Hi nairalanders, i woulld like to know your views on this long-held notion about Virgins, everyman wants to get married to "some virgin", guys get very much excited when they find out that their new girl is a virgin, to me, Virginity is no dignity, cos it does not make u a better person or a better lover than non-virgins, whats in a virgin anyway?

whats in a virgin anyway?

some people say its[b] honour[/b]

yes another virgin thread just wat we need, e don do oh abeg disvirgin nairaland once and 4 all

i will never marry a virgin - how can anyone in their right sense marry a virgin - stupid and arrant nonsense and irrational and stupendous arrogance.

ah ah lol,u dey vex ooo ,u and who dey fight

You all need Jesus!

I think I now know the real reason why men like virgins. They are narrower down there. Simple.

Seun:

I think I now know the real reason why men like virgins. They are narrower down there. Simple.

Are they really narrower?

Mathematically, any guy who's big down there wont notice how narrow a virgin is because any girl he sleeps with will most likely be tight on him anyway.
I think guys with a small willy will prefer virgins irrespective of their inexperience, period.

Virginity is no dignity, because it does not make u a better person or a better lover than non-virgins,  whats in a virgin anyway?

Neither would being disvirgined give you dignity, make you a better person or a better lover than virgins.

who is a virgin anyway,left to me virginity is a thing of the heart.many a virgin(so called) are worst off than the disvirgined.and who cares about being narrower yonder,the fact that she's a novince in this game makes it boring.for me i dont give a hute coz am not one myself.the experienced ,the better.

whitelexi:

Are they really narrower?

Mathematically, any guy who's big down there wont notice how narrow a virgin is because any girl he sleeps with will most likely be tight on him anyway.
I think guys with a small willy will prefer virgins irrespective of their inexperience, period.

dude are u sure u've been with a woman before? just based on your response, how do u say a man that is big down there wont notice if a woman is loose or not? are u serious? do u know the elasticity of a female vagina? the only way u can tell me a man might not notice if a woman is loose or not is if u are as big as a new born baby, and if u are then u need to see the doctor

***no disrespect to women, i was just trying to state a point, sorry if u were offended***

and to the threadstarter, picking a partner is based on your compatibility with the female, people are different plain and simple, the fact that no man has had sexual intercourse with her doesnt make her a good partner, it might be good for your books(which is why i believe most naija men want them) but reality is she is her own person, wats between her legs don't change anything abot her, so virgin or not , if she has a fukked up mentality, then u will have a fukked up partner, if u both are compatible, then u are good.

and just my 2cents, my relationship experience with virgins have been my worst, we could not see eye to eye on a lot of things, (sex not being an issue here), my personal preference is to be with someone who has some kind of experience, someone who knows the consequences of actions she has taken inthe past and is cautious but content about her future reaches, thats my preference

Always VIRGINS MYTH i heard all the time!

For me, i don't think virgins would make better partners. It leads more problems if virgin person marries non-virgin one due to lack of sexual compatibility. I talk about sex urge or sex frigid. Think about it!!!

Lol, copycat!

To a very large extent, I think most virgins will make better partners. Marriage/relationship is all about being faithful to each other, and any young man or woman that have decided to keep his/herself by being faithful to God before marriage, will make a better partner when he/she get married because such a man/woman will appreciate that marriage/relationship better.

Sex in not everything in Marriage/relationship. There are lots more to that. Forget about the fact that they have not tested sex before and it will be boring when making love with each other. This will only last for a short while and soon they become expact thru constant meetings, since they are going to spend the rest of their lives togehter.

The bible says that we must be example of the believers in purity (1Timothy 4:12c). So, what is important here is you honoring God. The bible also says that marriage is honorable among all things, with bed undefiled. I tell you, any man or woman that abides by this, God will be well pleased with that person and He will smile on that relationship/marriage by releasing that full measure of grace needed to substain that marriage and you see things working, except that marriage was not the will of God originally.So, it is not even by our making most times to make this things work, but it is the grace of God. Even if you have kept yourself as a virgin, it's very important you pray and seek the will of God before you go into any marriage relationship.

For those people that lost their virginity before marriage HIS grace is sufficient for you. For those that are still involve in fornication and adultry, you better repent and turn to God now. So, lets encourage our younger ones to stay holy, with bed undefiled and seek God with their youthful age, I tell you, God will be well pleased with such people and HE will rease that grace to make better partners upon them when the time comes.

For more prayers and councelling you can mail me on wilimor@yahoo.com

God bless you.

every virgin gets disvirgined sooner or later, unless they don't want to, for personal reasons.

seriously sha, a lot of nairalanders have a virgin fixation.

Personality is also important in any relationship.

But if someone is looking for authentic virgins, is nairaland really the right place to put up a help wanted ad. This place can disvirgin a person mentally, if not physically.

virgins r just too clingy

WELL VIRGINITY IS NOT A DIGNITY ITS JUST LACK OF OPPORTUNITY , LOL

whats the correlation between virginity and been a good person? None. Been a virgin means some1 that has not had sex, hw does that impart on the person's character or personality.
I know a lady in her early 20s who is a virgin but she is also a Satan incarnation. She once poured hot boiling water on some1 face over a disagreement.

Terminator:

whats the correlation between virginity and been a good person? None. Been a virgin means someone that has not had sex, hw does that impart on the person's character or personality.
I know a lady in her early 20s who is a virgin but she is also a Satan incarnation. She once poured hot boiling water on someone face over a disagreement.

kpom!!!!

I believe only a virgin male should be looking for a virgin lady! If you're not a virgin, then u deserve the likes.

Whether virgin or not, na LOVE matter. + The fact that a lady is a virgin doesn't make her decent, I have seen virgins that masturbate

WELL, VIRGINITY IS FAR BEYOND ALL WHAT YOU GUYS HAVE BEEN SAYING, MIND YOU IT IS A HONOUR, DIGNITY, RESPECT COS IT IS FACTUALLY A GREATER COMMITMENT ESPECIALLY LADIES. MAY GOD ALL HELP US. AS AN EXAMPLE, I SEE IT AS A DISCIPLINE AND THE BEST WAY OF SEXUAL LIFE COS HUMAN WANT IS UNILIMITED- ASPIRING FOR MORE AND ALWAYS ASKING FOR MORE BUT DISCIPLINE URSEF TO DIS EXTENT WILL SERVE AS A WAY OF SEX CONTROL EVEN IN THE FUTURE.
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presently i have a write-up i usually give to known virgin friends in order to appreciate them and encourage them the more about it. above all, it is a God's instruction-EVIDENCE, IF MARY HAPPENED TO BE DISVIRGINED BEFORE HER MARRAIGE, THEN JESUS CHRIST CANT COME TRU HER. THIS IS THE EVIDENCE THAT VIRGINS ARE GOD'S FAVOURITE.
THANKS
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Hey Mr. Poster. Why are you making an issue out of nothing? Don't have anything else to do or what?

WELL VIRGINITY IS NOT A DIGNITY ITS JUST LACK OF OPPORTUNITY

spf, that's crap, should we test it? put up a topic like this 'I'm a virgin and I need some experienced man to deflower me'
Swear it'll be the fastest growing thread on nairaland.

@topic
I'm not saying I'm all that into freshers or sumn, but I think sumone that has had enough strenght to wait for about twenty years deserves some credit.
Haba, with guys like me arround, how did she do it, especially if she's beautiful

Another point of view is that this sister is obvously free from most STDs'. And at least there's about 60% probability that she doesn't have AIDS.
And don't tell me bout blades and syringes, those cases are exceptional, bout 40%.

I know a lady in her early 20s who is a virgin but she is also a Satan incarnation. She once poured hot boiling water on someone face over a disagreement

Just because an american dude molested Oprah does not mean all American men are peadophiles.
You yourself know, in your mind that this case is an exception, the average 20year old virgin is responsible and with good home-training.
The fact that she's a virgin doesn't make her decent but it gives you  lil view of her strenght in character.

I don't know of other people but a hottie that has no possibility of ever being a bitch is a good wife material.
The fact that she's never been with anyone before is a turn-on.
Being virgin is really good, but it don't mean the other side is bad.

@shayo02
bros, this is a public forum, what's with the private discussions and please leave your pic in your profile, it makes the thread neater

dude are u sure u've been with a woman before?  just based on your response, how do u say a man that is big down there wont notice if a woman is loose or not? are u serious? do u know the elasticity of a female vagina? the only way u can tell me a man might not notice if a woman is loose or not is if u are as big as a new born baby, and if u are then u need to see the doctor

No matter how elastic a woman is down there, she can never be as wide as a newly born baby - even if she just gave birth to one, reason being that it takes a lot of pressure and pushing to get the baby through that narrow space in the first place.
So, based on this, a guy who's well endowed will hardly notice how sagged a woman is down there whether she's a virgin or not!
The better mathematical point is that no matter how big a guy is, a woman will take him in comfortably or uncomfortably - that is how complex a woman's dynamics have been created by the maker
The maker probably knew this issue of a woman becoming sagged would turn into such a meaningless debacle

But i thought women had many step by step, and systematically sequencial methods of getting their privates narrower

:oFor A thread that was started at about 10pm last night, this topic should win an award for fasted grown thread.

:oHaba! Na so una like Virgin mata?


That person wey carry im pix put for here, be like say im no get album for house.
My guy, next time go post your pix for facebook or even yahoo profiles.
Opportunist, think say babes them go see the pix come trip for you? ^{try another method} _{this one don fail.}

Virginity to me is just a lac of opportunity.Virgins don't make better partners