Why do some Parents Cherish and Care for one Child more than the other(s) Can we say its a cheat on the other side, or just a Natural thing?

leonshom: Why do some Parents Cherish and Care for one Child more than the other(s) Can we say its a cheat on the other side, or just a Natural thing?

is a natural thing nothing someone can do abt that. just that showing it is not gud and can even cause trouble. parents can show love to their children in equal measure but they can never love all of their children equally.

Sometimes you see your self in one child than the other.
Sometimes it is that one child is more caring and considerate.
However openly showing favoritism is a No-No, my son is so calm, Independent and organised, He doesn't give me a lot of trouble, his birth was easy and till now he just shows amazing kindness and responsibility.
My Second Baby and I didn't bond immediately, had a difficult pregnancy, almost lost my life and his, suffered Post Partum Depression after having him, He and His Dad used the period of my illness to bond. I love him but even as a baby he prefers his dad, he comes sucks and looks for his Dad.
When His dad comes from work he carries him on his chest and they lie down and watch tv, quietly.
My first son on the other hand sees his Dad as a rival, always quarelling with him for space. Reporting him to Me and His mother.
It happens but as a parent be balanced and fair

Because some children consistently behave better than others.

leonshom: Why do some Parents Cherish and Care for one Child more than the other(s) Can we say its a cheat on the other side, or just a Natural thing?

why do children love one parent more than the other?
we are humans - there's always going to be that one child you would be fond of - like jacob and joseph. it does not make the parents bad - it's just what it is.

Its natural........a certain child tends to behave positively better than some others.......even God says in d bible that........"esau, i hate, jacob, i love".


But, as a parent, one has to be careful not to let d kids know dt one of them is most favourable, so that it doesnt cause trouble/division among d kids.
May God help us all.