Caracta: My next of kin is my wife. And that's because, we are "one". She is 'me', I am 'her'. Or she is 'i' and I am 'she'

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Amelian: Your aunt is making a huge mistake fighting about next of kin with her husband .. The more, she fights him, he will start thinking she is planning to kill him and inherit his properties or bank accounts... She should relax, talk to him subtly on why he still chose his brother when. He has children..issues like this , we use wisdom and tact in handling it... Not fight or by force..

50calibre: A wife is allowed to be next of kin only after she has proven her worth or mettle usually after a period of 15 - 20 years. else it has to be your mum. Mums are like next to God, they never fail you.

Caracta: My next of kin is my wife. And that's because, we are "one". She is 'me', I am 'her'. Or she is 'i' and I am 'she'

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Amelian: Your aunt is making a huge mistake fighting about next of kin with her husband .. The more, she fights him, he will start thinking she is planning to kill him and inherit his properties or bank accounts... She should relax, talk to him subtly on why he still chose his brother when. He has children..issues like this , we use wisdom and tact in handling it... Not fight or by force.... And lastly she shud pray abt it.. And also does she have her own business? Or is she working?

tellwisdom: Next of kin being the wife??---GOD FORBID ...It has to be my mama or my papa

gree-die:

this.

i cant fathom why nigerian men think this way.... too bad. erm ideally, it should be d wife but she shouldn't make an issue out of it, she should be tactful.

butta: thank you amelian good advice from u and op your children should be your husbands next of kin not even you should be next , your children should be the next of kin . I think your hubby does not trust you and he has doubts about the partenity of those kids op there is fire in your house better do something fast I suggest talk wiv Him to know why his brother and not your first son is next of kin

kofsy:
Lol! He's not my hubby jor... I'm not married (he's my aunt hubby). From my own perspective I think a man"s wife should be his next of kin. But my aunt is fighting for her space in the home. God forbid, if anything happens to the hubby, his family may come and chase her out and start claiming properties And with his kind of family I know they can do it cos they don't like my aunt they never wanted their son to marry her cos she's a christain and they are muslims. Even my family don't want my aunt to marry the guy, but she insisted. Sincerely, I'm scared of these muslims o, they can do and undo when it comes to fighting over a
dead man's property; especially when they don't like the wife.

butta: ignorant MoonGoose that's what you are ??

Why?? ..Are you fuckkingly and irritatingly dopy to tell me how to run my life??

butta: @greedie why should it be the wife ? Y not the children

tellwisdom: Next of kin being the wife??---GOD FORBID ...It has to be my mama or my papa

gladiator12:
If you are married it should be your wife or kids and not your parents. cos no parents wants their children to die before them, it should be someone who will inherit or stand on ur before when u are no more...

gree-die:

d wife is an adult and will be a better administrator of his estate but if he has grown children, den one of dem can be.

Amelian: Your aunt is making a huge mistake fighting about next of kin with her husband .. The more, she fights him, he will start thinking she is planning to kill him and inherit his properties or bank accounts... She should relax, talk to him subtly on why he still chose his brother when. He has children..issues like this , we use wisdom and tact in handling it... Not fight or by force.... And lastly she shud pray abt it.. And also does she have her own business? Or is she working?

50calibre: A wife is allowed to be next of kin only after she has proven her worth or mettle usually after a period of 15 - 20 years. else it has to be your mum. Mums are like next to God, they never fail you.