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Re: Is It Legal for me To Marry My Cousin? by Gentle024: 4:52pm On Mar 25, 2013
It depends on your tradition, if your tradition allows that, go ahead and marry her but if it doesn't, don't try it to avoid had i know.
Re: Is It Legal for me To Marry My Cousin? by seunny4lif(m): 4:57pm On Mar 25, 2013
werepeLeri: It doesnt matter. You can even marry your sister so long you are in love with her.
cheesycheesycheesy
Re: Is It Legal for me To Marry My Cousin? by dammytosh: 4:57pm On Mar 25, 2013
Is it Legal to sleep with your cousin you mean. Don't worry, after the first round, the veil in your eyes will open and you will hate her more than anything for tempting you into the taboo.


Best of luck bro.
Re: Is It Legal for me To Marry My Cousin? by buklan4realyah(f): 5:00pm On Mar 25, 2013
Seriously is not at alll, no amount of closeness u nd ur cousin is dere must not b any intimacy

me nd my cousin`s too are very close to d extent dat any tin dat happens to one of us we will
call immediately to inform one anoda
Re: Is It Legal for me To Marry My Cousin? by zuzuonyi: 5:00pm On Mar 25, 2013
All Arab countries in the Persian Gulf currently require advance genetic screening for all prospective married couples. Qatar was the last Persian Gulf nation to institute mandatory screening in 2009, mainly to warn related couples who are planning marriage about any genetic risks they may face. The current rate of cousin marriage there is 54%, an increase of 12–18% over the previous generation.[90] A report by the Dubai-based Centre for Arab Genomic Studies (CAGS) in September 2009 found that Arabs have one of the world's highest rates of genetic disorders, nearly two-thirds of which are linked to consanguinity. Research from CAGS and others suggests consanguinity is declining in Lebanon and Egypt and among Palestinians, but is increasing in Morocco, Mauritania and Sudan.[14]

http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cousin_marriage#section_2

[b][/b]Guy, unless you want make you and your wife begin hangout for AIT, NTA and roadside dey beg for support, you better tighten that nut wey don lose for ya head because i no go give una shishi. A word, they say, is enough for the wise.

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Re: Is It Legal for me To Marry My Cousin? by Nobody: 5:01pm On Mar 25, 2013
From the comment of this OP i can only arrive at 2 conclusions.

1. he is looking for attention

2. He has gone mad (His senses has been used for ritual)
Re: Is It Legal for me To Marry My Cousin? by Nobody: 5:05pm On Mar 25, 2013
greatgod2012: @op, i dont think there is a law in our country that forbid it but, the Law of God forbids it, its in the bible, as well as the quoran, that, such act is an abominable one, and i think the law of God should be above any other laws, so, dont do it, there are so many other ladies out there that you can marry, i take God beg you, the repercussion may not be immediate, but definately, something unpalatable will come out of it in the future, which may not be easily bearable to you, redirect that love to the right type of love that is suppose to be btwn both of you and set each other free from the bondage you both are. At first, it may be hard, but, if you sincerely wish, you can both brake the yoke, the first step to take is to move and live far away from each other for a very long time.
May God help you.
........pls,dnt say wat u av little or no knowledge about........d quran does nt forbid one marrying his or her cousin....it is allowed!!!!!!!!!!!
Re: Is It Legal for me To Marry My Cousin? by regendidi(f): 5:08pm On Mar 25, 2013
Re: Is It Legal for me To Marry My Cousin? by dharmzie18(f): 5:10pm On Mar 25, 2013
actually it is wrong legally..your marriage will be void,because dere is a prohibited degree of consagunity nd affinity..check matrimonial causes act nd d marriage act
Re: Is It Legal for me To Marry My Cousin? by promkingzz(m): 5:13pm On Mar 25, 2013
wait but lemme ask, according to the bible " a man must leave his family and be joined with a woman" finish! No clause in the bible sayin a man cannot marry his relation sha o! Its just an earthly rule sortta. Me can't marry my cousin sha but if she loosegaurd near me! Hmm! Newton's third law of motion allows me to raise her skirt, spread her legs and collect my one pa! But marry? mm mm Mba nu
Re: Is It Legal for me To Marry My Cousin? by Abisoyebabe(f): 5:17pm On Mar 25, 2013
it is legal for u to marry ur cousin,since u're not from d same parent nd Islamically family marriage is alowed
Re: Is It Legal for me To Marry My Cousin? by Nobody: 5:17pm On Mar 25, 2013
Π@$S:
Maybe I should consider the medical stuff and ask a Doctor. If the union will affect our kids. We'll try and agree with eachoda not to have kids, and just adopt.
wow!do u tink at all.ur cousin,4 heaven's sake do u want ur existence 2 b a waste!lyk d yoruba's wud say,u wud jst b lyk a snake dat passes on a mountain,without leaving a sign.
Re: Is It Legal for me To Marry My Cousin? by promkingzz(m): 5:21pm On Mar 25, 2013
dharmzie18: actually it is wrong legally..your marriage will be void,because dere is a prohibited degree of [size=15pt]consagunity nd affinity[/size]..check matrimonial causes act nd d marriage act
Supu!!!
Re: Is It Legal for me To Marry My Cousin? by Danykooko: 5:31pm On Mar 25, 2013
Madness make una carry am go psychia nw ooo
Re: Is It Legal for me To Marry My Cousin? by victorD3: 5:35pm On Mar 25, 2013
Upon all the booty clapping ladies all over the world the OP is only attracted to his cousin. Well there are different types of disorder but I lack name of this one.


OP your mother is very experienced so go for her instead
Re: Is It Legal for me To Marry My Cousin? by sylve11: 5:48pm On Mar 25, 2013
Op, tell me u r not from the east. undecided cool
Re: Is It Legal for me To Marry My Cousin? by amdman: 5:51pm On Mar 25, 2013
dharmzie18: actually it is wrong legally..your marriage will be void,because dere is a prohibited degree of consagunity nd affinity..check matrimonial causes act nd d marriage act

You are right, but that should read 'Prohibited Degrees of Affinity and Consanguinity'.

Under the Nigerian Marriage Act, such a marriage being considered by the OP would be void.
Re: Is It Legal for me To Marry My Cousin? by Bozzy001(m): 5:52pm On Mar 25, 2013
smartchoice: why not your mother also? since your brain don lose network finish! undecided
I A̶̲̥̅̊м̣̣̥̇ rolling on the floor! Seriously laughing.
Re: Is It Legal for me To Marry My Cousin? by Nobody: 5:53pm On Mar 25, 2013
promkingzz: wait but lemme ask, according to the bible " a man must leave his family and be joined with a woman" finish! No clause in the bible sayin a man cannot marry his relation sha o! Its just an earthly rule sortta. Me can't marry my cousin sha but if she loosegaurd near me! Hmm! Newton's third law of motion allows me to raise her skirt, spread her legs and collect my one pa! But marry? mm mm Mba nu

No offence but you DON'T read ur bible properly! Read LEVITICUS 18:6-17
Re: Is It Legal for me To Marry My Cousin? by tonididdy(m): 6:04pm On Mar 25, 2013
Π@$S:
You guys wont just understand this love. Mind you Ive never had sex with her. Thnx for your contrbutions.
sit your mummy and daddy down.then invite your cousin in and announce to your parents this is the girl i want to marry.
IF YOU COMEBACK TO NL ALIVE:i'll personally sponsor the cake and bridal gown
Re: Is It Legal for me To Marry My Cousin? by patanjaly: 6:05pm On Mar 25, 2013
The act of marrying ur cousin is a common practice within d fulani n hausa culture. N it allowed in islam. In fulani culture is like compulsory 4 d first born to marry his cousin.
Re: Is It Legal for me To Marry My Cousin? by lifestyle1(m): 6:07pm On Mar 25, 2013
Wonder shall never end...


Love my foot...

Talking about marriage at 25.

Young man You are provoking me..
Re: Is It Legal for me To Marry My Cousin? by lifestyle1(m): 6:09pm On Mar 25, 2013
patanjaly: The act of marrying ur cousin is a common practice within d fulani n hausa culture. N it allowed in islam. In fulani culture is like compulsory 4 d first born to marry his cousin.

And what are you insinuating ?
Re: Is It Legal for me To Marry My Cousin? by sheymoni(m): 6:14pm On Mar 25, 2013
Shame no dey catch this boy sha, abi no be that bance cousin of urs wey me & ur neighbor don hammer times without number grin FYI there's nothing left 4 u 2 enjoy cos that girl bad pass "Cherokee"
Re: Is It Legal for me To Marry My Cousin? by Cikoloko(m): 6:16pm On Mar 25, 2013
@op kai wawa ne.....i knw u are jes jokin[color=#770077][/color]
Re: Is It Legal for me To Marry My Cousin? by TGlobe: 6:20pm On Mar 25, 2013
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Re: Is It Legal for me To Marry My Cousin? by musiwa22: 6:22pm On Mar 25, 2013
where are you from. nigeria law allow them to marry their cousin.. because some culture in nigeria marry their own family member.

there over 500 culture in nigeria and nigeria as over 500 customary law. which are legal under the laws of nigeria. and this laws cant be change.. you can see people been blow up.
Re: Is It Legal for me To Marry My Cousin? by promkingzz(m): 6:22pm On Mar 25, 2013
carr96:

No offence but you DON'T read ur bible properly! Read LEVITICUS 18:6-17
Will do
Re: Is It Legal for me To Marry My Cousin? by Ortarico(m): 6:27pm On Mar 25, 2013
greatgod2012: @op, i dont think there is a law in our country that forbid it but, the Law of God forbids it, its in the bible, as well as the quoran, that, such act is an abominable one, and i think the law of God should be above any other laws, so, dont do it, there are so many other ladies out there that you can marry, i take God beg you, the repercussion may not be immediate, but definately, something unpalatable will come out of it in the future, which may not be easily bearable to you, redirect that love to the right type of love that is suppose to be btwn both of you and set each other free from the bondage you both are. At first, it may be hard, but, if you sincerely wish, you can both brake the yoke, the first step to take is to move and live far away from each other for a very long time.
May God help you.

In fact I feel very lucky to have found this thread on the issue of intimate filial relationship. You said the Bible prohibits such and there were instances where this thrived even in the Bible:

Abraham married Sarah his sister (Genesis 20:12).

Othniel wifed his cousin Achsah (Joshua 15:16,17). And all these were seen as no abomination. Plz, I want you to comment on this view.
Re: Is It Legal for me To Marry My Cousin? by promkingzz(m): 6:33pm On Mar 25, 2013
[b]Leviticus 18:6-17 (NIV)

6⁠ " 'No one is to approach any close relative to have sexual relations. I am the LORD. 7⁠ " 'Do not dishonor your father by having sexual relations with your mother. She is your mother; do not have relations with her. 8⁠ " 'Do not have sexual relations with your father's wife; that would dishonor your father. 9⁠ " 'Do not have sexual relations with your sister, either your father's daughter or your mother's daughter, whether she was born in the same home or elsewhere. 10⁠ " 'Do not have sexual relations with your son's daughter or your daughter's daughter; that would dishonor you. 11⁠ " 'Do not have sexual relations with the daughter of your father's wife, born to your father; she is your sister. 12⁠ " 'Do not have sexual relations with your father's sister; she is your father's close relative. 13⁠ " 'Do not have sexual relations with your mother's sister, because she is your mother's close relative. 14⁠ " 'Do not dishonor your father's brother by approaching his wife to have sexual relations; she is your aunt. 15⁠ " 'Do not have sexual relations with your daughter-in-law. She is your son's wife; do not have relations with her. 16⁠ " 'Do not have sexual relations with your brother's wife; that would dishonor your brother. 17⁠ " 'Do not have sexual relations with both a woman and her daughter. Do not have sexual relations with either her son's daughter or her daughter's daughter; they are her close relatives. That is wickedness.[/b]


Salute! @carr96

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Re: Is It Legal for me To Marry My Cousin? by beldcat(m): 6:41pm On Mar 25, 2013
Me i don't support one marrying his/her cousin o!....as in it's somehow creepy, it dos'nt just feel right...if i were a parent of any of the people involved, i won't allow it. to me, it's almost like marrying your sister/brother .

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