My husby has been complaining of my weaves since day one.. If its not him eatin some when trying to kiss me ..its my hair being all over the room when cleaning ..I've thought of permanently removing it but my natural hair very hard to maintain and I don't really think it suits me at all...

Would like to get ur opinion on whether I should dish weaves nd go natural(coarse afro) for my husbands sake or just carry on with my weaves and maybe he'll get use to it..??

I put this post on fashion coz u might b the better judge ..xoxo

You look lovely
Your husband?............you dont look a day older than 15...........seriously
Anyway, I think the last pic with your own hair looks lovely, it depends on how you style it
Natural is also a good idea..........I m going natural as well
There are some lovely videos on you tube to teach and inspire you
Just have a look and see

Thank u..
Nd lol I'm not 15 but 19
Nd yes I marry at young age cause of blah blah
Will try going natural but if I can't maintain ths afro will go back to weave..
Hopefully he'll understabd that I tried to do it just for him

married at 19!..anyway you can just wear a wig nd canerow ur hair down underneath

Wow! You're married?!

I think there are ways to avoid his complain while still wearing weaves.
Personally, I hate seeing hair on the floor, sink, bath tub or wherever.
What I advice u do is style your hair in the bathroom and when you're done, clean up after yourself. I mean wipe and sweep any hair.
I don't know how this might sound, but buy hair that sheds a Lil.(like 3 strands each time u comb) I mean that's how we test for good hair right?? Washing and taking care of your weave helps too. Avoid too many oily products on your weave.
When you're at home, have your weave in a pony tail or wrap it up as much as u can. That's if your hubby doesn't mind

Natural hair does shed too, at the end of the day, you reduce shedding by how much you are willing to take care of your hair.

lepasharon: married at 19!..anyway you can just wear a wig nd canerow ur hair down underneath

LoL wig hmmmm hope it don't fall off lol
I'll consider that

Shollypopz: Wow! You're married?!

I think there are ways to avoid his complain while still wearing weaves.
Personally, I hate seeing hair on the floor, sink, bath tub or wherever.
What I advice u do is style your hair in the bathroom and when you're done, clean up after yourself. I mean wipe and sweep any hair.
I don't know how this might sound, but buy hair that sheds a Lil.(like 3 strands each time u comb) I mean that's how we test for good hair right?? Washing and taking care of your weave helps too. Avoid too many oily products on your weave.
When you're at home, have your weave in a pony tail or wrap it up as much as u can. That's if your hubby doesn't mind

Natural hair does shed too, at the end of the day, you reduce shedding by how much you are willing to take care of your hair.

Thanks for advice will really help

Yes yes yes
I'm married married married
Fell pregnant early last year
We decide to marry
Love him thou

nadia_SA: Yes yes yes
I'm married married married
Fell pregnant early last year
We decide to marry
Love him thou

nadia babes u need to take it easy with the broadcast of ur marital status on nairaland. Must u tell everybody?

nadia_SA: Yes yes yes
I'm married married married
Fell pregnant early last year
We decide to marry
Love him thou

It's okay hun....happy married life

Shollypopz:
It's okay hun....happy married life

Ngyabonga ..thts thank u in zulu

sauceEEP: nadia babes u need to take it easy with the broadcast of ur marital status on nairaland. Must u tell everybody?

But my post was concerning him..

sauceEEP: nadia babes u need to take it easy with the broadcast of ur marital status on nairaland. Must u tell everybody?

But u r ryt in a way I don't have to..
That means no post from me ..
Coz hs my life ..
Just me and him..

sauceEEP: nadia babes u need to take it easy with the broadcast of ur marital status on nairaland. Must u tell everybody?

She is young and happy na

@topic I like and prefer natural hair ..all African men do, some just font want to upset our insecurity African goddess .
You really look lovely with your natural hair keep it that way

CAMEROONPRIDE:

She is young and happy na

@topic I like and prefer natural hair ..all African men do, some just font want to upset our insecurity African goddess .
You really look lovely with your natural hair keep it that way

Thanks sweet will try my best na

nadia_SA:

Thanks sweet will try my best na

Welcome, wish u the best...good to see a wife who cares about his husband needs and feelings..more grease to your elbow.

nadia_SA:

But u r ryt in a way I don't have to..
That means no post from me ..
Coz hs my life ..
Just me and him..

Obsession is not healthy love. ..

@kenyattaMoore:


Obsession is not healthy love. ..

Itz not obsession doll..
*u wouldn't understnd either way

I'm torn,can't decide between the 2. So what I've done now is keep my hair natural under the weave. I'll check in a few months time if I have the guts to go natural or not. I have been considering getting a perm done as well...whole lot of options come to think of it.

I think the best thing is to do what makes you happy,because men r confused themselves at times. One will say - preffer a natural girl but you'll find him cheating with a girl with some weave.Like seriously..!

khukhi: I'm torn,can't decide between the 2. So what I've done now is keep my hair natural under the weave. I'll check in a few months time if I have the guts to go natural or not. I have been considering getting a perm done as well...whole lot of options come to think of it.

I think the best thing is to do what makes you happy,because men r confused themselves at times. One will say - preffer a natural girl but you'll find him cheating with a girl with some weave.Like seriously..!

lol ucinisile shame nd when we first met i had a weave on nd he decides to bash it now ...men r really confused but then ive been natural for a week now thinkimg of adding dye to spice it up o

Afro very hard to maintain..
So I'm still staying natural thou I relax it coz I have very coarse hair

I'm a big fan of the Ghana weave with or without extensions. Have you tried it before?

Shagati: I'm a big fan of the Ghana weave with or without extensions. Have you tried it before?

oh yes I've tried it..
Thou it doesn't suit me wella cause of my big ears..

Looks very beautiful on others thou