I have a nephew who lives in Lagas. He's owned and run a computer business there for quite some time. His mother is my sister. He was partially raised in America. His dad was a Nigerian diplomat, and in-fact was the first person of African descent to aquire a PHD degree from the American university, North Western, which, of course, is quite a highly ranked university. That said, I'm a single, mature man, interested in meeting a female in an African culture. I've heard some good and bad, but don't know what to believe about mixing cultures, even when both people are in the same race. Am I playing with fire? Is there someone on this forum who can shed a little light on this subject?

zubere: Am I playing with fire? Is there someone on this forum who can shed a little light on this subject?

nope, d is absolutely no one in dis forum pls go cheq d next rum cus u are definitely playin wit fire, hope u hav dat in mind:

Who are you? This is a public forum and I'm pretty sure you are not the owner. I was hoping to get a response from someone more friendly. After all, it's only conversation. Lighten up and enjoy this life. You sound as though I am offending someone by my title. This is the person I am trying to find and get to know, and I thought I could get some help on this forum. What's wrong with that? I'll tell you-absolutely nothing! Cheers to you and good luck.