A first child in a family carries a whole lot of responsibilities as he/she grows up which are quite numerous, if u had the choice to choose which u want for a first child, which would you go for a Male or a female, with reasons please. I would prefer a female as a first child, coss females are always more responsible and caring than males and they do always set good precedence for their younger ones, females are also more trustworthy and Obedient than Males, females are more dutiful than males also and so on and so forth. Your opinions please.

As the Yorubas say "Ewo ni o ki n se omo?" Which one of them is not a child?

MMotimo: As the Yorubas say "Ewo ni o ki n se omo?" Which one of them is not a child?

thank you jare,
@op, if you are still waiting after several years of your wedding, praying to God to answers your prayers, im sure you wont be bothered on d gender of d baby.
Anyway, any gender we get, may we not have cause to regret having them. That is my own.
May God help us all.

@ Poster, I'd rather have a healthy child, thank you.