I'm into a courtship of about ten years. We both love each other but the issue is that am now getting bored. Though we're discussing marriage, i am stalling the whole process because i want to be damn sure of myself.
Is this normal or a sign of a fading love? I need your opinion. Pls be constructive in your criticism.

Its normal that u re getting bored, ten yrs in a long time. U have to try to rekindle ur love affair and try to do the things that made both of u happy back then.
Try to rediscover each other. Go on dates, do things together, just do fun things and spend quality time together.

It maybe normal it may not be maybe you are afraid of a lifetime commitment like marriage search urself if u think you can live with her till oldage

aadetoyin: Its normal that u re getting bored, ten yrs in a long time. U have to try to rekindle ur love affair and try to do the things that made both of u happy back then.
Try to rediscover each other. Go on dates, do things together, just do fun things and spend quality time together.

U knw, if u say courtship of 10yrs is supposed to get boring, may i ask, wot makes it boring?
Seeing the same face for that many yrs, or doing the same man/lady for that same years?
My point?
How many yrs will they stay married if they will keep gettin bored? Or u think marriage is a more exicting than courting where u are at least free to some extent?

U guys shld start dating who u are really gelled with, and stop coming up with some 'boring' excuses!

Now OP: wot are tryin to say wen u said u were deliberately stallin d marriage process! U tell us why!

U don chop her beans for 10 good years, now u dey form ''tired of d relatnship''. Hw cum u dey realize nw, wetyn happen all along??