Wonders shall never end. Anyway, It is funny to hear this but it is true. My neighbor who is also a friend called me last night to his apartment, I was curious what the discussion Could be that warrants the inner chamber. I sat down to listen what the problem is, he nearly broke down. He reminded me on what I advised them about his son a year or so ago. There, I remembered that I warned them about the trait his son was exhibiting which looks like the ones the gays I know do have.
The boy is 5 years and extreme intelligent, at 3 years +, he has started reading and writing major words. He is Brilliant and sharp also.
The father narrated how he was invited for a conference meeting in the school because his son was caught in the toilet sucking another boys penis. I was shocked. So many things ran through my mind. With all the best care and love showed on his son, he wants to disgrace him. According to the father, he confided in me because I once cautioned them about the boy's trait.
The teacher also said that he fingered his female mate in their first term.
Now, he needs my advice believing I might also know how he can guide the boy to change his orientation.

Please, you can keep your comments to yourself if your sexual orientation is same_sex.


I will be happy if MOD will do this thread a favor by sending it to front page for much comments.

He should sit him down and talk to him like father to a son. There is no small child again. Explain the male n female reproductive organ and also mention how God created sex, anything outside it is wrong. And proper sex between male n female should be after marriage.
His dad needs to be more sensitive and watchful. What's going on in his environment? Is or has he been abused?? Is there a man somewhere doing same for him??
All in all a deliverance prayer will be ideal

Incredible!this early?I really hv interest cos I've never heard dis before.guys abeg make una put mouth constructively

Just take it to God in prayers. There's nothing physical u can do bout it. Homosexuality is a demonic spirit from the sea. Take d kid to ur pastor.

Unless people are watching porn in front of him (which is child abuse of it's own), the most likely reason the boy is having such hypersexualized behavior is that someone has done the same to him. I'm almost certain the boy has been sexually molested by someone. Someone may have made the boy touch their privates and either sucked his joystick or made him suck their. The boy is just most likely repeating what has been done to him. The first step is to find who has been assaulting him and deal with that, Next best step is to get him psychological help to deal with the trauma of being molested.


And I don't believe this means the child is homosexual, remember you said he grabbed a female student earlier. The poor guy is only repeating what he has seen not necessarily acting out a sexual orientation. They should calmly find out from the boy who showed him those things, where he learned to do that and if someone did that to him or made him do things to them. Everybody in the household is a suspect, or other caregivers. It could also be from school. Not in an angry manner, there is no benefit whatsoever to taking out any anger at the boy.

1. The boy is being sexually abused by someone.

2. Adults, could be housemaids, ha,ving s,e,x in front of the boy or watching p,o,r,n that needs to be investigated

Growing up, my house maid had sex in my presence with a neighborhood mechanic. I was like 6 years old.

Point of the story, you cannot trust your children with illiterates and child abusers.

I don't normally comment on posts like this but I would exercise caution. I was pretty wild in my early years and I cannot begin to list out the things I did with a friend of mine to a girl sitting opposite us in nursery. It was very sordid (for use of a better word) and even at home playing doctors and nurses with sisters and we were not exposed to the filth we have today. Thank God, I turned out alright and God is using me in His work.

I would watch the boy for now instead of disgracefully chastising him. Way to early for that, (and you risk damaging him) Just make he is not exposed to anything that would corrupt his mind and raise him in a solid fear of the Lord.

obowunmi: 1. The boy is being sexually abused by someone.

2. Adults, could be housemaids, ha,ving s,e,x in front of the boy or watching p,o,r,n that needs to be investigated

Growing up, my house maid had sex in my presence with a neighborhood mechanic. I was like 6 years old.

Point of the story, you cannot trust your children with illiterates and child abusers.

My thoughts exactly!

A 5 year old boy has no sexual feeling whatsoever . .. he's practicing what he has seen someone do, or what someone has done to him!

@ Poster . .

You need to tell his parents to talk to him, ask him where he got that idea from . .

Thanks friends, more comments and suggestions will be appreciated. I will copy this link to him to read and act from it.
Thanks.

Simply ask the child where he learnt such a behaviour and your shall find out the truth! Tell him he won't get in trouble and neither will who ever taught him. Dadddy also will not be angry. Tell him in a calm voice, even buy him icecream if you can. Someone is either molesting him or exposing him to p*orn. Anyone with po*rn in a house were kids are should be chased away, period.

obowunmi: 1. The boy is being sexually abused by someone.

2. Adults, could be housemaids, ha,ving s,e,x in front of the boy or watching p,o,r,n that needs to be investigated

Growing up, my house maid had sex in my presence with a neighborhood mechanic. I was like 6 years old.

Point of the story, you cannot trust your children with illiterates and child abusers.

seconded!
at that age, and since he fing.ered a girl before (aka manipulated in Seun's term), it must be one of the above reasons.

they should sit that child down, and the truth will come out.

what i am very curious about is what did you (OP) saw in the child to believe that he had same sex traits?! what was the exact actions that he did?

sorry dnt beleive d story.

5yr old blowing another child, mbah i no gree!!!!

MRbrownJAY:

seconded!
at that age, and since he fing.ered a girl before (aka manipulated in Seun's term), it must be one of the above reasons.

they should sit that child down, and the truth will come out.

what i am very curious about is what did you (OP) saw in the child to believe that he had same sex traits?! what was the exact actions that he did?

Thanks for the question. I have been expecting it.
I went through a male boarding school and also a private University where its mostly male.
Am not saying that gays are only found in those mentioned places but I was opportune to have known a lot of them from these places.
Most of them I know try to exhibit a female kinda style. In dressing, talking, walking, etc.
I do not mean that anybody that does this is gay.
This particular boy sometimes try to behave like a she and when I saw it, I unseriously called the father's attention and this is where I come in.

bebe2: sorry dnt beleive d story.

5yr old blowing another child, mbah i no gree!!!!

Yea, if somebody tells me this, sincerely I might as well have doubt about the story.

I was shocked the way I have not being before. It is a shocking story. Imagine the father almost came down when he was telling me this.
According to the dad, the teacher was telling him maybe considering his kinda intelligent and brilliant exhibits, that is what came to always busy brain/mind to do at the moment.
This boy is nursery three pupil that can read and write excellently. He has won many laurels which the latest is 'MASTER SPELLER' in one of the best school in Nigeria.

He's precocious not Homosexual,

chaircover: Homosexuality!!!! . . . or the fact that the poor boy has been exposed to sexuall activity at his young age. Before labeling the kid and beating the demons out of him, the parents should check out the boys environment very well. What is he watching, are there older people in the house who are having sexx and he has stumbled on them, or is he himself even being abused by an uncle or aunty or househelp even. You say the boy is intelligent and these days most 5 year olds can work a laptop so if someone was watching porn on the computer or a phone, the kid could easily stumble on it. The parents should check themselves and the environment very well.

How about school? what is he learning in school? are older kids abusing him, are teachers/teachers assistants constantly talking about sex around him/abusing him.

These are all the questions they should be asking and making investigations about before labeling the boy homosexual. Even homosexuals do not suck each others dickss at age 5!

You have said it all my dear sis
This kid is being sexually molested and exposed to sexual acts at a tender age by some wicked adult or teen,Homosexuality is the least of the fears here.

@ the poster tell the parents to

Question this kid in a non intimidating way,without yelling and also assuring him he will not get into trouble for speaking the truth
There is someone in that home or close,molesting this poor kid and by careful questioning,he will tell the truth.


If it were me I will get rid of every single relative besides his siblings ( and my hubby of course ) living in my home to begin with
The kid will tell exactly what's been going on if the parents approach this in a matured and calmly manner.
Child molesters coach kids never to tell anybody and allow it to be their little secret
You need to " unteach " that
Use that line
Ask them if anyone told them to keep a secret?
Ask them if anyone ,any auntie or uncle has ever touched,sucked or asked him to touch or suck their pee pee
Children have an innocent heart and it doesn't take long for them to spill the beans
This is heartbreaking

I still can't wrap my head around how anyone can walk up to a parent and tell them their 5 years old has homosexual traits. I don't get that, I honestly don't....I mean who died and made you sexual orientation spotter? No wonder the poor parents are in a panic.

As for the parents, why weren't they alarmed when the child was sent home for fingering another girl or is it just the "homosexual tendencies" they are worried about?!! If they had investigated and got to the bottom of that behavior when the fingering happened, chances are he won't be caught in the bathroom....doing that with another guy but no oh...they probably thought "Boys will be boys".

Nonsense.

bebe2: sorry dnt beleive d story.
5yr old blowing another child, mbah i no gree!!!!

there's no iota of truth in that bit!
no 5-year-old would do such, that's just exaggeration of the highest order!

bigx: He's precocious not Homosexual,

I checked the meaning of this Precocious. I sent this link to his dad to read, he was thinking something similar to being precocious in mind of the brilliant and intelligent the boy is.
Anyway, may God help the family.
For those that are doubting it, there is no gain to convince you cos I ve received much suggestion and advice from people's comment that will be useful,so, if you want, u believe, if u don't want, continue to doubt.
Anyway, even if Jesus Christ shows you the hole on his palm, most of us will still doubt him.

The boy already knows where to fingeer in a female anatomy

Very precocious

Could it be the boy was bullied into performing the act by the other boy?

Meringe:

I checked the meaning of this Precocious. I sent this link to his dad to read, he was thinking something similar to being precocious in mind of the brilliant and intelligent the boy is.
Anyway, may God help the family.
For those that are doubting it, there is no gain to convince you cos I ve received much suggestion and advice from people's comment that will be useful,so, if you want, u believe, if u don't want, continue to doubt.
Anyway, even if Jesus Christ shows you the hole on his palm, most of us will still doubt him.

There is an adult or teen sexuality molesting that child and exposing them to sex.ual materials and acts maybe in literature or movies,plus Internet when the parents are away
This is not a time to be opening dictionaries and encyclopedias
This little child 's future is at the verge of destruction and if this parent is reading,I implore them to act fast to save their child or they would end up with an angry monstrous adult with mental problems.
This is an emergency.
I hope that parent can read me
Do not delay!
Save that young man from destruction.

No 5 year old would know where to insert his fingers on a little girl if he hasn't been coached to do it or seen it being done same with giving a Mouth Action at 5.

This child must have seen sucking of dick somewhere and that is how he knows what it is. I do not think this is yet about homosexuality because of this age, he does not understand what he has seen. The father should check his computer gadgets and devices and make sure that the child has not accidentally been watching porn. He is a child, he does not know what it means. He should be made to understand that such acts are EVIL and a no go area. I almost died the day I discovered that my teenage niece was watching indecent videos on the iPad. How did she get there? It started with her innocently watching clips of Dora on the iPad to music videos and then to men and women doing stuff....Children that watch iPad are 3-clicks away from watching indecent materials and that is a fact.
The child should be removed entirely from such exposure. I think he will forget in the long run and vehemently warned not to ever be seen doing such. I just pray and hope he is not being abused by anyone around him.I agree with baby_123, find out form the child where he learnt it from, its another good way to know more.
Good luck to your friend, even though it is very embarrasing, he should be thankful that he found out this early. Abeg, monitor your kids, we live in a dangerous age.

babyosisi:

There is an adult or teen sexuality molesting that child and exposing them to sex.ual materials and acts maybe in literature or movies,plus Internet when the parents are away
This is not a time to be opening dictionaries and encyclopedias
This little child 's future is at the verge of destruction and if this parent is reading,I implore them to act fast to save their child or they would end up with an angry monstrous adult with mental problems.
This is an emergency.
I hope that parent can read me
Do not delay!
Save that young man from destruction.

No 5 year old would know where to insert his fingers on a little girl if he hasn't been coached to do it or seen it being done same with giving a Mouth Action at 5.

Help me tell them o! I'm scratching my head at all this precocious nonsense. So this 5 yr old was born knowing how to have sex abi? You all better wake up and smell the coffee, something very inappropriate and damaging is happening to that child and the sooner the parents act to address it, the better. If they prefer to bury their head in the sand instead and pretend such things don't happen to Nigeria, then they should know that they have contributed largely in destroying that child's life!!

jidegirl12:

SMH!

I begged fellows with orientation of samesex to keep their views or comment.

If you must know, I know friends that are gay but that doesn't stop us from being friends in as much I know it is a sin against nature, but am not better than them before God but that doesn't stop me from saying what they are doing is against nature.
Hold ur peace!

OP, How do you identify Gayy tendencies?