i'm here again,  i think you guys remember who i am. anyway anuf of that got  little challenge i woun't call it a problem.

Okay have been dating this pretty lady for sometime now,  and somewhat she talks about marriage and all that, you guy knows that marriage aren't beans now,  no bi beans at all,  Okay she claims she is in love and all that, like what other ladies will say.

Okay something happend today, when i go visiting her at home really she doesn't like it when i browse through her phone. so when she went inside, i picked her phone and i went through it. firstly i thougt of dailing my number to see if she gat some credit,  i can't imagine my number not been stored on the sim or phone whatever,  when i asked, she said my number was stored on her phone not on the sim, though her phone got spoit and she swap her sim to another phone,  said i know 4 sure that her phone went mad, and she had to swap her sim to another phone

Okay not only that before she came into the sitting room, when browsing through the phone i saw name that was stored like this exactly [b]"myhero"[/b]i quickly checked the number, i saw it wasn't my number. okay i continue browsing i saw another one that reads [b]"J my love"[/b]well  capital J didn't start my name, so i check wasn't my number too,

So i kept quite. but the same lady tells me i'm in love with you, talks about marriage, talks about future plans and all that,  and told me sometimes ago that, if i see her huging another guy, i shouldn't take it serious, i should trust her and all that ! but men sometimes i just wonder if i'm not building castle in the air,  ! You guys should tell me what to do please,  really love her sha

no doubt the girl is tasting and eating other JOHN THOMAS

@smartsoft

If i were to go by your name, i believe you are smart enough to read the handwritten on the wall. If it smell like a duck, walks like a duck, sound like a duck. well i'll let you finish that sentence, but it's not enough to jump into conclusion. "Her Hero" might be her Daddy ( i mean her real Daddy) and "Her Love" might be her Brother or vice versa but all the same, something stinks.

@ smartsoft,

Smell the coffee. . . . .
This babe is not good enuff. . . . Kick her out like Polio.

@sweet T,i like what  you said i don't want to conclude like that oo my ex-girl friend stored are mum's name with RARE GEM and also her sisters with pets name !

Chacal:

@ smartsoft,

 
This babe is not good enough. . . . Kick her out like Polio.

LMAO

For reasons not based on experience, I think I agree with the last poster.

smartsoft:

if i see her huging another guy, i shouldn't take it serious,

Now this raises a red flag for me.

Normally, it should not be an issue if ur girl hugs another male. No issue at all. So why is she pointing it out? Seems to me she is hiding something.

Uche2nna:

LMAO

For reasons not based on experience, I think I agree with the last poster.

Lets face it . . . . U never know with women these days.
In ma world, there's no COINCIDENCE . . . .  .
I still insist smartsoft should kick this gurl out like POLIO!!!!!!

okay see the last time i told her i'm having the feelings that i'm building castle in the air,  she almost fainted,  said i shouldn't tell her that again, why do i think so. not only that i was strong for some days like that and she was told and she started crying on the phone !

smartsoft:

Okay something happend today, when i go visiting her at home really she doesn't like it when i browse through her phone. so when she went inside, i picked her phone and i went through it.

Hmm, first of all, you said she doesnt like it when you go through her phone so why did you?  

Second of all, i agree with what many of the posters have said o, i smell a rat   But even so, before jumping to conclusions i think you should confront her first, just so things don't get out of hand uneccesarily good luck

The girl is playing you. So obvious. lmfao. Sorry but are u that blind? I knw that love cause blindness. But ths one is just nawa o

@Smart

Have you even asked this girl who this superhero is? Why don't you ask her and see what she says.

@ smartsoft,

Dont waste your time confronting . . .
What do u expect her to say? I have a boy/f i shag everytime u are not around and reh reh reh. . . .
Like i have said, please smell the coffee. . .

Chacal:

@ smartsoft,


Like i have said, please smell the coffee. . .

Honestly, it does not smell too good from where I am sitting.

I dont how far u are willing to go with her but I really smell a fish. A rotten one for that matter.

@poster

i know everybody likes a little privacy,but if she is not hiding anything from u ,i wonder y she is not safe wen u r wt her fone,my sweetheart goes thru my fone,and i dont get scared cos im not hiding anything,infact he does not check the fone again sef,cos he has seen dat this girl doesnt hide things from him,just be very careful watch her well,but for me i belive she has somethings up her sleeves

@Chacal

It's not a confrontation, there are ways to ask hot question without yelling or fighting. Be diplomatic about it and see what she says. Don't waste your time on the unknown. Life is too short to be wearing a cloth made of iron.

It seems our friend(smartsoft) is in LOVE!!!!!
People tend to be blind to see their immediate surrounding in this phase. . . .
Just because a gurl is talking marriage with u means ZILCH. . . . Thats her hold on u.
Break the shackles and kick the lass out.

@ SweetT,

What else do i need to know?
I won't even waste ma time asking such lewd questions!!!

i blif you all, i can see i'm really blind. good response i'm gonna talk to her about it anyway

@smartsoft

Loveblind is not a crime Bro'. It happens to the best of us. Live and learn. Loving eyes don't usually see.

thanks Sweet T, you the best, you the solution to many in this world, o ya shout Amen ! thanks ja re

@smartsoft
When anything goes wrong .Pleasde don't come back for advice.Like charcal said KICK HER OUT LIKE POLIO .
She is just using you.You let her cry deceive you.It shows how weak you are as a man.She will continue using you until ,she begins to take you for granted.
Whenever a girl takes me for granted ,I warn her.If she repaeats it again,I abandon her.
Is that a behavior of a future wife? You sef ,where you pick that one from?Because she is beautiful ,we no go rest again?

hey @wahala, relax your nerves okay, i will seat her down and talk to her and if no good response, i will kick her out. just chill will come back to the house

smartsoft:

hey @wahala, relax your nerves okay, i will seat her down and talk to her and if no good response, i will kick her out. just chill will come back to the house

lol.you are really a rare specie.
sit her down first before you come to decide on what to do.its a good quality just that well. . . goodluck

abi ? i will do just that and come and tell you all, thanks for the response, you all at the best !

@smartsoft
sha dont let her sweet talk you.From all what I can gather she has been in charge all this while.It is now your turn to be in charge.
It takes a man who is charged to be in charge.
It is time for you to turn the table (of course m, you aint being selfish)

What is the worst thing that can happen?
She will reject you ,shey?
Relax,she is was not worth your niceness (if you are really nice) in the first place.

Like Busta said "your  own companion is somewhere"

Alright @wahala, Thanks

k

sha don't let her sweet talk you.From all what I can gather she has been in charge all this while.It is now your turn to be in charge.
[b]It takes a man who is charged to be in charge.[/b]It is time for you to turn the table (of course m, you aint being selfish)

Whatever

smartsoft:
You Guys Should Help Me Please ! What Is Wrong Again ?

What is wrong? You really want to know what's wrong? Okay here it is. . . You keep doing the same thing over and over again! How hard is it to stop snooping? If you don't trust her, then break up with her. . .what's with all the covet moves. Jeez!

Okay not only that before she came into the sitting room, when browsing through the phone i saw name that was stored like this exactly [b]"myhero"[/b]i quickly checked the number, i saw it wasn't my number.

Lmao. . .The fact that you are her boyfriend does not make you her hero! Come on now. . .not even you can be that egotistical.

b]"J my love"[/b]well  capital J didn't start my name, so i check wasn't my number too,

This doesn't mean anything. . .I have a nephew I call the love of my life.

So i kept quite. but the same lady tells me i'm in love with you, talks about marriage, talks about future plans and all that,  and told me sometimes ago that, if i see her huging another guy, i shouldn't take it serious, i should trust her and all that ! but men sometimes i just wonder if i'm not building castle in the air,  ! You guys should tell me what to do please,  really love her sha

La ila ila lau. .what is this? Will you ban her from hugging people now? If this relationship fails. . .it will be YOUR fault. Just know that now.

Lmao "myhero", you be hero? Rofl

stillwater:

Whatever

lol, what now?

@ poster,
be smart like ur name says.
dont ever dump a woman who has done u no harm.
as long as she's still interested then let the game go on.
but u just have to use ur head not ur heart.
if she dey give u sex ,continue chopping
nothing do u.
the stress of toasting another babe and all the taking out
and going out process na wahala.
as long as u two arent married, then don't there are no strings attached.
i've said it b4, relationship promises can always be broken.
a woman is only urs when she's with u.
and stop looking into her phone or u go just die for nothing.
kpom kwem