Billyonaire: @OP;

Only these things will make sex life improve in that marriage.

Alcohol: if she doesnt drink rum, then introduce mild alcohol redwine to your dinner. Keep alcohol in the bars and once she tastes them, she will be the one asking you out. Note: Do not ask her to take the alcohol, she will be drawn to it naturally.

If she totally refuse to take alcohol, which I doubt, then you need a sisi outdoor to keep you sane, if not, you go become some vegetable mind.

MrBible:

You are still a baby, you better stay in the romance section or be quiet and learn from wise men here.

sholay2011:
Yes sir...I'm surely learning from wise men here...but a pity you are not one of them, cos u re not WISE! Kai! I wonder how wisdom is this scarce.

SLIDE waxie: Your wife is fuckin someone else!

SLIDE waxie: Your wife is fuckin someone else!

SugaryBelle: as a woman i think dis is d only reason,since u have discusd it wit her severaly nd her mum had also tryd yet no improvement.

Shollypopz: Hahahahaha @ "touch and suck her boobz" *I spilled my soda*

dBard:

Were u trying t be funny or deliberately mocking d o.p Don't knw y decency is so difficult f ppl

@o.p. Ur wife's 40, possible she having a Mid life crisis. Feelings of inadequacy n worthlessness r common.at such times, leading t feelings of depression. This is esp if it's bin a gradual downhill trend..
If d change hasbeen sudden like, then u might need t consider d possibility she's gotten a spare nut

sunny t: In case u dnt know, women loose interest in sex at some point. Have u eva wondered y most men either marry a 2nd and 3rd wife or do wateva outside? At some point d original wife loses interest in sex and b4 she knows it wud have chased d man outside to look 4 satisfaction elsewhere, it happens in many marriages.

Ur report says she is older than u, i dnt wanna sound mean bt i will be suprised if u dnt marry a 2nd wife or look 4 satisfaction elsewhere.

sunny t: In case u dnt know, women loose interest in sex at some point. Have u eva wondered y most men either marry a 2nd and 3rd wife or do wateva outside? At some point d original wife loses interest in sex and b4 she knows it wud have chased d man outside to look 4 satisfaction elsewhere, it happens in many marriages.

Ur report says she is older than u, i dnt wanna sound mean bt i will be suprised if u dnt marry a 2nd wife or look 4 satisfaction elsewhere.

tunde1200:

You are right my guy but we have settle it for now.
But I like your comments so much because you really hit me some where...

chaircover:

Thats private between husband and wife. Three is a crowd

MrBible: Since your wife can not tell you what you are doing wrong but wants you to keep guessing, this shows that your wife is a selfish and jealous woman, does not have a mind of her own and some wicked and jealous relatives or friends of your wife has told her she married the wrong man that their man is better than you.
If this issue is making you to loose your sleep, then you have to act fast before you loose your mind. Go and get a place for yourself to live, have condoms ready for emergencies and let your wife live by herself, if she does not come and beg you and show you she has changed then it means she does not want the marriage anymore because of the nonsense that has been fed into her head by the wicked and jealous people that are advising her.

Proverbs 14:1
The wise woman builds her house, but with her own hands the foolish one tears hers down.

Try and get the prayer below by Dr Olukoya on cd or dvd and play it quietly all night if you can but stay away from pastors as they will even join your wife against you.
WICKEDNESS MUST DIE http://www.mfmhouston.net/AUDIO%20MESSAGES/WICKEDNESS%20MUST%20DIE.wma

chaircover:

. . . . so that what?

Heartibaby:
@MrBible do us all a favor will you? Change your username so that by your silly posts you do not give that wonderful holy book a bad name. Thank you.

sego1988: Well, I think the best thing is to give her some time and see if she would change to the person she was before, otherwise you take the bold step and divorce her..

5minsmadness: Mr tunde1200 good morning. its been more than a year. How r u and wifey doing as per this matter?

tunde1200:

Hmmmmm
I don't know what to type!.

5minsmadness:

Ah! Pls type something o!

tunde1200:
long story.....