My husband after a long phase of disagreement with him over infidelity ones told me he no longer continue with any extra marital affairs. however he kept on late hour chatting as late as 1-2am. i once saw one of the gfriend no calling him very late at night so i de NNcided to call d girls mum to ask her daughter to stay away from my husband. my husband got angry. am i to keep quiet and pretend his saying d truth even when there is evidence his lying. Pls i will appreciate if only mature minds can give me sincere advise cos my head is just spinning with confusion cos i dont just want to accept cheat in my marriage for any flimsy excuse.

I feel for u sister. I wonder why he got married at first if he still wants to mess around. You should've known d type of person he was b4 tying d knot. Well, am not advising u o but if it was me, I wont leave my marriage for anything but I'll use her weakness to subdue her to submission. You should know ur hubby and tins you'll do for him to listen to you. Try and get all his attention focused on u and try to get his attention away from other girls. I dont know how u do it but he's ur hubby and only urs alone, you should know how to get into his inner mind and spirit to make him act like a husband. If not, run for ur dear life cos he might be infected by now...

Firstly,I will say that take every advice you receive here circumspectly and don't take it personal

It's a bit sad that your hubby is bringin you into his underworld of intrigues as he should at least keep you of it as a sign of respect or better still do the right thing

You know him more than anyone and you have to choose a strategy of confrontation or indifference

Both have its merits and demerits which there is no need to enumerate here

It is well with you