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Re: How Often Do You Call Your Lover? by mideeniafe(f): 8:23pm On Mar 24, 2013
penzino: Thanx OP for dis thread.... Just wanted to ask about how often u call some1 u care alot for but u havnt actually told her u are interested in her?? I no wan make mistake make e no be say person dey pest her? Thnx guys, ur views are welcome!!!
You should tell her you're interested in her. That will make things easier and you won't have to bother whether you're bothering her or not.

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Re: How Often Do You Call Your Lover? by nbright: 8:27pm On Mar 24, 2013
'mide eniafe:
You should tell her you're interested in her. That will make things easier and you won't have to bother whether you're bothering her or not.
eniafe, you are a lady you should advice him correctly, how woul you feel if a guy say to you that he's interested in you?... Is that how he should go about it?. Tell him how your guy or husband toasted you or you don't give him atall...
Re: How Often Do You Call Your Lover? by penzino(m): 8:40pm On Mar 24, 2013
'mide eniafe:
You should tell her you're interested in her. That will make things easier and you won't have to bother whether you're bothering her or not.
thanx eniafe, d thing is, telling her aint a problem, d problem is dat am not close to her right now, am serving far away from home... So telling her am interested on fone? Is it a right move or not?
Re: How Often Do You Call Your Lover? by penzino(m): 8:42pm On Mar 24, 2013
nbright: eniafe, you are a lady you should advice him correctly, how woul you feel if a guy say to you that he's interested in you?... Is that how he should go about it?. Tell him how your guy or husband toasted you or you don't give him atall...
thanx Bright, buh whaaat do u suggest I do, cos I can't see her till I finish in june... So how often do I call so as not to severe d little link I have created!!! Thnx
Re: How Often Do You Call Your Lover? by mideeniafe(f): 8:48pm On Mar 24, 2013
nbright: eniafe, you are a lady you should advice him correctly, how woul you feel if a guy say to you that he's interested in you?... Is that how he should go about it?. Tell him how your guy or husband toasted you or you don't give him atall...
Ahn Ahn! undecided If you like a girl, you should let her know nau. You don't have to say it bluntly. There are many ways to let a girl know you like her.
Re: How Often Do You Call Your Lover? by True2myself24(f): 8:53pm On Mar 24, 2013
Three times a day. We text in the morning, and during our lunch breaks, and then we talk on the phone before we go to bed.
Re: How Often Do You Call Your Lover? by nbright: 8:53pm On Mar 24, 2013
penzino: thanx Bright, buh whaaat do u suggest I do, cos I can't see her till I finish in june... So how often do I call so as not to severe d little link I have created!!! Thnx
Penzino... I am not the calling type, I love texting and whatsapp... I am not in any relationship, if I am with what I do read on NL about calling daily, that means mine won't last cos I hardly call and I do get tire after 3 mins of calling...
Re: How Often Do You Call Your Lover? by nbright: 8:55pm On Mar 24, 2013
'mide eniafe:
Ahn Ahn! undecided If you like a girl, you should let her know nau. You don't have to say it bluntly. There are many ways to let a girl know you like her.
Tell him how he should go about it na... I might even learn from you, maybe when I see who I admire and get the "liver" to approach her
Re: How Often Do You Call Your Lover? by mideeniafe(f): 9:03pm On Mar 24, 2013
penzino: thanx eniafe, d thing is, telling her aint a problem, d problem is dat am not close to her right now, am serving far away from home... So telling her am interested on fone? Is it a right move or not?
Hmm.....then you'll probably have to chill till you get close to her. Telling her directly via calls isn't really a right move. If you guys aren't acquainted, then you should work on that first. Try being her friend first then see how things will go from there.....

Guys in the house, come help a brother in need of advice.
Re: How Often Do You Call Your Lover? by sweetgala(m): 9:07pm On Mar 24, 2013
190: am not a Call person,

holding a fone to my ear is a hugh turn off for me undecided

Turns out I'm not the only one, I hate phone calls and find after 2 minutes on the phone I'd be bored already. Odd for someone who talks as much as I do.
Didn't stop me from getting expensive phones and expensive business phone contracts.

Two previous relationships have broken down due to me not "calling" . I suggest once or twice a day.
I think a texting etc is better.
Re: How Often Do You Call Your Lover? by nbright: 9:08pm On Mar 24, 2013
'mide eniafe:
Guys in the house, come help a brother in need of advice.
Sorry, I am a big novice in the fine art of wooing a lady...
Re: How Often Do You Call Your Lover? by mideeniafe(f): 9:16pm On Mar 24, 2013
nbright: Sorry, I am a big novice in the fine art of wooing a lady...
Lol. Really? So how did it come around wooing your ex(es)?
Re: How Often Do You Call Your Lover? by nbright: 10:10pm On Mar 24, 2013
'mide eniafe:
Lol. Really? So how did it come around wooing your ex(es)?

have Never had a girl friend before..

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Re: How Often Do You Call Your Lover? by penzino(m): 7:47am On Mar 25, 2013
nbright: have Never had a girl friend before..
wow bright!!! U'v gat work to do oooo, I was in ur shoes like 2009.. Just let d feeling flow when u see the woman u want, it will just happen.....
Re: How Often Do You Call Your Lover? by penzino(m): 7:50am On Mar 25, 2013
'mide eniafe:
Hmm.....then you'll probably have to chill till you get close to her. Telling her directly via calls isn't really a right move. If you guys aren't acquainted, then you should work on that first. Try being her friend first then see how things will go from there.....

Guys in the house, come help a brother in need of advice.
thanx eniafe, now am asking, how often do I call her? I have created a little aquaintance sha, but am not sure about how often to call her..... Thnx once again...
Re: How Often Do You Call Your Lover? by DigitalSignal(m): 11:37am On Mar 25, 2013
'mide eniafe:
How often are you meant to call someone you're in a serious relationship with or someone you claim to care about?

I was chatting with a few friends earlier today and one of them brought up this topic. One was like twice a day, another said once once a week. I was like, Like Seriously? What a flip! My boyfriend should call me everyday.

Anyway, what's your take on this?
Twice in a month!
Re: How Often Do You Call Your Lover? by freecocoa(f): 3:25pm On Mar 25, 2013
No specifics here.

It just happens and who even keeps counts?
Re: How Often Do You Call Your Lover? by begwong: 3:26pm On Mar 25, 2013
When i feel as to call her tongue
Re: How Often Do You Call Your Lover? by misterseed(m): 3:27pm On Mar 25, 2013
I do everyday. We call each other everyday. she is not the type that wait for recharge card from me before calling. And i respect her for that.
Re: How Often Do You Call Your Lover? by Nobody: 3:32pm On Mar 25, 2013
'mide eniafe:
Like once in 2 weeks?grin Be specific. Please.Really? I'm not a call person either but when it comes to someone I have feelings for, I can call him all day.
itz everyday u av feelings 4 sum1,dis feelings disapear at tyms,bt 4 me,i cal im only if nessecary,cos my bf is d most useless fin eva!
Re: How Often Do You Call Your Lover? by Gwekzy: 3:32pm On Mar 25, 2013
THE NUMBERS OF TIME SHE CALLS ME IS THE NUMBERS OF TIME I CALL HER...VICE VERSA
Re: How Often Do You Call Your Lover? by Truckpusher(m): 3:32pm On Mar 25, 2013
When i wan chop something wink
Re: How Often Do You Call Your Lover? by ABJay1: 3:33pm On Mar 25, 2013
ogugua88:

[size=13pt]Meant? If you love someone or at least care about them, calling them to check up on them, see how his or her day is going, or just to hear his or her voice should come automatically.[/size]

Typical... cool grin
Re: How Often Do You Call Your Lover? by buklan4realyah(f): 3:34pm On Mar 25, 2013
MY own hubby call me nore 5times in a day he has bin doing dat
frm d very 1st day nd dis d d 4th yr now....... though, i do
return my calls too. kiss wink
Re: How Often Do You Call Your Lover? by vision2050: 3:39pm On Mar 25, 2013
I dont bothercheesycheesycheesy
Re: How Often Do You Call Your Lover? by dmcdad: 3:39pm On Mar 25, 2013
misterseed: I do everyday. We call each other everyday. she is not the type that wait for recharge card from me before calling. And i respect her for that.
Thats good...
Re: How Often Do You Call Your Lover? by dmcdad: 3:41pm On Mar 25, 2013
Harbosede02: itz everyday u av feelings 4 sum1,dis feelings disapear at tyms,bt 4 me,i cal im only if nessecary,cos my bf is d most useless fin eva!
Jeez!!!

If he is the most useless and yet you stick with him, I wonder...
Re: How Often Do You Call Your Lover? by dmcdad: 3:42pm On Mar 25, 2013
Truckpusher: When i wan chop something wink
Chop wetin? Just curious...
Re: How Often Do You Call Your Lover? by Jaygrl(f): 3:44pm On Mar 25, 2013
Harbosede02: itz everyday u av feelings 4 sum1,dis feelings disapear at tyms,bt 4 me,i cal im only if nessecary,cos my bf is d most useless fin eva!
Did u jst say ur bf is d most useless thing eva Y wld u be dating a useless person na? O ga oooo
Re: How Often Do You Call Your Lover? by Morgan1092(m): 3:45pm On Mar 25, 2013
I prefer twice a day. Mrn'n & 9t.
Re: How Often Do You Call Your Lover? by nbright: 3:45pm On Mar 25, 2013
Harbosede02: itz everyday u av feelings 4 sum1,dis feelings disapear at tyms,bt 4 me,i cal im only if nessecary, cos my bf is d most useless fin eva!
Jesus Christ!.... And you are still with him?
Re: How Often Do You Call Your Lover? by Gabs4mine(m): 3:45pm On Mar 25, 2013
as often as possible

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