i.HOT:
Someone narrated a story today similar to the one I am about to tell and the story gave me the confidence share to this heartbreaking story of a friend.(it is real).

She met this guy in an interview she attended last year as the guy was one of the interviewer,(she got the job),after the interview,it took her months to resume at her new place but throughout the waiting period,her thoughts were on the guy,she couldn't wait to set eyes on him when she resumes, to her it was love at first sight.

two weeks prior to her resumption day, she got an email from a stranger,asking if its alright for him to call her,she told the stranger it was, hence she discovered it was the guy she has been silently pining for and NO he doesn't work with the company where she just got a job rather he's based outside of the country.

there began their love journey(on her part though), they got talking,mails were flying,he is very intelligent,knows something on almost every topic,she being intelligent herself fell deeper and deeper in love with him. sex never came up all the time but they do talk about it and flirted a lot via Skype,phone calls and emails, she told him everything about herself and family(she never does that as she is a very private person).everything was going smoothly,she was so much in love thinking God has finally brought the ideal man. the communication continued even after she resumed work..............ooh!did i mention he does freelance jobs for he new company? hence her meeting him there?.

Second week of January he came back into the country,from the airport he started calling her that night,she was happy because she spent the whole of that day day dreaming about his coming home. the next day she visited him and was happy and he looked happy to see her too. there was outing, gisting...........of course love making(they have been communicating for up to 6 months) ,so don't judge her by calling her cheap, there was also a second date.

After the second date, everything went haywire! the calls, mails all stopped instantly. in fact he deleted her from Skype!he also stopped picking her calls and replying her mails, in fact he yelled at her when she tried knowing what went wrong. THE MAJOR issue here is that she always almost see him on a daily basis and that hurts more than not seeing him at all,she still loves him,it is distracting seeing him almost everyday.............what hurts the most is that he looks right through her as if she doesn't exist..............she told me she wanna resign from her work for her peace of mind but i said NO as the guy will probably leave soon, did I give her the right advise? She is not yet registered on nairaland but she is following closely on this topic to take the best advise.

Matured advise,Please don't hurt her more.

there was outing, gisting...........of course love making (they have been communicating for up to 6 months) so don't judge her by calling her cheap, there was also a second date.


After the second date, everything went haywire! the calls, mails all stopped instantly. in fact he deleted her from Skype!he also stopped picking her calls and replying her mails, in fact he yelled at her when she tried knowing what went wrong.

two weeks prior to her resumption day, she got an email from a stranger,asking if its alright for him to call her,she told the stranger it was,

hence she discovered it was the guy she has been silently pining for

parryon: @Dygeasy.............but why would he in the first place have carnal knowledge of her when he doesn't have any good plan for her?
yes guys dump ladies all the time but why dump a lady callously? while she was describing him, he sounded like a good/decent person but he blew it by dumping her like a harlot.@Op, tell your friend to move on,he doesn't deserve her at all. i think he is an ogre. she deserves better because she has a pure heart.I know it is not easy as she must be feeling humiliated,hurt and torn but all the same may God give her the strength.............this too shall pass but would it pass for the ogre?

tpia@:
@ topic

yes, she should switch jobs.

Dygeasy: sweetheart we are on the same side here... I aint supporting his actions either. Just that the OP's friend should be thankful that she didn't lose more than one or two bangings. Some other ladies have suffered worse. Guys dump ladies they've dated for one year and more plus getting the ladies' possessions;money and stuffs. She should just move on that's all [in my oga at the top's voice.]

xynerise:
This is the only part that caught my interest. No! Your advice was wrong. Let her resign. We have a lot of jobless youths here in Nairaland. Let one occupy her space ASAP

i.HOT:


Na your usual way na......................

xynerise:
Have you been stalking me?

parryon:

Everyone on nairaland stalks you....................your wahala too much, so i wouldn't be surprised if the OP stalks you too.

xynerise:
Even you? . Do you love me?

parryon:
whaaaaaaattttttt?

xynerise: .
. Just kidding.

190: Xynerise this old i-d-i-ot already hitting on other ladies
And trying to-cheat on his ugly wife just after a year of marriage

parryon:

Everyone on nairaland stalks you....................your wahala too much, so i wouldn't be surprised if the OP stalks you too.

tpia@:



why are all the females jumping on the guy?

is there something i dont know?

tpia@:
happens all the time, you like a guy, hop into bed with him, then he vanishes and deletes you from his skype.

but not without informing anyone who cares to know, that he got the goodies.

its a tough world, some people have an upper hand especially when it comes to casual sex.


ladies, keep your legs closed as much as you humanly can, konji does not kill anyone. never has, never will.

as long as you're not dealing with a criminal character with a warped mentality, nothing wrong with holding body.



fake thread, also, imo.

tpia@:



why are all the females jumping on the guy?

is there something i dont know?

oh ho
help me ask am
cos shes married they probably wanna snatch him from his ugly wife
giving him false hope