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| Accept Money On The First Date by edwardaigb: 10:27pm On Mar 16, 2008 |
Guys help me out, i meet a lady last year in the gym and ask her on a date today, though lost contact with her since last year but call her up today for a date and she turned up only to accept money for transport on the way home afther the outing. though i dont have problem with it but is it right? she is 28 while I'm 31. advice pls because I DEY LOOK FOR WIFE OOOOOOOO |
| Re: Accept Money On The First Date by Nobody: 1:34am On Mar 17, 2008 |
edwardaigb:there are two things wrong here: 1. she used you, atleast you know that you admit it 2. you let her and saw nothing wrong in it because you're desperate for a wife. . .if she wants to walk over you, you'll let her. why? because you "dey look for a wife ooooooo". |
| Re: Accept Money On The First Date by iice(f): 4:28am On Mar 17, 2008 |
Errhhhh i no fit. . . Always carry my own money. . .always! |
| Re: Accept Money On The First Date by Easybaby(f): 7:58am On Mar 17, 2008 |
iice: To avoid wahala  |
| Re: Accept Money On The First Date by sistajay(f): 8:27am On Mar 17, 2008 |
@ edwardaigb You chose to offer her money she didn't ask for it, I see notin wrong in her acceptin the money you are a true gentleman. Remember money and woman go hand in hand. |
| Re: Accept Money On The First Date by Scopium: 8:49am On Mar 17, 2008 |
sista-jay: [size=13pt]You mean more like prostitutes?[/size] |
| Re: Accept Money On The First Date by 2dye4(m): 8:58am On Mar 17, 2008 |
iice: my dear, u av spoken like a true lady. that is what i call "vex money". u can be caught off guard with that. |
| Re: Accept Money On The First Date by Scopium: 9:00am On Mar 17, 2008 |
[size=13pt]You acted like a gentleman by giving the money, she should have acted like a lady by refusing it. I think it's too early for that sorta cash transaction.[/size] |
| Re: Accept Money On The First Date by 2dye4(m): 9:05am On Mar 17, 2008 |
Scopium: kinda true! i thot 21st century women are supposed to put up a front and play d " i won't be bought over" card but seems this one is easy like sunday morning! |
| Re: Accept Money On The First Date by kalmebad(f): 9:14am On Mar 17, 2008 |
@scopium We mustn't post just to make our presence noticed What is wrong with S-Jay post? expression of her own tot, and there u go calling her name @poster Did she ask u for transport fare?u didnt make us understand that,why coming here to open mouth And if she did, ur choice of either givin or not Two things here, she could hv asked for reason that genuinely she doesnt have (if at all she did) Or for reason of wat women are associated with , money! Whatever d case may be,it was a choice of urs and not an obligation, so its no big deal,dont come here making mountain out of a mole hill |
| Re: Accept Money On The First Date by hammers(m): 9:55am On Mar 17, 2008 |
I see nothing wrong with that. At least i can also ask for a kiss or more on the first date  |
| Re: Accept Money On The First Date by tonia2000(f): 9:58am On Mar 17, 2008 |
Posted by: kalmebad @poster Did she ask u for transport fare?u didnt make us understand that,why coming here to open mouth And if she did, your choice of either givin or not Two things here, she could hv asked for reason that genuinely she doesnt have (if at all she did) Or for reason of what women are associated with , money! Whatever d case may be,it was a choice of urs and not an obligation, so its no big deal,don't come here making mountain out of a mole hill Correct idea @poster It was your choice to dash out the money (according to your lamentations  ),who knows if she even rejected the offer.This story of yours sounds really  off topic |
| Re: Accept Money On The First Date by 2dye4(m): 10:02am On Mar 17, 2008 |
hammers: got a point hidden somewhere in there.who knows whether guy was offered the entire kitchen and he accepted it sef? |
| Re: Accept Money On The First Date by Macgreat(m): 10:45am On Mar 17, 2008 |
Sorry. . .i clicked reply post by mistake. Come to think of it,i would like to reply to this particular thread but i have alot of things to do. . . maybe later. it's was nice of you to offer her money but why do you even offer her the money if you know that you think that might not be a good thing
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| Re: Accept Money On The First Date by jkpretty(f): 10:57am On Mar 17, 2008 |
I don't get this, u offered her money for transport. Not like she asked u or begged u for it. Why on earth will she not collect it. Are u trying to say u were testing her to see if she'll collect it or not . Since when did accepting of money at the giver's free will become a measure to finding a good wife? People like this love pretenders. may u get the pretender u seek. |
| Re: Accept Money On The First Date by sistajay(f): 12:30pm On Mar 17, 2008 |
@scopium Abeg go find out the meanin of PROSTITUTE, when I said money and woman go hand in hand eh, means you can't have one without the other. Have you ever spent money on a woman and I don't mean sex? |
| Re: Accept Money On The First Date by darlingD(m): 12:55pm On Mar 17, 2008 |
jkpretty, 2 gbosah for you girl. I dnt understand all these guys sef! |
| Re: Accept Money On The First Date by PurestBoy(m): 1:00pm On Mar 17, 2008 |
She must be a LovePeddler for accepting money on the first date. My guy please forget her and look ahead. |
| Re: Accept Money On The First Date by Pepeye(f): 1:27pm On Mar 17, 2008 |
Given the fact that you gave her the money out of your own volition , then why are you complaining? She didn’t ask for it neither did she twist your arm for it , thats not a criteria to detect if she is mercenary or not as long as she doesn’t bombard you with her wants next time …. |
| Re: Accept Money On The First Date by Busta(f): 1:31pm On Mar 17, 2008 |
@ poster, just like JK and Pepeye said, if u offered her the money and she accepted, I don't nuthing wrong with that . . . although i won't do it cos I got my own ride. but if she asked u for transport then, thats a different case . . . she's a broke ass girl or she just wanna use u. |
| Re: Accept Money On The First Date by Bblak(f): 1:52pm On Mar 17, 2008 |
Hmmmmm. *********Sighs************* |
| Re: Accept Money On The First Date by Nobody: 1:59pm On Mar 17, 2008 |
@ 'Purest Boy' Maybe you should check the definition for LovePeddler before declaring her. You don't know if perhaps after taking her for the date he decided not to take her home? Hence the transport fare. How much was it any way? All this to do, TP dough makest not a LovePeddler |
| Re: Accept Money On The First Date by Scopium: 2:16pm On Mar 17, 2008 |
kalmebad: [size=13pt]Can you imagine this luckless notice-me? Where did I call Sista-Jay name? Or is it that your cerebrum was replaced with your rectum[/size] |
| Re: Accept Money On The First Date by Frando29(m): 2:59pm On Mar 17, 2008 |
@poster, U made it sound as if the gal was asking you for money to do her hair or to buy her some clothes. In case u don't know, the guy should see it as a point of duty to make sure that the gal he asked out got home, either by driving her home or getting a taxi for her. I dont see anything wrong whatsoever in her accepting the money, more especially when u offered it. Had it been she rejected the money, you would have insisted she accepted it from you. As for your wife hunting, I must advise you to be careful not to make such things a criteria for wife selection, cos u will end up with the fake ladies that will ruin you for life. Go for the natuaral ladies man! Goodluck in your search. |
| Re: Accept Money On The First Date by kalmebad(f): 3:14pm On Mar 17, 2008 |
@purestboy Ur sense of reasoning is still shalow,please broaden up |
| Re: Accept Money On The First Date by kalmebad(f): 3:27pm On Mar 17, 2008 |
@scopium If there is anytin i hate, is to banter words with people @ ur Post "You mean more like a prostitute", and S-Jay has also reacted to it,let us not use derogatory words on people when unccessary is d reason i drive home here I will rather say u are the one who has replace cerebrum for rectum |
| Re: Accept Money On The First Date by sillyboy(m): 3:37pm On Mar 17, 2008 |
The fact that there was an acceptance means that there was an offer. And it's only natural to accept an offer that is attractive. So my guess is that you gave an attractive offer. Believe me had your offer been poor, she wouldn't have accepted it. Ladies are bound to turn down an offer that's not attractive. I really don't like ladies taking cash from guys, "it kind of fall their rep" to me. That's the last type of test i give a lady am interested in. If she must have passed all other tests, then she must pass the money test which to a great extent will indicate her self-respect and esteem. |
| Re: Accept Money On The First Date by Scopium: 4:41pm On Mar 17, 2008 |
kalmebad: [size=13pt]Sista-Jay never said I called her name, she understood what I said and her reaction potrays that. But you? Some idiot is becoming a nuisance over her lack of understanding.[/size] |
| Re: Accept Money On The First Date by pahtahkee: 5:15pm On Mar 17, 2008 |
@ Poster, Try arrange yourself first. I am sure if you had a car, you won't be here telling us you gave her transport money. I know it is not easy in the country, but you giving her transport money speaks of how you see her. For the lady asking for money, my question to her is: How in the first place did she get to the place where you met each other? Abi she be winch wey fly come?  Personally, from experience, such ladies I will run away from them immediately. |
| Re: Accept Money On The First Date by janami(f): 8:28pm On Mar 17, 2008 |
pahtahkee:true talk. @poster wot girl asks for transport fare after a first date  ? na wa o. as iice said . . . . . . i dey carry my own money o |
| Re: Accept Money On The First Date by almondjoy(f): 9:03pm On Mar 17, 2008 |
I would not accept such a gift on the first date. Even if I was dirt poor! Now as far as looking for a wifey! There is more to that than a first date or first impression. The best of relationships are the ones you grow up and learn together. Some people never learned basic things in life due to a disadvantaged background. This incident alone does not make her less of a wife material. You will have to study this lady and know her strongest and weakest points for you to make a final decision. If you throw money around. . . you are bound to attract gold diggers! You can only attract what you give and take!  |
| Re: Accept Money On The First Date by ifyalways(f): 9:07pm On Mar 17, 2008 |
lol God wud bless the cheerful giver. wud bless the careless accepter i wont accept a gift of cash on a first date anyway.  |
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