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Why Most Relationship Fail Woefully by NEROSKY(m): 9:49am On Jan 30, 2013
Most relationships fail because we spend too
much time pointing out each other's mistakes, &
not enough time enjoying each other's company.
If you think am telling lies add yours!
#D'nerosayso!

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Re: Why Most Relationship Fail Woefully by jhydebaba(m): 10:06am On Jan 30, 2013
The main reason is MONEY

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Re: Why Most Relationship Fail Woefully by ATMC(f): 10:29am On Jan 30, 2013
Another reason is lack of a good foundation. When we are attracted by d wrong thing, d relationship ends when we come to our senses. Then d saying 'd longevity of a relationship is determined by its foundation' is fulfilled.

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Re: Why Most Relationship Fail Woefully by seunfly: 10:52am On Jan 30, 2013
Most peaple don't know what they realy wanted in relationship, they recieve this, their friends said that, then they want that samething. Also many go into relationship for wrong reasons while many don't even know what it takes to have relationship.

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Re: Why Most Relationship Fail Woefully by Nobody: 10:59am On Jan 30, 2013
But relationships will fail again and again.

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Re: Why Most Relationship Fail Woefully by Nobody: 11:21am On Jan 30, 2013
If you want your r/ship to fail,do not work on it.
Re: Why Most Relationship Fail Woefully by idrisolaide(m): 11:30am On Jan 30, 2013
Well to me i would say why a relationship fail is based on other reason aside pointing out other mistakes.

As an example, am having a date with a girl for 7yrs now, though we both still contemplating on marriage proposals because the both families are widely aware of it. Now i realize the same girl has a hidden relationship that i don't know about and now this is giving me a though time to believe am not been centered. Because at every point i tried to settle thing and make a good reconciliation, something will always struck my mind as i now realize the trust i have for her and her family has been swept off.

So in my situation what do you guys suggest i can do?

undecided

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Re: Why Most Relationship Fail Woefully by slimming: 12:41pm On Jan 30, 2013
desire to let go or forgive may be lacking

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Re: Why Most Relationship Fail Woefully by uzeba(m): 2:05pm On Jan 30, 2013
Relationship fail because some people don't look at it 4rm the biblical aspect!!

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Re: Why Most Relationship Fail Woefully by 2bosun: 2:07pm On Jan 30, 2013
sex before marriage

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Re: Why Most Relationship Fail Woefully by izenco2005(m): 2:09pm On Jan 30, 2013
Believe click like

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Re: Why Most Relationship Fail Woefully by iamswizz(m): 2:13pm On Jan 30, 2013
Relationships fail because the Man/woman expects their partners to be Perfect...









Which offcourse, is impossible

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Re: Why Most Relationship Fail Woefully by redcliff: 2:14pm On Jan 30, 2013
idrisolaide: Well to me i would say why a relationship fail is based on other reason aside pointing out other mistakes.

As an example, am having a date with a girl for 7yrs now, though we both still contemplating on marriage proposals because the both families are widely aware of it. Now i realize the same girl has a hidden relationship that i don't know about and now this is giving me a though time to believe am not been centered. Because at every point i tried to settle thing and make a good reconciliation, something will always struck my mind as i now realize the trust i have for her and her family has been swept off.

So in my situation what do you guys suggest i can do?

undecided

A girl that did that to you and you are totally sure she likes you means one of two reasons. either you gave her a reason to have a hidden relationship or she is insecure about herself. If its the latter, you have to move on bro.

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Re: Why Most Relationship Fail Woefully by iamswizz(m): 2:17pm On Jan 30, 2013
Relationships fail because the woman/Man expects their partner to be perfect..




which offcourse.. Is impossible

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Re: Why Most Relationship Fail Woefully by Dygeasy(m): 2:19pm On Jan 30, 2013
idrisolaide: Well to me i would say why a relationship fail is based on other reason aside pointing out other mistakes.

As an example, am having a date with a girl for 7yrs now, though we both still contemplating on marriage proposals because the both families are widely aware of it. Now i realize the same girl has a hidden relationship that i don't know about and now this is giving me a though time to believe am not been centered. Because at every point i tried to settle thing and make a good reconciliation, something will always struck my mind as i now realize the trust i have for her and her family has been swept off.

So in my situation what do you guys suggest i can do?

undecided
Open your own thread!!!




The OP already stated the reason, TRUST! Which is exactly the reason in your case. If the OP would be nice enought to give an antidote to trust issues iono


But I repeat open ur own thread!!
Re: Why Most Relationship Fail Woefully by Nobody: 2:21pm On Jan 30, 2013
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Re: Why Most Relationship Fail Woefully by Truckpusher(m): 2:22pm On Jan 30, 2013
ATMC: Another reason is lack of a good foundation. When we are attracted by d wrong thing, d relationship ends when we come to our senses. Then d saying 'd longevity of a relationship is determined by its foundation' is fulfilled.
good one ,you're on point.

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Re: Why Most Relationship Fail Woefully by goodmike7: 2:24pm On Jan 30, 2013
idrisolaide: Well to me i would say why a relationship fail is based on other reason aside pointing out other mistakes.

As an example, am having a date with a girl for 7yrs now, though we both still contemplating on marriage proposals because the both families are widely aware of it. Now i realize the same girl has a hidden relationship that i don't know about and now this is giving me a though time to believe am not been centered. Because at every point i tried to settle thing and make a good reconciliation, something will always struck my mind as i now realize the trust i have for her and her family has been swept off.

So in my situation what do you guys suggest i can do?

undecided

I advise you to cancel every marriage plans,if she has another guy while dating you for 7yrs then she will still sleep with the guy after you marry her,but I wonder how some of you fall in love stupidly....what tribe is she??I guess youruba.

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Re: Why Most Relationship Fail Woefully by gerald09(m): 2:28pm On Jan 30, 2013
Relationships fails cos men and women have different perspective on what they want from a relationship
A man want a woman to love him for who he is, have sex wit him as much as possible and a woman that will stand by him.

A woman wants EVERYTHING.............

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Re: Why Most Relationship Fail Woefully by obowunmi(m): 2:29pm On Jan 30, 2013
1. selfishness and self centeredness
2. Lack of communication

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Re: Why Most Relationship Fail Woefully by BlackPeni5: 2:31pm On Jan 30, 2013
They fail due to unreasonable expectations from parties...
Re: Why Most Relationship Fail Woefully by hoochay: 2:32pm On Jan 30, 2013
una to like relationship matter self mcthewwwww,but wait oooo,e nor even concern me self,just asking oooo
Re: Why Most Relationship Fail Woefully by chikeorji123(m): 2:40pm On Jan 30, 2013
uzeba: Relationship fail because some people don't look at it 4rm the biblical aspect!!

U said it all!..
Re: Why Most Relationship Fail Woefully by Orikinla(m): 2:41pm On Jan 30, 2013
NEROSKY: Most relationships fail because we spend too
much time pointing out each other's mistakes, &
not enough time enjoying each other's company.
If you think am telling lies add yours!
#D'nerosayso!

The only relationship I consider a failure is the one where you failed to bang the babe before una break up. But if you fork am well well before she waka go, then no cry, because you don do your own turn. Make others take their turns too.
DON'T BE TOO SELFISH. WHEN THERE ARE STILL PLENTY OF FISH TO HOOK FOR SEA. grin
ABI NA ONLY YOU GOD MAKE AM FOR
.
Hiss.
Re: Why Most Relationship Fail Woefully by mutiply: 2:41pm On Jan 30, 2013
goodmike7:

I advise you to cancel every marriage plans,if she has another guy while dating you for 7yrs then she will still sleep with the guy after you marry her,but I wonder how some of you fall in love stupidly....what tribe is she??I guess youruba.
Must you bring tribe into this issue,we all knw that no one is perfect so the girls in your hometown are not perfect either,besides the girl in question might even be your sister or relation.

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Re: Why Most Relationship Fail Woefully by valerie25(f): 2:48pm On Jan 30, 2013
ATMC: Another reason is lack of a good foundation. When we are attracted by d wrong thing, d relationship ends when we come to our senses. Then d saying 'd longevity of a relationship is determined by its foundation' is fulfilled.
.gbam!
Re: Why Most Relationship Fail Woefully by Nobody: 2:53pm On Jan 30, 2013
LACK OF TRUST!
Re: Why Most Relationship Fail Woefully by donrichy: 3:01pm On Jan 30, 2013
i think when there's no love
Re: Why Most Relationship Fail Woefully by sexybash(f): 3:01pm On Jan 30, 2013
every one wants a perfect partner but no one wants to be perfect grin and thats why most relationship fail,
who go call first,
who go first say i love you first
who go beg first humbleness is never a sign of weakness but strenght smiley
even in relationship where they claim to love themselves they still go around with pride, love shatter all procedures if love my man why wont i call him, why wont i beg him if i offend him, why wont kneel in front him in public, so if you want your relationship you should be willing to listen to your partner at all time, even when you are tired because that the only person that makes you happy
my one kobo grin



i dey wait for those girls that will attack me
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Re: Why Most Relationship Fail Woefully by xynerise: 3:02pm On Jan 30, 2013
grin

Re: Why Most Relationship Fail Woefully by marabout(m): 3:04pm On Jan 30, 2013
People are blinded by the wrong things.

Wrong priorities when chosing a partner.

You soon find out that the pointed nose, pert backside, head light bossoms, nice complxion, fine 4 x 4, fat income etc cannot make up the flaws of the person you've pitched your tent with.

Being inconsiderate, too proud, no shared dreams, no common purpose. Treating your partner the way you won't like to be treated. In fact, disbeying God's basic instructions.

These and more are the reasons.

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Re: Why Most Relationship Fail Woefully by Nobody: 3:07pm On Jan 30, 2013
jhydebaba: The main reason is MONEY
i think is lack of understand

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