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Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by Orikinla(m): 10:52am On Apr 03, 2013
[size=48pt]Only 1 percent of Nigerian girls and women have these qualities. The others are mere opportunists and spongers.[/size]
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by Nobody: 10:59am On Apr 03, 2013
Number 6 only applies if he acts right

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Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by Joyland(m): 11:01am On Apr 03, 2013
mechummy: I have them all cheesygrin

Sure?
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by nenergy(m): 11:03am On Apr 03, 2013
The post is Coming from a lady, so i agree totally.

High-maintenance; i hate those words.
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by SporoX: 11:05am On Apr 03, 2013
The way you dress is the way you are addressed they say. You are a cripple but looking for the perfect model, how will you get her? If you dont reduce your list to what you yourself possess, my brother you will keep singing OJB's song 'Searching'. You cant want a list you dont possess half the qualities. And you ladies, change your notion about men. Not all of them fits your description, only the jobless and short-sighted.
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by Nobody: 11:10am On Apr 03, 2013
El Guapo:

Am not Searching mate - Deal with that Generalization cool
pele,enle.God will help you maintain her so that you will not use your character to drive her away by the way i thought you said in your earlier posts that if you see someone that posseses all this characteristics,you will go to her parents house meanwhile you are also claiming you have a partner.speaking about lack of integrity and faithfulness.smh
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by Nobody: 11:12am On Apr 03, 2013
Orikinla: [size=48pt]Only 1 percent of Nigerian girls and women have these qualities. The others are mere opportunists and spongers.[/size]
while 99.9 percent of nigerian men are opportunists,self centred egoisic freaks looking for an innocent girl to pry on

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Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by Nobody: 11:14am On Apr 03, 2013
kulyie: while 99.9 percent of nigerian men are opportunists,self centred egoisic freaks looking for an innocent girl to pry on
grin grin grin
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by Nobody: 11:15am On Apr 03, 2013
kulyie: while 99.9 percent of nigerian men are opportunists,self centred egoisic freaks looking for an innocent girl to pry on
cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by Afam4eva(m): 11:15am On Apr 03, 2013
All these list would have been valid if humans were robots programmed to act in a similar way. But we're humans and have our likes and dislikes. I've heard men say that they love their girlfriends because they nag a lot. Those men consider their women good despite the fact that she may possess opposite of what is listed there. So, it all boils down to personal preference and not public preference. One man's food is another man's poison.
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by Dipwater(m): 11:19am On Apr 03, 2013
miketonic: Is always females coming up with this stupid list

10 characteristic of a good girlfriend

15 ways to know ur hubby is cheating

20 ways to know ur a good wife

10 ways to be a good husband

5 ways to improve ur love making

15 ways to know if he love you

10 ways to know if she is a virgin

18 ways into a heart female

20 ways to swallow garr with okoro soup

I don tire una...please stop this list, is getting annoying, especially female, no body want to hear am. Man just want big bossom, big butt and a female who can cook in the kitchen . That's all.











I like this particular list cuz its interesting to read. On ur last paragraph I do not agree with u ,its not all men .intelligent men don't see women as cooks. And the are worth more than having big tits and large batty.
Here is my own list;
Lil br/east
Normal backside

Se/xy hips

skinny

Pretty face(mustnt be like jess albas face)

Must importantly intelligent and very logical with her doings

Trustworthy

Loyal

Very caring

Dark skin

I don't give a fu/ck cooking and all those rubbish things

Nau u no my list,having a list is not a bad idea .its not compulsory its amatter of choice. Thank u
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by Jovanna(f): 11:19am On Apr 03, 2013
wazobia_for_u: Everybody keep saying not in Naija, African women are one of the best in the world to marry.






My lady take more than 70% of the list,that is okay and we are happy
i tire for dem o..though not all african women posses all dis qualities bt there are sum virtuous women out there who posses all dis qualities just because they re God fearing...dnt knw y they do generalise
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by classiquemama: 11:36am On Apr 03, 2013
uhrmmm.. truth is no girl will admit shes got a bad side, all girls will say shes got all the characteristics listed...

anyways, am not perfect... i aint even close to perfection ... but i know, am lagging in some ...

but think about it... even if i have 7 of these, will it stop that negro from cheating on me??

this aint about having all these .... its praying that will all these attributes, will i still be loved and cherished, cause from what i see daily, some guys naturally love them bad girls and they tend to hurt the good girls... though that doesnt mean am a good girl
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by jadakiss213(m): 11:37am On Apr 03, 2013
kulyie: while 99.9 percent of nigerian men are opportunists,self centred egoisic freaks looking for an innocent girl to pry on
babes,uve sounding so bitter all day..seems uve been a victim of recent sowie o my dear,it is well
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by moneyhungry(m): 11:37am On Apr 03, 2013
mechummy: I have them all cheesygrin
damn u cute!
but, are in also gud at the main thing?
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by hardeyincah(m): 11:37am On Apr 03, 2013
Joan Johnson:

Having a good woman by your side as your girlfriend is always nice.

In fact, it is a dream of every normal man in this world. The right woman is a woman who can make you grow into a better man.

Many men experience failure in relationships because they are too quick to choose, too easily attracted and fall in love with a woman without thinking whether she is worthy or not (of course mistakes committed by ourselves can cause failures too). Below are 10 characteristics of a good woman to be your girlfriend:

1. Supportive

She is a figure who always support you in your life as well as your career and always by your side when the whole world walks out. As we know, our society tend to require a man to be a strong man and not a fragile person, but sadness and stress that come repeatedly will destroy you if you don’t vent your feelings. Thus, a good woman can be the best listener by providing support and comfort for you. She also gives you freedom to develop yourself as you want.

2. Independent

This characteristic is important because it means she can manage and take care of herself. It will be very annoying when you have to be her ‘babysitter’ all the time, right? She can go home by herself when you can’t pick her up, she can go shopping by herself when you can’t accompany her, and she can rely on herself when you can’t help her. Independent woman is a woman who can stand by her own feet and walk alone when you can’t be there (of course she still respects you as the leader).

3. Beautiful inside and out

From the outside, she is not a woman like Taylor Swift, Kate Middleton, Megan Fox, or Jessica Alba, but she looks beautiful and attractive in her own way, her simplicity and friendliness. From the inside, you notice that she is a person who has an extraordinary and inspiring personality.

4. Confident

She loves her imperfection, perfectly. She doesn’t hurt herself or dying to be famous and beautiful like a movie actress. She doesn’t try to be someone else, she is confident of herself and (of course) proud to have you by her side.

5. Respects you

You are the leader and she, as your partner, has respect for you and the decisions you make. She doesn’t make you afraid of her and look like a loser. But of course, you have to respect her too by not humiliating and treating her like a slave.

6. Know when to speak and keep quiet

She knows which stories that can be told to her friends and which ones don’t. She doesn’t like to gossip about your bad things and your relationship. She knows when to speak and listen to your words. She also can speak tenderly (without yelling) when she expresses her opinion to you.

7. Loyal

Someone who’s in normal or happy circumstances tend to be a kind person. Don’t immediately assume she has a good character when she is in such conditions, just wait until you have some problems. Then you will know her true character and who she really is. Women who are not loyal will turn around and leave you when you face problems, either minor or major ones. While women who are loyal will remain by your side to face the problems together. That’s why you need time to evaluate your partner before moving to the next stage of your relationship.

8. Doesn’t fall in love with your wealth and social status

In this modern era, money is something that has tremendous appeal. Money can buy positions, power, authorities, even ‘love’. Of course they love the money not the person. Although money remains an important thing to think about (you can’t eat and shop without money, right?), but a good woman won’t put her love on your wealth because she already has something more valuable than money… You. Think about this… Love of money is only temporary because wherever the money goes, that’s where her heart is… But love that comes and grows from her heart to you will last for a lifetime. Why? Because wherever you go, that’s where her heart is. Do you notice the difference?

9. Simple and down to earth

There was a joke that said, “The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.” It’s funny but also true. Women are good market of beauty products by various companies. In fact, MOST of their body parts are good market.. Their hair, face, ears, eyes, hands, fingers, toenails, and so on. Don’t be trapped by a high maintenance woman if you can’t afford her needs. It’s better to choose a simple woman who still looks good with what she got, without requiring too much maintenance. In addition, she is modest and humble in everyday life, she doesn’t demand a lot of facilities to indulge herself.

10. Gets into your life

And the last thing is she knows and gets along well with your friends. She also knows your family well, helps your mom to prepare meals, travels with your family, and most importantly she enjoys it all sincerely. When she knows your life well and has a good relationship with your family, then you have a good chance to move into the next relationship stage.

11. 99% splendid on bed...
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by moneyhungry(m): 11:40am On Apr 03, 2013
Dipwater:










I like this particular list cuz its interesting to read. On ur last paragraph I do not agree with u ,its not all men .intelligent men don't see women as cooks. And the are worth more than having big tits and large batty.
Here is my own list;
Lil br/east
Normal backside

Se/xy hips

skinny

Pretty face(mustnt be like jess albas face)

Must importantly intelligent and very logical with her doings

Trustworthy

Loyal

Very caring

Dark skin

I don't give a fu/ck cooking and all those rubbish things

Nau u no my list,having a list is not a bad idea .its not compulsory its amatter of choice. Thank u
you just listed all d qualities of VIRGIN MARY.
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by sunnyt1(m): 11:41am On Apr 03, 2013
kulyie: i wonder what is wrong with all these men we have outside these days,why are they all so particular about number 6,7,8.something must be fundamentally wrong either with themselves,ego,lack of humility or accepting corrections from the opposite gender

We all know gals will hardly respect or show loyalty without the assurance of financial security frm the guys.

Thats wat experience has shown and the tone of ur msg says alot abt it.
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by claremont(m): 11:41am On Apr 03, 2013
An African man wants a lady he is mutually compatible with. Mutual compatibility means both parties understanding their various gender roles as dictated by our African culture. If an African lady is not ready to accept her cultural role in a family, then there is not much point in an African male striving to "settle down" with an African female. We might as well shift our focus to ladies who do not recognize our cultural values i.e. "Oyinbo girls". Therein lies the reason why African males in the diaspora are dating and marrying ladies outside their own culture, while African ladies in the diaspora are ending up as frustrated feminists.
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by moneyhungry(m): 11:42am On Apr 03, 2013
hardeyincah:
11. 99% splendid on bed...
see your HEAD like BED.
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by sunnyt1(m): 11:42am On Apr 03, 2013
classiquemama: uhrmmm.. truth is no girl will admit shes got a bad side, all girls will say shes got all the characteristics listed...

anyways, am not perfect... i aint even close to perfection ... but i know, am lagging in some ...

but think about it... even if i have 7 of these, will it stop that negro from cheating on me??

this aint about having all these .... its praying that will all these attributes, will i still be loved and cherished, cause from what i see daily, some guys naturally love them bad girls and they tend to hurt the good girls... though that doesnt mean am a good girl

Why do gals believe cheating is all there is to a man?

Pls kindly listen to gud guys too, dey will tell you pathetic stories abt gals generally
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by Nobody: 11:47am On Apr 03, 2013
Fortunately,God gave me a lady who possesses almost all the qualities listed here. Time to put a ring on it grin

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Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by Startechng: 11:47am On Apr 03, 2013
mechummy: I have them all cheesygrin

If truly u have them all then contact me for a very serious relationship that will definitely lead to marriage.
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by Nobody: 11:52am On Apr 03, 2013
Any woman that follows this joke in this day and age and with the kinds of men we have outside these days will just get ridden over by the man and his family.you are just his girlfriend,the man has not proposed to you,you have not done introduction.na sorry your name go be.the man and his family will so use you at the end of the day,he will give you one excuse why he cant marry you and marries another girl.na today,mshewwww
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by creativemusic: 11:55am On Apr 03, 2013
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Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by Nobody: 11:57am On Apr 03, 2013
sunny t:

Why do gals believe cheating is all there is to a man?

Pls kindly listen to gud guys too, dey will tell you pathetic stories abt gals generally
you better dont listen to this man if you know what is good for you.all these men have sugar coated mouth and will paint a picture to you that they are different from all the men out there,they are this,they are that,give them time,they will show their usual behaviour just like a leopard cant change its spot
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by miketonic(m): 12:16pm On Apr 03, 2013
Dipwater:


I like this particular list cuz its interesting to read. On ur last paragraph I do not agree with u ,its not all men .intelligent men don't see women as cooks. And the are worth more than having big tits and large batty.
Here is my own list;
Lil br/east
Normal backside

Se/xy hips

skinny

Pretty face(mustnt be like jess albas face)

Must importantly intelligent and very logical with her doings

Trustworthy

Loyal

Very caring

Dark skin

I don't give a fu/ck cooking and all those rubbish things

Nau u no my list,having a list is not a bad idea .its not compulsory its amatter of choice. Thank u

Since u commented on my post, I will return the favore. This is my list of girl that am looking for


1. She must be 5'9 and up tall. I just don't like short girls, I find them digusting

2. She must be dark skin.. Since I live in USA, I slept with a lot of white girls and even some was my girl, so, now I don't find white or light skin female attractive anymore. So, she must be dark skin. I love dark meat

3. She must have a nice backside... That's a must

4. Nice lips

5. Must know how to frie plantain

6. I think that's it, I really don't care about her being loyalty or loving personality, as long as she look good in bed naked ,, I will marry her. Lol


Ps. Don't judge me, that's my preference ...and everyone have their own.. Good day
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by blessingblacky: 12:22pm On Apr 03, 2013
cheesy I hv all grin
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:27pm On Apr 03, 2013
mechummy: I have them all cheesygrin



and you are still single... is either u are too young to get married or that u ve another serious problem and u dont wanna say it out.
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:27pm On Apr 03, 2013
miketonic:

I don tire una...please stop this list, is getting annoying, especially female, no body want to hear am. Man just want big bossom, big butt and a female who can cook in the kitchen . That's all.

and that's why you'll keep getting those ones that will be after your money.than you'll say,women are mterialistic.while in truth,men are lustful.what do expect her to do?except take ur money since u jsut want to use her
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by Jovanna(f): 12:29pm On Apr 03, 2013
blessingblacky: cheesy I hv all grin
sayz who? *just asking*
Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Good Girlfriend by segelity(m): 12:31pm On Apr 03, 2013
if only 2 of these can be found in naija gals e 4 gud.Visit http://
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