I like Keith Urban's You'll think of me. I listened to it a lot when my last relationship ended. It's a kind of "bold face" song as if the other person didn't matter and it got me through many dark days. What's your take? What songs give you that whole "I'm doing fine now, without you baby' feeling? What songs kept you going when you broke up with someone?

Keith Urban's You'll think of me lyrics

I woke up early this morning around 4am
With the moon shining bright as headlights on the interstate
I pulled the covers over my head and tried to catch some sleep
But thoughts of us kept keeping me awake
Ever since you found yourself in someone else's arms
I've been tryin' my best to get along
But that's OK
There's nothing left to say, but

Chorus
Take your records, take your freedom
Take your memories I don't need'em
Take your space and take your reasons
But you'll think of me
And take your cap and leave my sweater
'Cause we have nothing left to weather
In fact I'll feel a whole lot better
But you'll think of me, you'll think of me

I went out driving trying to clear my head
I tried to sweep out all the ruins that my emotions left
I guess I'm feeling just a little tired of this
And all the baggage that seems to still exist
It seems the only blessing I have left to my name
Is not knowing what we could have been
What we should have been
So

Chorus
Someday I'm gonna run across your mind
Don't worry, I'll be fine
I'm gonna be alright
While you're sleeping with your pride
Wishing I could hold you tight
I'll be over you
And on with my life

Chorus

And you're gonna think of me
Oh someday baby, someday

It must have been love (but it's over now) - Roxette

If you die I wouldn't cry cause you never loved me any way - Mya

Mmmmmmm
Oh you hurt me so bad
It started out so perfect
Something God could only create
a union of both me and you on this special day
Never once did I take for granted
That you've been hurt before
So you treated me like a lady and even more
So I can't understand why you brought the storms into my life
Tell me why?
You destroyed every part of me
Now what once a beautiful lady
That you showered with your love
Must live with a heart that bleeds

[Chorus Dru Hill (Mya)]
I hope you never have to come this way again (This way again)
You used to be my lover and my friend (That was the end)
[Mya: ]
So please don't take offense when I say what I have to say
Cause if you died I wouldn't cry cause you never loved me any way

[Verse 2]
Promises made and secrets told
late nights spent in ecstasy
We made love in a bed of roses
For the universe to see
There was no holding back from each other
Both of our minds were free
whenever we spent time apart
Boy it seems like eternity

So I can't understand why you brought this pain into my life
Oh tell me why
I gave you a reason to live
And you used my love in vain
So go on by yourself to survive this alone
You know you can't come back home

[Chorus]
I hope you never have to come this way again (I hope you never to come this way again)
You used to be my lover and my friend (You did you did)
[Mya: ]
So please don't take offense when I say what I have to say
If you died I wouldn't cry cause you never love me anyway
No way no way no way

[Verse 3:]
How could this be
After all the love you said we shared
You turn around and leave
Boy you know you were my heart and soul
But I can't be hurt I gotta let you go
Together forever that's what we both said
I didn't know that life could be so unfair

I hope you never have to come this way again (Baby you did this to me)
You used to be my lover and my friend (You were my lover)
[Mya:]
So please don't take offense when I say what I have to say
I hope you die, I hope you die
cause you never love me anyway(Cause you never loved me anyway)

I hope you never have to come this way again (you never never never never never never never never)
You used to be my lover and my friend (You use to be my best friend)
You can get struck by lighting
Washed away by the sea
Burned in a fire just don't bring it back to me Cause
Cause if you died I wouldn't cry cause you never love me anyway (Cause you never loved me anyway)

Okay, maybe not that far,

Think of me- soundtrack from THE PHANTOM OF THE OPERA

@angeleyz, I love that Mya lyrics. It puts it so aptly. Isn't heartbreak a bitch?
@cuteass, don't you wonder if it was really love when someone breaks your heart or acts contrary after everything you shared?

I also like Kellis' I hate you so much right now. I used to even sing it to my ex whenever we quarrelled then. Gosh, was she crazy in that song, there was so much emotion in it.

@ annamaria

Its almost impossible not to wonder, but be it as it may, the love might have been there.

I can't vouch that i'd take a heartbreak lying down, and i know its always easier seeing it from the other side of the room, but honey the fact that someone loves you doesn't make them above the act of hurting you, and no matter how we try not to hurt the ones we love, sometimes its inevitable Cos we're human. Its only saddening that some mistakes are too costly that our hearts are too heavy to forgive them . . (too late to apologise - one republic)

Just being curious, was your heart just broken? If yes, please do take heart. It hurts as hell, but you'll be fine. You might never be able to go deep into his heart to confirm if for sure if he truly loved you, or whether he loved you for the right reasons, . . one thing you could do though is appreciate the good happy moments, look past the ugly awkward ones and try to move on. Easier said, but not impossible!

"Mama's gonna knock you out", NBN

great songs all round.

@Cadet:

Think of me is my personal song from Phantom of the Opera.


Blue Eyes Blue by Eric Clapton

I thought that you'd be loving me
I thought you were the one who'd stay forever
But now forever's come and gone
And I'm still here alone

'Cause you were only playing,
You were only playing with my heart
I was never waiting,
I was never waiting for the tears to start

It was you who put the clouds around me
It was you who made the tears fall down
It was you who broke my heart in pieces
It was you, it was you who made my blue eyes blue
Oh, I never should have trusted you

I thought that I'd be all you need
In your eyes I thought I saw my heaven
And now my heaven's gone away
And I'm out in the cold

'Cause you had me believing,
You had me believing in a lie
Guess I couldn't see it,
I guess I couldn't see it till I saw goodbye

It was you who put the clouds around me
It was you who made the tears fall down
It was you who broke my heart in pieces
It was you, it was you who made my blue eyes blue
Oh, I never should have trusted you

'Cause you were only playing,
You were only playing with my heart
I was never waiting,
I was never waiting for the tears to start

It was you who put the clouds around me
It was you

It was you who put the clouds around me
It was you who made the tears fall down
It was you who broke my heart in pieces
It was you, it was you who made my blue eyes blue
Oh, I never should have trusted you

Oh, I never should have trusted you
Oh, I never should have trusted you



Always something there to remind me by Naked Eyes

Take a look at me now- Mariah Carey/Phil Collins

I Miss You So Much- TLC

One Last Cry- Brian McKnight

tRoOE:

Have you ever - Brandy

I Tried - Brandy

I thought - Brandy

The one i gave my heart to -Aaliyah

Twisted - Keith Sweat

Like We Never Loved At All-Tim Mcgraw and Faith Hill(this song makes me cry)

Playas Gon' Play - 3lw

I love those songs.

and of course

My Heart Will Go On- Celine Dion



Every night in my dreams
I see you, I feel you,
That is how I know you go on

Far across the distance
And spaces between us
You have come to show you go on

Near, far, wherever you are
I believe that the heart does go on
Once more you open the door
And you've here in my heart
And my heart will go on and on

Love can touch us one time
And last for a lifetime
And never let go 'til we're one

Love was when I loved you
One true time I hold to
In my life we'll always go on

Near, far, wherever you are
I believe that the heart does go on
Once more you open the door
And you've here in my heart
And my heart will go on and on

There is some love that will not go away

You're here, there's nothing I fear,
And I know that my heart will go on
We'll stay forever this way
You are safe in my heart
And my heart will go on and on

too many sad people here.

okay, here's a more cheerful one:

If Drinking Don't Kill Me (Her Memory Will) - George Jones

Irreplaceable - Beyonce
Too Late to apologize - One republic.

@4Him, that's why it's called pity party songs, innit?  . Come join the party, don't tell me you don't have some bitchy songs that you know about that guys like to sing or listen to when they've had some bad outings with babes. I know my male friends liked Maroon 5's This Love

Whitney Houston's It's not right, but it's ok. I particularly liked the video, with all the women in black. Gives the picture of the liberated woman who has just kicked out her cheating boyfriend and bitchily shares all the dirty details with her girlfriends 

Unbreak my heart - Toni Braxton.

Lyrics to This Love by Maroon 5. I know guys like this one.
I was so high I did not recognize
The fire burning in her eyes
The chaos that controlled my mind
Whispered goodbye as she got on a plane
Never to return again
But always in my heart
Oh!

This love has taken its toll on me
She said goodbye too many times before
And her heart is breaking in front of me
And I have no choice, cause I won't say goodbye anymore
ooo! ooo! ooo!

I tried my best to feed her appetite
Keep her coming every night
So hard to keep her satisfied Oh!
Kept playing love like it was just a game
Pretending to feel the same
Then turn around and leave again

I can't make you love me by George Michael.

tRoOE:



Yea me too especially I tried, I think it was on her last album

[size=13pt]Yeah it was on Afrodisiac.[/size]

Time to Grow by lemar is a good one

~ Nobody Knows - Tony Rich
~ One Last Cry - Brian Mcknight
~ Gone - Nysc
~ I Will Survive -  Gloria Gaynor
~ Not Goin' Cry -  Mary J. Blige
~ Don't Speak, by No Doubt
~ Over You - Daughtry
~ Since u've been gone - Kelly Clarkson
~ Respect - Aretha Franklin
~ Stupid by Sarah Mclachlan
~ Through the Rain - Mariah Carey

And my all time fav

~ All Cried Out- Allure & 112

Ordinary People . . . . . . John Legend

SEPERATED by Usher

tRoOE:


Complicated- Avril Lavigne

my song!

Tina Turner- What's Love got to do with it.

I DONT EVER WANT 2 SEE U AGAIN, uncle sam