Do u think she will be proud of him ?

A friend of mine met this guy while she was in secondary school and he was nobody,now she is a graduate and he is rich (but he did not see the four wall of a secondary school,)months back he propose to her but she find it difficult to accept his proposal but she still love him.He also promise to go back to school.

If she can't deal with it, then she should leave him and let it be. but hope she doesn't later say "had i known"

iice:

Just because he didn't see the four walls of a classroom does not limit him. He can learn even outside a classroom. Like some people who go/went to school know better? Education is not limited to the halls of a school if one is willing to learn.
I agree with Thoniaslim, if she can't get pass this, she best be moving on to an educated man whose credentials she can present to people

We want them educated
We want them rich
They cannot be rich and not educated
They cannot be educated and not rich

Bahhh i tire for people wahala

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Word!!!

I don't know,
I always said I would like an educated man, because I am educated; but if she loves him, I guess it shouldn't matter.

peaceful p:

Do u think she will be proud of him ?

A friend of mine met this guy while she was in secondary school and he was nobody,now she is a graduate and he is rich (but he did not see the four wall of a secondary school,)months back he propose to her but she find it difficult to accept his proposal but she still love him.He also promise to go back to school.

i bet u and ur friend are considering marrying the guy because of the money. i wonder if that'd be case if he wasnt rich.
for some reason i can tell what ur thinking. piece of crap!

iice:

Just because he didn't see the four walls of a classroom does not limit him. He can learn even outside a classroom. Like some people who go/went to school know better? Education is not limited to the halls of a school if one is willing to learn.
I agree with Thoniaslim, if she can't get pass this, she best be moving on to an educated man whose credentials she can present to people

We want them educated
We want them rich
They cannot be rich and not educated
They cannot be educated and not rich

Bahhh i tire for people wahala

she's best moving on. she's having second thoughts cos dude is rich.

Most Nigerian Ladies will be more comfortable marrying a wealthy illitrate than a well educated pauper

:d a man is not handsome without the money that is y hand comes before some

it's obvious the guy is smart enough for him to have succeeded in life. the woman is being unrealistic.

Can't get home from work and trying to hold a conversation with my hubby, talking to him about point Q, but him not understanding how I got from point A to B. Sorry! No can do!

you can be intelligent and self-educated without getting a degree. yeye woman.

@ OP: I think your "friend" is pretty stuck-up!

So, the guy's not as educated as "she" is, does that make your "friend" better?

Part of the reason we get educated, is to be able to better ourselves, earn a decent wage, and cater for our families in future.

This guy can't be an idiot, if he's made it without "polish" from formal education, in a country where even graduates struggle. I think you or your "friend" need to evaluate the way you think.

Personally, if I was the guy, I'd run like the devil was after me with an axe. Away from, definitely not towards you. People with such retarded mindsets as your "friend" certainly couldn't have benefited from their education.

@ poster, i am a graduate and dating a Guy that does not have a degree certificate. Now i will tell you something, certificate does not place food on the table, certificate cnnot take care of you. It is a piece of paper conferred on somebody.

Life is about development. My man reads alot of books and unless i tell you, you wouldn't know he is not a graduate. I would agree that his speech is not that perfect but i help me all the way, i studied languages. I tell you that he is much more knowledgable and focused than some so-called graduates i meet. Education is good but you must not be in a four-walled classroom before you are classified as educated. The Books you read and the association you keep can get you educated but only the wise know this. These would boost his carriage and person.

You have to look at the contents of a container rather than the container itself. The Heart is the thing to consider. Help him out. Encourage him to learn.

Well i believe wisdom comes more with age. At a time i reasoned like your friend. I never believed i could ever date a non-graduate. How now? What happened to all the male graduates? But i am so blessed by the choice i have made.

Be wise!!!

you have spoken well

So, as I was saying em Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh Steaming said it already.