I saw this somewhere and i decided to share.

When the armed robbers attacked us in my home and told me to remove my dress, i was scared. They wanted to rape me right in front of my husband and only son. One of them pointed a gun at my son and threatened to shoot if i do not cooperate.

Then my husband screamed at me to get off my dress and stop stalling. "Just get your dress off and lie on the floor" he shouted. He made them râpe me. As if that wasn't enough,my husband has not had sex with me since the incident. He has been acting funny. We fight at almost every little thing. My marriage is crumbling. I have not forgiven him and i don't think i will. My son will be three in november.

Do i just go ahead with divorce and raise my son alone?

Errm, what do you guys think should be done to save this marriage? I don't know if things like this still happen...hmmm.

Naija film

Abdul Adam56: Naija film

Shey? I laughed when i saw it too. If i hear...it's too funny to be real jor

Caracta:
Shey? I laughed when i saw it too. If i hear...it's too funny to be real jor

Do you have to experience it before you know things like this sometimes happen? And you knew it was too funny to be real and still went ahead to open a thread on it? Hell to the no!

chaircover: Funny!!!!

I pray never happens to me or any one else for that matter. I def dont think its funny!

@post couple should seek professional independent counseling from people who dont already know them.

Let me quickly use this opportunity to thank Madam Chaircover for her insightful comments in this section. You are the no 1 person on nairaland I wud love to meet in d real world. God bless u and ur lucky hubby. Same goes for Debrief, greatgod and oda women who amaze with words of wisdom on a faceless forum.

Next time op,advertise other films before you start your own story.

This isnt funny at all, and it can be real, something close to this happened to a couple i know very well, what they did was travelling abroad, for d past 10 years now, they havent checked back and i doubt if they can ever come to stay in Naija again........ So, to d couple here, they can go for counselling and also change enviroment, its not an experience one prays for, not even for ones enemy to have, but.....God knows d best.
May God help us all.

sholay2011:

Let me quickly use this opportunity to thank Madam Chaircover for her insightful comments in this section. You are the no 1 person on nairaland I wud love to meet in d real world. God bless u and ur lucky hubby. Same goes for Debrief, greatgod and oda women who amaze with words of wisdom on a faceless forum.

thanks, God bless you too!
Only God is wise.

@greatgod and chaircover, thanks for your comments. Wow! It's an eye-opener. So things like this can actually happen. Na wa o. What kind of world do we live in? Thanks a lot. People can actually learn from this.

Caracta: @greatgod and chaircover, thanks for your comments. Wow! It's an eye-opener. So things like this can actually happen. Na wa o. What kind of world do we live in? Thanks a lot. [b]People can actually learn from this.[b]

Learn ke?
Learn what?
How to stop armed robbers from raping you or your wife?
Or how to deal with the situation afterwards?
My dear,I don't think there is anything to learn here.We can only pray that we never find ourself in situations such as this.

@slimyem, i was referring to those that have experienced something like this or similar. I do not want to be in this kind of situation. May God keep protecting us. Goodmorning.

*clears throat*at least edit the english

*clears throat*at least edit the english I can't focus on the story “he made them molestation me” seriously?

pompori king: *clears throat*at least edit the english I can't focus on the story “he made them molestation me” seriously?

Done. Are you a newbie? It wasn't an error...Seun at work. Anyway, thanks.

NOLLYWOOD!

this is a script...i sense such when i see them.
next...

Caracta: Then my husband screamed at me to get off my dress and stop stalling. "Just get your dress off and lie on the floor" he shouted.

the above part is what had me laughing..... see as this man is quick to tell his wife to do the do, while we can be 90% sure that if the armed robber was gay and pointed that same gun at their son while asking the husband to UnCloth, that poor child would have been dead by now. that is the hypocrisy of men in such situation.

@OP
there is nothing to save in this marriage, especially when a husband is quick to ask his wife to UnCloth and be defiled instead of begging armed robbers for mercy FIRST........while wifey blames HUSBAND for what happened. that is one really confused couple.

This is from a Nollywood movie. I just saw the scene yesterday.

Terrible I must say.

MRbrownJAY:

the above part is what had me laughing..... see as this man is quick to tell his wife to do the do, while we can be 90% sure that if the armed robber was gay and pointed that same gun at their son while asking the husband to UnCloth, that poor child would have been dead by now. that is the hypocrisy of men in such situation.

@OP
there is nothing to save in this marriage, especially when a husband is quick to ask his wife to UnCloth and be defiled instead of begging armed robbers for mercy FIRST........while wifey blames HUSBAND for what happened. that is one really confused couple.

Pssst! so you mean if a wife is about to be r:aped when a gun is pointed on her family she would wait till her husband okays it Abi ? like that makes sense, the robbers woulda bonked her regardless the husband tells her to get started with the P. they pointed the gun at them to make her succumb to the Shi.

And the P about if they were ga.y robbers,that ish was something you heard in a joke. How many r.ape robbery stories have you heard like that. Hypothetically let's say it's possible, the P will seldomly occur.except you plan on startin it.

if this story is true I think the woman was just vexed that the hubby said give them a taste of what I enjoy and she failed to realize how awkwardly cold or hot the barrell of a gun can be on your neck. And yes I've seen it in a Nolly's movie only the hubby didn't say to the wife to give up the punany

they need counseling and psychotherapy lots of it. How are they now?

Caracta:
I saw this somewhere and i decided to share.



Errm, what do you guys think should be done to save this marriage? I don't know if things like this still happen...hmmm.

I really can't fault both parties,such a situation took place under duress... They should sit down and talk things over or go for a counselling and therapy class.. Better still they can get an elder or a man of God to sit down and talk but i wouldn't encourage divorce... Hi D it's Mike,my former i.d had issues

Caracta:
I saw this somewhere and i decided to share.



Errm, what do you guys think should be done to save this marriage? I don't know if things like this still happen...hmmm.

I feel so bad reading this. That's such a shameful act. What I think is that they were actually sent to disrupt u guys marriage, its an enemy attack. Right in front ur hubby and son was truely unthinkable.
I don't know how u feel, all I can say is SORRY FOR EXPERIENCING THAT