I adore weddings and i solemnly hope that i will get married someday to the man of my dreams.......but lately i have discovered that i occasionally envy newly wedded couples and sometimes get jealous of them for no just cause....surprisingly, i loose control of my feelings and begin crying but seriously that would not be tears of joy or fufillment but of jealousy.
What could be the cause of this?

Carolinee:
I adore weddings and i solemnly hope that i will get married someday to the man of my dreams.......but lately i have discovered that i occasionally envy newly wedded couples and sometimes get jealous of them for no just cause....surprisingly, i loose control of my feelings and begin crying but seriously that would not be tears of joy or fufillment but of jealousy.
What could be the cause of this?

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The reason is cos you're a witch!!!

Don't mind me o;just kidding. Oya,come lemme mally you so you'll stop crying. But on a serious note,I think it's more of an emotional battle taking place inside of you. You want something so bad and can't have it and it turns your desires into envy(shows how badly you want it). You cry cos it feels like the best way to ease yourself but for how long will you cry? My advice is that you genuinely rejoice with people when they're happy and your own will come.

Oh swthrt,its totally normal. Its just midlife crises setting in. Stay off sad novels and depressing movies,you will come good soon enough

It's just so hard!

How old are you?

Carolinee: It's just so hard!

chronique: How old are you?

My age doesn't matter...dt's jst d way i feel...

Carolinee:
My age doesn't matter...dt's jst d way i feel...

Was asking cos I wanted to know if it's a situation where you feel time is running out. All the same,just try to keep a positive attitude.

It's normal but you just have to remind yourself that your own will come soon. My friend's wedding is coming up and she asked me to be a bride's maid and you should see how I've been planning everything as if it's my own wedding lol. It's her time to shine, my own will come when im ready. Just remind yourself of that

@OP are you gonna get married someday?

goldfish80: Oh swthrt,its totally normal. Its just midlife crises setting in. Stay off sad novels and depressing movies,you will come good soon enough

Chai! Nairaland which one be mid life crisis for this matter again?

@ Poster, instead of shunning weddings and crying. You've gotta enjoy life and prepare yourself for that man.

You can never tell where and when you will meet Mr right. Men also love confident women, who are not desperate to get married. So you need a change of attitude and perspective.

And how does that affect the newly-wedded

True2myself24: It's normal but you just have to remind yourself that your own will come soon. My friend's wedding is coming up and she asked me to be a bride's maid and you should see how I've been planning everything as if it's my own wedding lol. It's her time to shine, my own will come when im ready. Just remind yourself of that

thnx dearie

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meine:

Chai! Nairaland which one be mid life crisis for this matter again?

@ Poster, instead of shunning weddings and crying. You've gotta enjoy life and prepare yourself for that man.

You can never tell where and when you will meet Mr right. Men also love confident women, who are not desperate to get married. So you need a change of attitude and perspective.

true talk...thnx

Godson201333: @OP are you gonna get married someday?

of course

Carolinee: It's just so hard!

e get period wey hungry go catch u, u go dey find wedding to attend.

xynerise:
e get period wey hungry go catch u, u go dey find wedding to attend.

@ Op dnt worry your time will come,just be positive minded,dress well,smile and communicate well(dnt be arrogant or Saucy to people below ur class)...am patiently waiting for your I.V...cheers