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Ozegbe: I never wanted to post this for a very long time, but I couldn't just bear it today when I came back from church...

my aunty is married to this igbo guy who didn't go to school but has money. he has been working with chevron for 15 years and has a lot of business in Lagos. with the kind of money he has he can get a loving wife his heart desire, but he choose to stay with my aunty (she is beautiful and big,very very fair). I know igbo people like very fair and big ladies, but my aunty treats him like a slave and the guy dey annoy me. my aunty is actually the man of the house, why he is not not even the woman, he his like the house girl. my aunty is a very strong Christian who goes to church almost every day. I know her to the core, so the question of juju no even dey at all. my aunty taught him many things he knows today, like how to dress and go outing, all that stuff associated with big boys. he has money but behaves like a local village boy, maybe because he is always under the sea.

what kinda love is this? they have been living like this for many years, the guy family have tried to talk to him that this is not his wife but he won't listen. though she is my aunt, but I don't like the way he treats the guy. I use to stay with them. I just recently visited them and stayed a week and nothing has changed from what every body knows. the thing that baffles me is the fact that she is a very devoted Christian, a leader in her house fellowship. she is very friendly, kind and extremely generous. she plays a lot with people except the husband...

IMO I think she likes the guy money but not him. I

I just couldn't help it today when she was talking to the guy like a child and that one just sit down like mumu dey look outside. seriously I was ashamed. she can't even talk to me that way, I will rebuke her immediately...

so nairalanders what do you think about this.....is there anything I can do?

myob

In summary they love their wives more than any tribe.

Why was the title of the thread changed

@OP
That your aunt goes to church doesn't mean she can't involve herself in bendel insurance.

I hate men like that too...There's a man i know that his wife tells him to wash all the plates before she comes back. Is it jazz or what?

Afam4eva: Why was the title of the thread changed

@OP
That your aunt goes to church doesn't mean she can't involve herself in bendel insurance.

I hate men like that too...There's a man i know that his wife tells him to wash all the plates before she comes back. Is it jazz or what?

THIS IS VERY RUDE, NOT CONSULTING ME BEFORE CHANGING THE TOPIC....IS THAT HOW YOU MODERATE?

point of correction MR, igbo pple dnt luv lyk mumu. Dat man has mental problem n dat ur aunty is nt a gud person at all.. Shikina!!!

Ozegbe:

THIS IS VERY RUDE, NOT CONSULTING ME BEFORE CHANGING THE TOPIC....IS THAT HOW YOU MODERATE?

I'm not the moderator of this section and i even find it weird that the topic was changed to make your aunt appear like the mumu here. I prefer the former topic abeg.

Mr..Cork:
bro.. did your aunty marrry a IBO farmer?

'an'. Thank me later

If i tell you dat you a very big ba.sta.dized son of a billion clustered spe.rms of pest infested, HIV positive, halved di.ck, crippled and shapeless 17 stray he-goats will be an understatement. Useless retar.ded slowpoke dat dont know his boundary. why must you generalise to make ur point, u silly Yoruba racist?? She's a church leader, yet treat her hubby like thrash and you are telling us dat babalawo is not involved? Very big fair punk my foot. Well, I dont blame u nor ur gold-digging aunt, wat goes around must surely come around, i.diot!!

Ozegbe: I never wanted to post this for a very long time, but I couldn't just bear it today when I came back from church...

my aunty is married to this igbo guy who didn't go to school but has money. he has been working with chevron for 15 years and has a lot of business in Lagos. with the kind of money he has he can get a loving wife his heart desire, but he choose to stay with my aunty (she is beautiful and big,very very fair). I know igbo people like very fair and big ladies, but my aunty treats him like a slave and the guy dey annoy me. my aunty is actually the man of the house, why he is not not even the woman, he his like the house girl. my aunty is a very strong Christian who goes to church almost every day. I know her to the core, so the question of juju no even dey at all. my aunty taught him many things he knows today, like how to dress and go outing, all that stuff associated with big boys. he has money but behaves like a local village boy, maybe because he is always under the sea.

what kinda love is this? they have been living like this for many years, the guy family have tried to talk to him that this is not his wife but he won't listen. though she is my aunt, but I don't like the way he treats the guy. I use to stay with them. I just recently visited them and stayed a week and nothing has changed from what every body knows. the thing that baffles me is the fact that she is a very devoted Christian, a leader in her house fellowship. she is very friendly, kind and extremely generous. she plays a lot with people except the husband...

IMO I think she likes the guy money but not him. I

I just couldn't help it today when she was talking to the guy like a child and that one just sit down like mumu dey look outside. seriously I was ashamed. she can't even talk to me that way, I will rebuke her immediately...

so nairalanders what do you think about this.....is there anything I can do?

To the first bolded, are you sure that your aunty doesn't beat him
to the second bolded, your aunty is really the man of the house

Dude, know this...JUJU people are leaders in the church. Philanthropists, Prayer warriors...etc.. They are almost always active in church activities.

Is the man complaining? Perhaps that's his method of loving up. Do not interfere if you wish to continue enjoying the fringe benefits. I'd advise you to take advantage of the situation and get yourself hooked up with the IOC or any of it's subsidiaries or drlling contractors.

Besides, what can you possibly do?

sonikstargirl: point of correction MR, igbo pple dnt luv lyk mumu. Dat man has mental problem n dat ur aunty is nt a gud person at all.. Shikina!!!

so what can I do? actually I just dey pity the guy....I really don't want to get involved because I get so much things from her....make I no go use my hand spoil my show.

Les: If i tell you dat you a very big ba.sta.dized son of a billion clustered spe.rms of pest infested, HIV positive, halved di.ck, crippled and shapeless 17 stray he-goats will be an understatement. Useless retar.ded slowpoke dat dont know his boundary. why must you generalise to make ur point, u silly Yoruba racist?? She's a church leader, yet treat her hubby like thrash and you are telling us dat babalawo is not involved? Very big fair punk my foot. Well, I dont blame u nor ur gold-digging aunt, wat goes around must surely come around, i.diot!!

bros e never reach like this na....

the truth is she doesn't use juju, because n.a. the guy approach am from the very beginning...I knew the guy even before my aunt....the guy n.a. very shy person...e no get friends except him co workers maybe.....na. only family e get....those days when he comes back from sea he can stay in doors for 2 weeks before going back.....

me dey 100% convince say juju no follow

the woman don use jazz brainwash the man,thats the fisrt remote cause

If the guy has money as you claim and is not so bad looking, the moment a young beautiful woman so much as smiles at him will make him see himself as desirable. This will make him no longer take bullshit from his wife. Since this has never happened, o well. . . I didn't say jazz o!

Help him now before he dies the way my uncle died.if u really want help,let me know.I feel so sorry when I hear such things cos I know what my uncle saw before he later had stroke nd died.women,once they start climbing that tree nd u don't bring them down,when the get to the top most,the will balance nd start doing what ever u like.let me tell u,he is not happy wit the marrieg nd he can't even say,reason being that he is scared of his wife nd whaat her actions will be if she finds out.the last time I talked to my uncle was in the bush before I heard he had stroke nd died.this man might died if u don't do sometin.ur aunty wldnt even know u are the one doing it.it wll only make her change nd value her husband.

Ozegbe: I never wanted to post this for a very long time, but I couldn't just bear it today when I came back from church...

my aunty is married to this igbo guy who didn't go to school but has money. he has been working with chevron for 15 years and has a lot of business in Lagos. with the kind of money he has he can get a loving wife his heart desire, but he choose to stay with my aunty (she is beautiful and big,very very fair). I know igbo people like very fair and big ladies, but my aunty treats him like a slave and the guy dey annoy me. my aunty is actually the man of the house, why he is not not even the woman, he his like the house girl. my aunty is a very strong Christian who goes to church almost every day. I know her to the core, so the question of juju no even dey at all. my aunty taught him many things he knows today, like how to dress and go outing, all that stuff associated with big boys. he has money but behaves like a local village boy, maybe because he is always under the sea.

what kinda love is this? they have been living like this for many years, the guy family have tried to talk to him that this is not his wife but he won't listen. though she is my aunt, but I don't like the way he treats the guy. I use to stay with them. I just recently visited them and stayed a week and nothing has changed from what every body knows. the thing that baffles me is the fact that she is a very devoted Christian, a leader in her house fellowship. she is very friendly, kind and extremely generous. she plays a lot with people except the husband...

IMO I think she likes the guy money but not him. I

I just couldn't help it today when she was talking to the guy like a child and that one just sit down like mumu dey look outside. seriously I was ashamed. she can't even talk to me that way, I will rebuke her immediately...

so nairalanders what do you think about this.....is there anything I can do?

Afam4eva: Why was the title of the thread changed

@OP
That your aunt goes to church doesn't mean she can't involve herself in bendel insurance.

I hate men like that too...There's a man i know that his wife tells him to wash all the plates before she comes back. Is it jazz or what?

yeah,she may b d most powerful witch on earth

forget all those born again stuff, some of these so called big women attitude is terrible. u all will be very surprised that supposedly "wild" babes are far more better than our so called born again babes character-wise. maybe one should take a trip and see their exploit at work places, these women think they can bully everyone with their size.

hmmm dats serious but u can never know someboydy so well,,..am so short of words

You said "with the kind of money he has he can get a loving wife his heart desire, but he choose to stay with my aunty" obviously the woman he desired is his wife (your aunt). All that really matters is how he (the husband) perceives the marriage.

Ozegbe: I never wanted to post this for a very long time, but I couldn't just bear it today when I came back from church...

my aunty is married to this igbo guy who didn't go to school but has money. he has been working with chevron for 15 years and has a lot of business in Lagos. with the kind of money he has he can get a loving wife his heart desire, but he choose to stay with my aunty (she is beautiful and big,very very fair). I know igbo people like very fair and big ladies, but my aunty treats him like a slave and the guy dey annoy me. my aunty is actually the man of the house, why he is not not even the woman, he his like the house girl. my aunty is a very strong Christian who goes to church almost every day. I know her to the core, so the question of juju no even dey at all. my aunty taught him many things he knows today, like how to dress and go outing, all that stuff associated with big boys. he has money but behaves like a local village boy, maybe because he is always under the sea.

what kinda love is this? they have been living like this for many years, the guy family have tried to talk to him that this is not his wife but he won't listen. though she is my aunt, but I don't like the way he treats the guy. I use to stay with them. I just recently visited them and stayed a week and nothing has changed from what every body knows. the thing that baffles me is the fact that she is a very devoted Christian, a leader in her house fellowship. she is very friendly, kind and extremely generous. she plays a lot with people except the husband...

IMO I think she likes the guy money but not him. I

I just couldn't help it today when she was talking to the guy like a child and that one just sit down like mumu dey look outside. seriously I was ashamed. she can't even talk to me that way, I will rebuke her immediately...

so nairalanders what do you think about this.....is there anything I can do?

ma guy, with all due respect, how is that our business. Look different strokes for different people. Our people talk say monkey no fine but im mama like am. Why would u want to pour sand sand inside ur own aunties garri, what kind of nephew are u? Why don't u advice her better instead of come to NL to finish her. Did u read what u posted at all of ur own aunty. There are really our lots of evil men and bad bellies in this country we call Nigeria esp in NL. OMG!
Guy u got it all wrong with ur approcah to the matter, I tell u and NLers would tell u the samething.

KateSpade: You said "with the kind of money he has he can get a loving wife his heart desire, but he choose to stay with my aunty" obviously the woman he desired is his wife (your aunt). All that really matters is how he (the husband) perceives the marriage.

Ur uncle sees ur fair fat aunty as his soulmate so why destroy what they have....

A woman kills faster than HIV/AIDS

That man might slump someday dead and autopsy will report ''cardiac arrest'' while the ''illness'' celebrates adorning their victory garments, white or black robes looking for another victim.

some people over emphasize this born again thing . Born again that is church but not bible active. The bible says women shud emulate sarah who called abraham Lord. Is she obeying that!

kambo: some people over emphasize this born again thing . Born again that is church but not bible active. The bible says women shud emulate sarah who called abraham Lord. Is she obeying that!

90% of women hate this verse of sarah respect for abraham calling him lord

people like this usually don't have dating opportunities either because of work or just plain shyness and so any lady they hook up with they don't ever want to let go thinking that they 'll never get another.

that is the only reason that i can imagine. it is pathetic because they are married.

my girl wants to play same pranks with me, having to beg over and over again over issues that should be bygone. already issued yellow card, red card should come in the following weeks at the most before i end up like this man

e be like say u wan delete the thread.
Sorry o

KateSpade: You said "with the kind of money he has he can get a loving wife his heart desire, but he choose to stay with my aunty" obviously the woman he desired is his wife (your aunt). All that really matters is how he (the husband) perceives the marriage.

You are one that has said the most reasonable thing. Most of them here are just ranting. Most of their comments are pure scum made for the gutters. Most of them experience worst things in their marriages or relationships.

As u rightly said, it depends on how the man perceives his marriage. We all do different things for different reasons, we have different levels of tolerance. He knows her input in his life and he's in the best position to rationalise it.

Must everything be juju? If u spend too much on ur chick na juju, u give her more money than ur sister na juju, u buy her car na juju. Na wa o

[quote
author=Afam4eva]Why was the title of the thread changed

@OP
That your aunt goes to church doesn't mean she can't involve herself in
bendel insurance.

I hate men like that too...There's a man i know that his wife tells him
to wash all the plates before she comes back. Is it jazz or
what?[/quote]hihihi. ochi agaghi egbu m.

A very wise on man on this forum once posted this:

"Women are the weaker sex, not because their bones are not strong, but because they are very weak in resisting evil."

You will get the same treatment from EVERY WOMAN once you are weak and spineless. Women are evolutionary programmed to stay with strong men. So once a man 'lacks a spine' and the woman can walk all over him, she just loses all respect for him.

Your aunt's bitchy, witchy behaviour is actually a cry for help, a pleading to be contained, to be reigned in. She enjoys none of it.

Grow a spine bitches!