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Save Him: A True Life Story by Skylee(m): 4:39am On Mar 16, 2013
Hi Nairalanders, pls, I need only matured answers & not jokes.
My name is seun. Deji is a friend of mine from secondary school. We met precisely in JSS 3. He's a christian & devoted. While we're in school even till tertiary school, we never had sex wit a woman, not once! Last december, I got married & my friend is now planning 2 wed dis year.
Last January, Deji & his fiance tried 2 have sex since they're planning wedding, but 2 his greatest disappointment, he was unable 2 penetrate her fiance's vagina due 2 erection problem. His manhood will rise but within one minute, it'll become flaccid again.
Now, he's come 2me as his best friend for help.
Is dis caused by fear of sex, long wait 4 sex (he's 30years old) or what could've been d possible cause of dis problem?
Re: Save Him: A True Life Story by kishy53(f): 7:13am On Mar 16, 2013
No one can say d exact cause,d only way out is to seek medical attention

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Re: Save Him: A True Life Story by Abbey2sam(m): 9:11am On Mar 16, 2013
kishy53: No one can say d exact cause,d only way out is to seek medical attention

Gbam!!
Lobatan

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Re: Save Him: A True Life Story by raqueal(f): 12:15pm On Mar 16, 2013
Your friend might be extremely nervous, scared and pre occupied with all that could go wrong instead of focusing on the "job" at hand. For a first timer, I don't think it's a big deal. His partner needs to reassure, encourage and guide him. If this persists, perhaps,he should go see a doctor.

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Re: Save Him: A True Life Story by KINGwax(m): 1:27pm On Mar 16, 2013
One thing is this:
See, ur friend might av been having this problem for long. He might decide not to tell anyone. Because u are a true xtian doesn't mean ur friend had the clear intention to be one also. The reason he might not av been in sexuall relation and decided to focus on God and career might be because he had this problem before.
Yes, fear can cause it, and biliv me, it can last for yrs if not psychologically tackled. At this time, e needs to open up!

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Re: Save Him: A True Life Story by Sparkle1(f): 2:13pm On Mar 16, 2013
kishy53: No one can say d exact cause,d only way out is to seek medical attention
Seconded!!
Re: Save Him: A True Life Story by moneyhungry(m): 2:20pm On Mar 16, 2013
lemme have a party with them.
Re: Save Him: A True Life Story by Skylee(m): 2:43pm On Mar 16, 2013
money-hungry :
lemme have a party with them.
Lols, u're a badt guy!
Re: Save Him: A True Life Story by Nobody: 2:55pm On Mar 16, 2013
Is he supposed to be intimate before wedding?
Re: Save Him: A True Life Story by Skylee(m): 6:36pm On Mar 16, 2013
tpacalipse: Is he supposed to be intimate before wedding?
I don't think dis answers our friends problem.
Re: Save Him: A True Life Story by Yinkwamo(m): 9:48am On Mar 17, 2013
Sparkle1: Seconded!!
'Thirded', if there is anything like that
Re: Save Him: A True Life Story by Yinkwamo(m): 9:51am On Mar 17, 2013
money-hungry :
lemme have a party with them.
If you want to serve Food & Drinks, oh Yes! else, HELL NO!!!

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