I have a good friend who is now married since about one year to this wife. He was forced by his parents to marry her but he didnot love her. He lose his job at the end of 2012, so at the moment he has no job. His wife who has a good job in an private hospital in nigeria and a master degree start to prepair her PhD in an other country. She told him that he has to pay her house in the other country. She give up her job at a time she knows that her husband has lose his job and she start with her PhD. My friend didnot know at the moment how he could get the money together to pay the house of his wife and her life there and his own house and life in nigeria.

He told me that he has to give up his house in nigeria because he cannot afford to pay both.

What should he do. He is broken.

I don't know what i should tell him, please help me out.

she is selfish and senseless. does she expect the man to steal? You guy should do wot he can at the moment. I hope things will be better for him later.

It is not by force to pay for her Phd. if he cannot afford it now. Let me guess- "he wants to prove he is a big boy."

Why do people do things they cannot afford? You cant afford it, simple. Let her parents pay for it. Abi he wants to live under the bridge? You must first have food and shelter for yourself, before thinking of anyone with unreasonable desires. Let her find another husband that can take care of her and her crazy dreams. Doesnt seem like a kid is involved. This is even easier sef. Shior!

I know that he is not a big boy, he works on some projects but an other woman help him that he get some money. He has a company together with a woman in an other country who want to show that nigeria is not a bad country and that all nigerians are not bad.
they have a company together but the money come from this other woman because she has good connections from her work she is a real business woman.

nora544: I know that he is not a big boy, he works on some projekts but an other woman help him that he get some money. He has a company together with a woman in an other country who want to show that nigeria is not a bad country and that all nigerians are not bad.
they have a company together but the money come from this other woman because she has good connections from her work she is a reak business woman.

Seems to me that this guy is lying all the way for your sympathy, he wants to move into your finances, house and between your legs, ask me why I said this?

Odenigbo Aroli.:


Seems to me that this guy is lying all the way for your sympathy, he wants to move into your finances, house and between your legs, ask me why I said this?

I want to kmow more
please let me know

nora544:
I want to kmow more
please let me know

For a man to tell you all of this shows he does not have the means, and instead of him to get down and dirty and work like a donkey to make money since he is feeding no child, he is there boasting to you about the company he set up with yet another woman but cannot make money from it because the other woman owns the company bla bla bla.....

His homeless, soon to be homeless story is meant for you to invite him in, do you live with a man now, are you comfortably feeding yourself?

Oh, so this is a possible ongoing scam. Nora, tell us who you are, where you are at the moment and who this guy is to you. I am a bit confused. Your english is not too good.

baby_123: Oh, so this is a possible ongoing scam. Nora, tell us who you are, where you are at the moment and who this guy is to you. I am a bit confused. Your english is not too good.

Happens all the time, men seek out ladies who are well to do, single and sometimes insecure. They spin stories that will get them all sympathetic and get her on his side, they pretend they were just unlucky with their former relationship. Girls will like to have mercy on him, help him find his feet in the hope he will thank you with walking you down the aisle, he may be doing this to 5 ladies at the same time.

Nora, you have no business giving money to this guy.

I cant understand the English on this thread

Musiwa is that you?

nora544: I know that he is not a big boy, he works on some projects but an other woman help him that he get some money. He has a company together with a woman in an other country who want to show that nigeria is not a bad country and that all nigerians are not bad.
they have a company together but the money come from this other woman because she has good connections from her work she is a real business woman.

are u a Russian?

Odenigbo Aroli.:


Happens all the time, men seek out ladies who are well to do, single and sometimes insecure. They spin stories that will get them all sympathetic and get her on his side, they pretend they were just unlucky with their former relationship. Girls will like to have mercy on him, help him find his feet in the hope he will thank you with walking you down the aisle, he may be doing this to 5 ladies at the same time.

I really couldnt understand what she was saying. It seemed she was posting another person's problem on here. But what you said makes sense. Hope she can come back and write better sha, so we can advise her.

dayokanu: I cant understand the English on this thread

Musiwa is that you?

looool, sounds like musiwa speak.

dayokanu: I cant understand the English on this thread

Musiwa is that you?

baby_123:

looool, sounds like musiwa speak.

Gasp!
I am so offended on musiwa's behalf right now.

What do you call THIS

dayokanu: I cant understand the English on this thread

Musiwa is that you?

I haff die!

Sisi_Kill:
What do you call THIS

Just read part of the post...I think Musiwa has now acquired the services of a translator .

Divorce looms - if they don't get help.