially when it's something you like to eat and he will tell the waitress to bring water since it's free rather than juice or soda. ahahah who wants a cheap man.

If am dating a guy, he should be able to take care of me, am not asking him to pay my bills or give me monthly allowance, all am asking is for him to treat me like his woman, or is that too much to ask.

Stingy guy can go, we don't want him cheesy cheesy cheesy



stillwater:

I don't think if you have a job you would be thinking about change.


This is the talk of thief.
How am I a thief?

funny enough girls like you are the ones that date guys for their money/wealth, bunch of hypocrites!!!!!!!Shio

I like my man spending dough on me and i will surely do the same for him

Instead of crucifying the poster, why don’t you get a job also? wink

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Re: Pls Help It Is Urgent by Busta(f): 8:02pm On Feb 27, 2008
lol

@trooe

am with u on that note. Stingy men = no go area.
Re: Pls Help It Is Urgent by tRoOE(f): 8:06pm On Feb 27, 2008
Abi oh lol stingy men can find their next exits out wink

Re: Pls Help It Is Urgent by TheSly: 8:12pm On Feb 27, 2008
Tell him u r pregnant and u need $3,000 for abortion. . . . . . . cool


If that one doesn't work . . .

Holla @ me. . .i got more in store. cool
Re: Pls Help It Is Urgent by adeboo(f): 8:26pm On Feb 27, 2008
tRoOE:

[size=12pt][font=Garamond]Can you imagine going to a restaurant with a stingy man, you can't even order from the menu especially when it's something you like to eat and he will tell the waitress to bring water since it's free rather than juice or soda. ahahah who wants a cheap man.

If am dating a guy, he should be able to take care of me, am not asking him to pay my bills or give me monthly allowance, all am asking he for him to treat me like his woman, or is that too much to ask.

Stingy guy can go, we don't want him cheesy cheesy cheesy

Girl, are we sisters?

You think just like moi.
We can take can of ourselves, we can treat him too when we want to etc.
Its just the comfort of being spoilt that matters.
Re: Pls Help It Is Urgent by Nobody: 9:04pm On Feb 27, 2008
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[size=12pt][font=Garamond]How am I a thief?

funny enough girls like you are the ones that date guys for their money/wealth, bunch of hypocrites!!!!!!!Shio

Ha ha do you even know me cheesy? Bunch of thieves!!!!

I like my man spending dough on me and i will surely do the same for him

Yeah right?? cheesy

Instead of crucifying the poster, why don’t you get a job also? wink

The poster said "not as if he doesn't give" didn't you read that? I guess chicken change is now the basis to break off a relationship!!!!!!!!!! cheesy Pitiful cheesy
Re: Pls Help It Is Urgent by uspry1(f): 9:05pm On Feb 27, 2008
Busta:

lol

@trooe

am with u on that note. Stingy men = no go area.

Me too with you @Busta and @trooe!!!

Sorry I don't date stingy or cheapskate guy! I had been thru in my previous marriage!! Does not survive at all!
Re: Pls Help It Is Urgent by Dreloaded(f): 9:11pm On Feb 27, 2008
should you really ask someone to spoil you? Shouldnt they do it out of their own will? it's not really spoiling if you have to beg for it.

I believe if you pay for shit yourself, you wouldnt even have to tell him before shame will make him start acting better.
Re: Pls Help It Is Urgent by segzicres(m): 9:34pm On Feb 27, 2008
i think yoou should stop being material, it will eventually piss him off.
if i was him i would have broken up a long time ago cuz i can't stand a self centered gurl.
go and shit if he doesn't give u bar
Re: Pls Help It Is Urgent by tRoOE(f): 11:41pm On Feb 27, 2008
@
adeboo
Girl, are we sisters?
You think just like moi.
We can take can of ourselves, we can treat him too when we want to etc.
Its just the comfort of being spoilt that matters.
LOL you can say so jare tongue

We are very independent ladies

I know right, the feeling of been treated like a babies once in a while wink cheesy cheesy


uspry1:

Me too with you @Busta and @trooe!!!

Sorry I don't date stingy or cheapskate guy! I had been through in my previous marriage!! Does not survive at all!
[size12pt]Thank you jare wink

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Re: Pls Help It Is Urgent by earthrealm(m): 12:42am On Feb 28, 2008
last i checked,
we r still in 2008,

the yr of female emancipation,
ladies stop requesting 4 cash 4rm ur bfs, we aint ur daddies/walwart/bank of america,

giving gifts is one thing, giving free raw cash is anoda thing entirely.

dont get me wrong, i aint against a broda helping his gal out, cashwise, but the poster is making it seem like its mandatory 4 her to be always requesting dough 4rm her boo!!!, thats wrong,

girlfriend, u r loosing ur self esteem by such lowlife acts

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