Nairalanders help mr out here,

ok i have this friend he was going out with a girl they were like friends one thing led to the other and he got her
pregnant the guy is working the girl is working also,ok nw the parents of the girl discovered this and they are hell
bent on saying the girl should get married to the guy, the girl got the guy's Dad number from his phone gave it to her father who called the guy's father, the guy's father said the guy should marry the girl.The girl is trying to draw sympathy from everyone cause she is pregnant.

Last month i escorted my friend to the girls house to see the parents,they were all insisting that nobody can come and disgrace thier daughter and not get married to her,the guy told them he is not ready to get married but prepared to take care of the girl and baby but they are still adamant he promised to give them a reply this month,precisely this saturday.

I asked my guy what is bringing bout his hesitation in marrying the girl, he told me when they started out he was using condom but the babe nw brought a preventive drug,assuring the guy that he should not worry that she was on drugs she can't get pregnant, that was in january,only for her to show up february that she was pregnant.He is nw asking me how do i expect to marry a girl that obviously tricked him in getting pregnant.

I told the guy the has to talk to the girl to see reason cause only she can solve this issue,my guy said if she is ready to deliver the child first before talk of marriage next yr or later no sweat but nobody can force him into getting married. else he will go to court.

Nairalanders help mr out here what does my friend do hia, cause this one pass me.[guy 33,girl 32]

Lol.... Any gal at d age wuld b desperate. Ur friend dn enta 1 chance bus. I hv notin 2 say d romance section guruz wuld

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GraceBestowed: This is how people end up in loveless, abusive, marriages!

Your friend should not bow under the pressure of anyone forcing him to get married to this girl, because she's knocked up! I've seen it happen so many times where people get married out of obligation, and end up miserable. You cannot use wrong to rectify a previous wrong!

As far as that innocent child is not abandoned, neglected, or unloved, by the father, everything should work out fine.

Yeah thanks for yr response,the guy is very adamant but the babe just wants to get married,although i dn't blame her but it ain't by force.

WELL . . . he cant say she tricked him into getting preggers cos therez no full-proof contraception. they r not 100% guaranteed to work. and since she obviously dint get herself preggers thru immaculate conception, he needs to take responsibility. If he wasnt prepared for it, he wuld av been more careful and kuku abstain.

Dat said, If shez adamant on the marriage and hez a responsible guy, he'll forget all his doubts and settle with her since they were initially dating so im guessing he has feelings for her. Even marriages started with so much love crumbles sometimes.

Or . . if he can have some legal document binding him to the mother and child's welfare (a certain monthly contribution), it culd suffice. Dunno bout her parents tho . .they'll b d major problem.

He needs to have a heart to heart talk with her on the way forward . .not tossing blames at any1.

The guy shud not get himself involved in marriage,if he has no true love for her and besides the foundation of d relationship is already wrong i doubt if anything good can come out even after d birth of d baby.

d girl is desperate and her parents are ready to give her to any available man- ur friend been the scape goat. Ur friend should not marry the girl cos she tricked him into gettn preggy. Until d paternity of d baby is confirmed, d guy shud cater for the baby

Kudos to your friend



His name is REAL GUY



DAD = Discussion After Delivery

wazobia_for_u: Kudos to your friend



His name is REAL GUY



DAD = Discussion After Delivery

very funny

A 31 year old girl I bet she must have wasted half her youth sitted on romance section of nairaland

This would just turn into one big noise.>>

They are both of age.. They are both working...He obviously slept with her without protection...He wasn't tricked. he is not a kid.

Since he loves her already,and plans to eventually marry her.He should just go ahead and marry her and avoid the noise

But if he is sure he doesn't want to marry her..then..just walk away..he doesn't even have to respond to anything.

Shit happens.

190: A 31 year old girl I bet she must have wasted half her youth sitted on romance section of nairaland

And a 33 year old Nigerian guy must have wasted half his youth in the sexuality section of nairaland.

elizomama:

And a 33 year old Nigerian guy must have wasted half his youth in the sexuality section of nairaland.

Ure bitter cos ure 31 - rotfl
Channel ur answer to born2phuck et al
We know the faustrated women on this section from the realz

190:

Ure bitter cos ure 31 - rotfl
Channel ur answer to born2phuck et al
We know the faustrated women on this section from the realz

It takes one to know one.
Prove to me that you're not frustrated either, you just keep displacing your frustrations on beautiful Nigerian ladies. Nansense

190-ur blood don finish?