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To Marry Or Not To Marry by LadyB(f): 1:25pm On May 06, 2006
would you rather stay single or marry what are your reasons? did apostle paul encouraged christians to remain single more than to be married in 1corinthians 37 it says: nevertheless he who stands steadfast in his heart , having no necessity, but has the power over his own will, and has so determined in his heart that he will keep his virgin, does well.and verse 38 says: so then he who gives her in marriage does well, but he who does not give her in marriage does better. what do you guys think?
Re: To Marry Or Not To Marry by eveseh(f): 5:47pm On May 06, 2006
i wanna marry
Re: To Marry Or Not To Marry by LadyB(f): 1:32pm On May 08, 2006
definetly am going to get married . it is a decision i've make.
sometimes that bible vesre just make me wonder thats all.
Re: To Marry Or Not To Marry by babymine(f): 1:52pm On May 08, 2006
I'm going to get married and soon. cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: To Marry Or Not To Marry by DaHitler(m): 2:24pm On May 09, 2006
Remain single. Marrage would completely ruin your life, and not to mention once the honey moon is over, the best thing that can happen is that you become a maid to your Husband. At worst, you become a slave/punching bag. Think twice. And don't have children either. Life is not worth spreading.
Re: To Marry Or Not To Marry by Seun(m): 2:30pm On May 09, 2006
I want to agree with you. We lost our best member - her husband simply told her to stop participating. shocked
Re: To Marry Or Not To Marry by Reverend(m): 2:32pm On May 09, 2006
To commit yourself to somebody does not require a piece of paper or a ceremony! Do not be pressurized into marriage because of religious superstitions or that you believe living and sleeping with each other outside of marriage is a sin! It is not!

Respect and love for one another is the key!

I know of many people who have lived together as man and wife for many years who are happy and would not change it for the World. Then again I know many others who are in tragic marriages unable to part ways becuase of the stigma.

Think very carefully, if it is for the dress, the cake and the presents then don't do it! It is cheaper to go out and buy them without the wedding.

If you are being pressurized into it for moral reasons then do not run into it before thinking carefully before making the commitment.

Do not forget, there are allot of things that marriage will not necessary bring you. Happiness is one of them!
Re: To Marry Or Not To Marry by DaHitler(m): 2:33pm On May 09, 2006
Wow. Yeah, I really do not like when men treat women badly. Religious leaders should do a better job as portraying women as equals.
Re: To Marry Or Not To Marry by IAH(f): 8:38pm On May 09, 2006
To marry, definitely. wink cheesy cheesy
Re: To Marry Or Not To Marry by akani(m): 1:05pm On May 11, 2006
i think its better to get married.what good and pleasure u derived from being single?infact getting married save u from all harrasment as in humanhood.it bail u from sexual bondage and unneccessary lust of life.having a carbon copy or photocopy (child/ren) of yourself isnt great?i can tell u that those remain single so to say r still under sexual bondage each time: they were tempted one way or the other to porn films,sigthing sexy postures and all sort.i can prove to u that God is even more please with the issue of marriage eg adam &eve etc.
what good would u derived from being single?Atleast "Two heads are better than one"say the bible no companion, helper or assistance nothing.infact life will be too too boring i say!
Its better to get married once and for all.
Re: To Marry Or Not To Marry by kimba(m): 3:17pm On May 11, 2006
@Seun
I want to agree with you.  We lost our best member - her husband simply told her to stop participating
Who are you talking about?



YES!!, I want to get married. Mrs. Kimba, are you there? cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: To Marry Or Not To Marry by 2cantango(f): 3:21pm On May 11, 2006
I want to get married angry undecided
Re: To Marry Or Not To Marry by Dojo(m): 3:27pm On May 11, 2006
Na wa o
Re: To Marry Or Not To Marry by LadyB(f): 6:57am On May 12, 2006
@ afein - not all men would subject their wife to slavery u know.
Re: To Marry Or Not To Marry by lioness(f): 11:36am On Nov 07, 2006
Honestly, am not so keen on marriage but the pressure from society/church/parents is killing me.
I fear that if am not happy in my marriage, am gonna walk out.
Re: To Marry Or Not To Marry by Nobody: 5:11pm On Nov 09, 2006
Reverend:

To commit yourself to somebody does not require a piece of paper or a ceremony! Do not be pressurized into marriage because of religious superstitions or that you believe living and sleeping with each other outside of marriage is a sin! It is not!

Respect and love for one another is the key!

I know of many people who have lived together as man and wife for many years who are happy and would not change it for the World. Then again I know many others who are in tragic marriages unable to part ways becuase of the stigma.

Think very carefully, if it is for the dress, the cake and the presents then don't do it! It is cheaper to go out and buy them without the wedding.

If you are being pressurized into it for moral reasons then do not run into it before thinking carefully before making the commitment.

Do not forget, there are allot of things that marriage will not necessary bring you. Happiness is one of them!

I totally I agree with you. Especially in the bold lines.
Re: To Marry Or Not To Marry by lioness(f): 1:14pm On Nov 15, 2006
undecided
Re: To Marry Or Not To Marry by Reverend(m): 10:15pm On Nov 15, 2006
It is strange to me that many females on this forum have no other ambition in life than getting married!

Very sad!
Re: To Marry Or Not To Marry by lioness(f): 9:03am On Nov 16, 2006
Most pple have "marriage fever" I want to marry, i want to marry,. As though thats the ultimate and all their problems go away after marriage. Duh! tongue
Re: To Marry Or Not To Marry by tEsLim(m): 2:27am On Dec 23, 2006
I'll get marry too as many wives as I can. But wives in different continents or countries so I dont die young
Re: To Marry Or Not To Marry by iice(f): 10:55am On Dec 24, 2006
tEsLim:

I'll get marry too as many wives as I can. But wives in different continents or countries so I don't die young

It will be taxing on your person just trying to keep up with them all and in all different locations, dying young will be welcomed by that point
Re: To Marry Or Not To Marry by ThoniaSlim(f): 4:03pm On Dec 24, 2006
me i go marry ohh cool
Re: To Marry Or Not To Marry by Reverend(m): 6:11pm On Dec 24, 2006
Ideally I would like to have 8 wifes and name them Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday and Spare Wife (in case I get a flat) grin grin
Re: To Marry Or Not To Marry by ThoniaSlim(f): 9:19pm On Dec 24, 2006
lipsrsealed
Re: To Marry Or Not To Marry by iice(f): 9:21pm On Dec 24, 2006
@Reverend, and you shall call them 'The Days' no need to remember their names, just assign them days of when to sleep with you and you will be set into that routine tongue grin grin
Re: To Marry Or Not To Marry by ThoniaSlim(f): 9:34am On Dec 25, 2006
grin grin
Re: To Marry Or Not To Marry by Reverend(m): 10:31am On Dec 25, 2006
Maybe when I get older I will name them after the Months or even years grin

But then again there is always Viagra grin grin
Re: To Marry Or Not To Marry by iice(f): 10:58am On Dec 25, 2006
Months? meaning you will add more, making it 12 months? I like it. . .'The Months' tongue grin grin
Re: To Marry Or Not To Marry by lioness(f): 12:30pm On Dec 27, 2006
how can a woman make love to one man for the rest of her live

Chei God! U too much oh undecided
Re: To Marry Or Not To Marry by Lateefah: 7:31pm On Dec 27, 2006
God commanded each and every one of us to get married as soon as we are capable to do so. So, dear friends better get married now or else lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed yawa go happen.
See yeah
Re: To Marry Or Not To Marry by Busta(f): 5:18am On Dec 28, 2006
wateva that is mean't to be will surely be.

u can't force it.
Re: To Marry Or Not To Marry by Uche2nna(m): 5:19am On Dec 28, 2006
lioness:

how can a woman make love to one man for the rest of her live

Chei God! U too much oh undecided


This shit is hilarious grin grin grin grin grin

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