1. Love and honour your mother. Learn from her
mistakes. It will save you a lot of headache in your
thirties (30s) and beyond.

2. You are more talented than you’ll ever know. You
don’t need to sleep with your Boss/ supervisor to
get a promotion at work or better grades at school.
Burn late night candles; put extra time to study
and practice until you master your skill. Hard work
still pays well and does not kill.

3. Women can build a strong support network.
Don’t let few ladies with “Pull Her Down” {PHD}
syndrome discourage you from cultivating true
relationship with your female friends.

4. When a man you meet for the first time babbles
about how much he earns working for an oil
company and how rich he is, that is a red flag. He
is either a married smooth-talker who just wants to
sleep with you or he is childish. Walk away from
deceit.

5. Make your own money. Start small. Maintain a
stable bank account. It will keep you out of trouble.

6. When you meet your Soul mate, don’t forget to
wear your most priceless ornament- submission
and humility. But while waiting for him, don’t cling
to any man to rescue you. Some men these days
are also seeking for who will rescue them.

7. Know your body. Look at yourself in front of a
full-length mirror at least once a week, naked and
after clothed. Know your body and how it works.

8. Life is a gift. But to revel in it, you must be ready
to put a lot into nurturing your gifts/talents and
skills. Start early.

9. Teenage ended at 19. Clocking 20 means doing
away with childish behaviour. But it does not mean
you should forget to have fun. You can catch fun
and not be dirty.

10. Learn the basic skills and let yourself grow-
from how to keep your underwear clean, cook,
socialize, and network to how to drive a car.

11. Don’t do drugs. It kills. Read books, it fortifies.
Dance as often as you can, it liberates your spirit,
soul and body.

12. Learn to laugh at yourself. It is a good way to
build a healthy self-esteem.

13. Eat healthy. Learn to cook for yourself. Don’t
rely on noodles alone. The cooking skill will be
useful in future.

14. Don’t give up when you fail. Try again and
again. Don’t give up on education/ learning.

15. Fear of the future. It is a state of mind you
must learn to tame. Don’t let fear pull the carpet
from under your feet. The Holy Bible tells us that
God has not given us a spirit of fear but of power,
love and a sound mind.

16. Let go of past hurts. You cannot move forward
if you keep looking back. Holding on to bitter
experiences and regrets will stale your future.

17. Learn to exhale, love deeply and be kind to
others, especially those of low estate, and the
lowest of low.

18. You are beautiful the way you are. Don’t
compare yourself to others.

19. Partnership builds bridges. Don’t ever forget
that.

20. Prayer is the master key. Have faith in God and
always have the courage to use your voice wisely.
Dream big today.

FEAR simply means False Evidence Appearing Real.
Enjoy the highs and lows that come with being in
your 20s but don’t be afraid to grow older. Live life
to the fullest and don’t forget to smile always!

Happy New Month!!!!

Bitter truth,ladies shey una dey hear.cool write up.comment to 1st

buccal: Bitter truth,ladies shey una dey hear.cool write up.comment to 1st

We gotta let our honies know the truth! I hope they learn from this and not criticize me!

Hmmmm..., I like it,thanks.

So truuue

luvmijeje: Hmmmm..., I like it,thanks.

I'm honored!

@muaa:
So truuue

Thanks baby

Nice 1... Thanks

CocoSprinkles: Nice 1... Thanks

You're welcome sweet!

word!

obowunmi: Number 7 is my favorite.

Bad Boy!!!!

Nice write up, it is well

Ijele-igbo:


I'm honored!

So cool.keep it up!

Great post, Ijele-igbo!

4. When a man you meet for the first time babbles
about how much he earns working for an oil
company and how rich he is, that is a red flag. He
is either a married smooth-talker who just wants to
sleep with you or he is childish. Walk away from
deceit.

What if he's single and rich nko?

Abeg comot from here jor

Nice post, except the drug part.

obowunmi: Number 7 is my favorite.

ao i wish i were a mirror

olumaxi: ao i wish i were a mirror

You wanna see different size of pussies and boobies........

Thanks for this words,really enlightening and encouraging