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Sex Before Or After Marriage Which One Is Better by efiasuny(m): 11:00am On May 24, 2013 |
Many says they actually prefer sex before marriage to know how best their partner can perform. while other prefer sex after marriage. |
Re: Sex Before Or After Marriage Which One Is Better by Lolaabokoku(f): 1:50pm On May 24, 2013 |
How can Ɣ☺ΰ Buy å car without testing †ђξ Engine? As ƒό̲̣̣̣̥r̶̲̥̅̊ m̶̲̥̅̊є̲̣̥ I love big, strong, aΩ̴̩̩̩̥d̶̲̥̅̊ reliable koboko.. If I were Τ̅Ơ̴̴̴̴͡ have se.x after marriage aΩ̴̩̩̩̥d̶̲̥̅̊ I find out †ђξ Kini is too small ƒό̲̣̣̣̥r̶̲̥̅̊ M̶̲̥̅̊y̶̲̥̅̊ Liking or he's not able Τ̅Ơ̴̴̴̴͡ perfom well nor satisfy me, watcha expect m̶̲̥̅̊є̲̣̥ Τ̅Ơ̴̴̴̴͡ do Quote m̶̲̥̅̊є̲̣̥ wrong if ya like I no carry send 2 Likes |
Re: Sex Before Or After Marriage Which One Is Better by Dygeasy(m): 2:24pm On May 24, 2013 |
Lolaabokoku: How can Ɣ☺ΰLola when are we doing the test-driving? |
Re: Sex Before Or After Marriage Which One Is Better by AtheistD(m): 2:41pm On May 24, 2013 |
Before of course. Why wait? |
Re: Sex Before Or After Marriage Which One Is Better by efiasuny(m): 2:54pm On May 24, 2013 |
Lolaabokoku: How can Ɣ☺ΰ hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, i like dis kind. hw which am opportune. |
Re: Sex Before Or After Marriage Which One Is Better by clemz85(m): 3:20pm On May 24, 2013 |
i woulda say 'before' but eehm, God is watching oo! but if after and the marrg fail because of that then who's watching? |
Re: Sex Before Or After Marriage Which One Is Better by Dormitila(f): 3:32pm On May 24, 2013 |
If u both re nt virgins, dia s no nid deceiving urselves buh if one or both s, dia shud b an aggreement on wen 2 ve sex... Buh personally, I wud say afta marriage. Hw cn u compare d privacy of a human body 2 a car? Dat doesn't shw any sense of reasoning... Wen next u wana buy a tooth brush, test it first to see if cn brush ur teeth well...mtcchheeww... 7 Likes |
Re: Sex Before Or After Marriage Which One Is Better by Beync(f): 3:34pm On May 24, 2013 |
yeye people thinks women are like cars |
Re: Sex Before Or After Marriage Which One Is Better by haroldflexy(m): 3:49pm On May 24, 2013 |
Beync: yeye people thinks women are like carsNo one said women r cars o. |
Re: Sex Before Or After Marriage Which One Is Better by Beync(f): 3:54pm On May 24, 2013 |
haroldflexy:some say their women are cars u can test drive.. rubbish |
Re: Sex Before Or After Marriage Which One Is Better by balaclava: 3:58pm On May 24, 2013 |
Beync: yeye people thinks women are like carsyes some women av already turned demselves to cars... some will even tell u they r cars.... so bone dt thing, or u wanna seat on a lonnnnng thing too? |
Re: Sex Before Or After Marriage Which One Is Better by Beync(f): 4:02pm On May 24, 2013 |
balaclava:Ok driver. how do intend to do the bolded? |
Re: Sex Before Or After Marriage Which One Is Better by balaclava: 4:18pm On May 24, 2013 |
Beync: Ok driver. call Dbanj on 2348033467602, if unavailable, try d gear in a car. o sha mon Beync: Ok driver. call Dbanj on 2348033467602, if unavailable, try d gear in a car. o sha mon... driver tinz noni |
Re: Sex Before Or After Marriage Which One Is Better by Bokoharam: 7:53am On May 25, 2013 |
Lolaabokoku: How can Ɣ☺ΰ It is so because you have a yardstick for comparison. Assuming you never had s.ex, u can never measure what is BIG, STRONG, RELIABLE. That is the reason premarital s.ex is bad. While I deliver talks on customer service in organisations, and marriage/relationships in churches [PLS, I AM NOT A PASTOR], I tell them never to allow their customer (spouse also) to taste another competitor because it will never be the same. So also it is in relationships/marriage. The koboko will never be the same, the drive, the energy, the skill. On the other hand, s.ex improves with age and experience. It is better for you two to grow together. If his pen.is is tiny, don't forget that he is the one that bore the hole in the first place (since you are a virgin), and it must fit at any point in time. Problem arises when an INSTRUMENT OF TEN STRINGS re-bores the hole already created by your hubby. It is only then that comparison sets in. There is this way God created a woman. Have you asked yourself why a woman bleeds (no matter how little) when deflowered? Do you know that no matter how hurt a woman is about her ex, she never forgets the man that deflowered her? That is how God planned marriage to be. Such that a wife never blinks on issues pertaining to her hubby. But what do we see today, a lady sleeps with every Tom, Dick and Harry. And gets married to one because of the necessity of getting married. Sadly, ladies marry men they do NOT love. And more often than not, women still love and sleep with an ex, who either 'disvir.gined' them. It takes the grace of God for a non-vir.gin to focus on only her hubby and not either fantasize on another man elsewhere, or hv actual s.ex with him. Summary, cling to what you have. Let the unmarried never have s.ex until they get married. It has a high level of dignity. And dignity comes from integrity and discipline. Interestingly, I keep saying, integrity/discipline has nothing to do with religion or faith. It has to do with what you made up your mind to do or not to do before you ever get to that point. 13 Likes |
Re: Sex Before Or After Marriage Which One Is Better by SLIDEwaxie(m): 8:04am On May 25, 2013 |
Lolaabokoku: How can Ɣ☺ΰi don quote u wrong already |
Re: Sex Before Or After Marriage Which One Is Better by Lalalaila(f): 8:11am On May 25, 2013 |
After marriage it will increase respect that your spouse has for you |
Re: Sex Before Or After Marriage Which One Is Better by soloyes(m): 8:16am On May 25, 2013 |
Lolaabokoku: How can Ɣ☺ΰyou don't send now but you will send tomorrow after you have tested and tested and your 12 o'ckock have passed. Then you become a prayer project, giving pastors unnecessary work. 1 Like |
Re: Sex Before Or After Marriage Which One Is Better by soloyes(m): 8:24am On May 25, 2013 |
the fact remains whether we accep it or not that over 80% of young people who get intimate b4 marriage never marry themselves and most of the so-called heart breaks are caused by us-we give out our bodies and the make the other person easily fed up with us. Any guy who is truthful will tell you that the moment he starts to have sex with you, he begins to loose interest in you. He might desire you for a sex material but hardly as a wife i don't know of gals sha 1 Like |
Re: Sex Before Or After Marriage Which One Is Better by Princesszoe: 10:21am On May 25, 2013 |
Bokoharam you nick scarces me but unfortunantly your post, to me, is the best in this thread. |
Re: Sex Before Or After Marriage Which One Is Better by efiasuny(m): 10:45am On May 25, 2013 |
soloyes: the fact remains whether we accep it or not that over 80% of young people who get intimate b4 marriage never marry themselves and most of the so-called heart breaks are caused by us-we give out our bodies and the make the other person easily fed up with us. Any guy who is truthful will tell you that the moment he starts to have sex with you, he begins to loose interest in you. He might desire you for a sex material but hardly as a wife i don't know of gals sha u are saying some tin nice. tell us d truth again. will u do it b4 marriage. hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm |
Re: Sex Before Or After Marriage Which One Is Better by efiasuny(m): 10:48am On May 25, 2013 |
Lala_laila: After marriage it will increase respect that your spouse has for you it is true sha Lala! but were u able 2 wait till after marriage? pls, lets bee raw a little. |
Re: Sex Before Or After Marriage Which One Is Better by Enegod(m): 12:31pm On May 25, 2013 |
Dormitila: If u both re nt virgins, dia s no nid deceiving urselves buh if one or both s, dia shud b an aggreement on wen 2 ve sex... Buh personally, I wud say afta marriage. Hw cn u compare d privacy of a human body 2 a car? Dat doesn't shw any sense of reasoning... Wen next u wana buy a tooth brush, test it first to see if cn brush ur teeth well...mtcchheeww... |
Re: Sex Before Or After Marriage Which One Is Better by Lalalaila(f): 1:29pm On May 25, 2013 |
efia suny: I am engaged to be married next year and yes i am waiting 1 Like |
Re: Sex Before Or After Marriage Which One Is Better by BB12(f): 1:38pm On May 25, 2013 |
It's infuriating, the way guys liken ladies to a car to be "test-driven" before marriage. For ladies/guys who feel it's the right thing to do, enjoy the ride and sample as many male/female populations you wish to. But never expect your children to act otherwise, because they will definitely be test-drive n. The level of moral decadence is so disgusting and I can't but wonder what virtues we want our children to imbibe! I have a high self esteem and any guy who doesn't value me as such can get lost! 1 Like |
Re: Sex Before Or After Marriage Which One Is Better by infodollarman(m): 3:17pm On May 25, 2013 |
efia suny: Many says they actually prefer sex before marriage to know how best their partner can perform. while other prefer sex after marriage.sex after marriage would have and is still better. but the issue is, with the tested okay syndrome of nowadays ladies, how many are willing to zip up till they say i do? |
Re: Sex Before Or After Marriage Which One Is Better by infodollarman(m): 3:22pm On May 25, 2013 |
Lolaabokoku: How can Ɣ☺ΰlol! |
Re: Sex Before Or After Marriage Which One Is Better by infodollarman(m): 3:24pm On May 25, 2013 |
Bokoharam:true talk 3 Likes |
Re: Sex Before Or After Marriage Which One Is Better by MaryQ(f): 11:58pm On May 25, 2013 |
Yes, Pray that you meet your own love at the right time. If you truly love yourselves. Marriage starts the day your share your bodies . . . |
Re: Sex Before Or After Marriage Which One Is Better by True2myself24(f): 1:27am On May 26, 2013 |
Well if one person could do both I guessed we'd know which one was better. 1 Like |
Re: Sex Before Or After Marriage Which One Is Better by Princessmel(f): 1:36am On May 26, 2013 |
We no fit buy product wey we no see or pay for service dem never render Abi? So why we go come buy market we never test? |
Re: Sex Before Or After Marriage Which One Is Better by efiasuny(m): 8:01am On May 26, 2013 |
Lala_laila: hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, nice talk. u mean sey na wait u hav been waiting since. hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, anyway, i waited for almost 2yrs b4 we got marriage. we didn't chop apple. |
Re: Sex Before Or After Marriage Which One Is Better by Lalalaila(f): 12:00pm On May 26, 2013 |
efia suny: I have always waited, i really dont get the point of 'renewing' virginity. I believe that there are somethings one only does in the confines of marriage and this is one of them. 1 Like |
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