Tell me what you think.  Ok both guys are Nigerian,   1's Yoruba others Igbo,   I’m in love wit the Yoruba guy who’s married,   I didnt no he was married until
I got preg.   he wanted me to keep it. I didnt  b/c it’s unfair to his kids n wife.  it’s been a yr n everytime I see him I lust for him mind and body.   He is everything I want in a man wit out cheating.  When ever we do meet up, no we don’t sleep around anymore b/c were afraid plus he has a wife and I have a husband as of Feb. babies came early in Jan ’08.

 To get over him I started dating Igbo dude. Who I didn’t tell him I was getting back wit my ex hubby,  my drama of dating African men was suppose to be over wit Igbo dude.  All I want was for him to be the last guy I went out wit before I got back w/ my ex. the moment we started dating he was on me like a free trip out of Africa. This guy only has working papers her in the states he works in the medical field and lives wit his sister.  we agreed we didn’t want kids. Well u no it I got preg. N he stop talking to me said it was my fault.

I  never made him sit outside my door everyday waiting to see if  he catches me w/ other dudes or calling 100 times a day, pinning me down to the bed so I could feel him when he ejaculate in me. I begged him to use a condom he would always tell me don’t worry. “I’m allergic to birth control- clots my blood”. Yes we both were tested.  He said things to me once I got preg that would have made my dad come back from his grave. too much drama,  he has over 6 white female who call me always asking me about my baby and if I still sleep wit him.  I'm sure he’s sleeping wit them he has a wife who calls me. I have yet to tell her about my child and the other 2 he has wit diff women. I didn’t find out until I was 4 months preg that he is also married. 

I high jacked his cell phone,  his cell phone number now belongs to me so when ever his friends call I tell them what he has done,    I wanted to get abortion at 1st but the little voice in my head let’s call it the good voice the one that told me the first time no but yet I still had the abortion.  How many people do you know get preg w/ twins 2 times in 1 yr. not many…?  I had twins but one died.  He refuses to see her or give me a blood test b/c in his mind there not his and if he gets a blood test he will have 2 see her and take care of her.  I promised him I would take care of them,  which I do.   I ask him for nothing,

[color=#770077][/color]   I received word from a friend he’s taking me to court b/c he knows I have money and wants my 2 pay for his pan n sufferin.   my hubby is going 2 the Immergation to report him this am,  I don’t know what to take of this. 2 much DRAMa   
sorry about the heading,

sorry dear, your story is very complicating, i just can't understand it.

What i understood is this

GinikAwa:

my long flight of dating African men

You need to learn more on your English Language.

_{ooops! dat was a pretty long one} ur grammar dint help matters at all,so i cldnt get d drift of ur story.

I had issues reading this post.
I couldn't continue, hence I had to jump to the responses_{and found the same reactions}
Sorry o!

The only thing that may bring me back to complete the reading task are those curious pics up there!

The post was a little bit confusing I must say.

forget it

lol can you people read or understand english, i tried 2 revise it 4 ya.

My sister, i think what they are all trying to tell you is that your story lacks clarity. It is difficult to make head or tail out of it. Perhaps, you could try editing it a bit. Nonetheless, from the little i could decode from the jist, you have been bamboozled by two very smart naija niggers.

GinikAwa:

lol can you people read or understand english, i tried 2 revise it 4 ya.

all due respect, what you typed there would fetch you a D grade in English comprehension class.

lady/girl,found these pics kinda weird cause i dont see the connection, how r the pics connected to your story and can you clarify the basics of your story cause it seems most ppl me included didnt realli get it,though i understand sum african guy and u and sum emotional baggage and drama in between

lucabrasi:

lady/girl,found these pics kind of weird cause i don't see the connection, how r the pics connected to your story and can you clarify the basics of your story cause it seems most people me included didnt realli get it,though i understand sum african guy and u and sum emotional baggage and drama in between

allow me to summarise it:
she's cute, she has very little control over her emotions, she's sleeping with at least 3 different men within a short period of time . . . they take her for a ride, impregnate her and disappear. The rest is confused mumbo jumbo.

@lucabrasi

The baby pic is the daughter she had for the igbo guy, she actually had twins but one died.

Basically what she’s trying to say is that “Nigerian Men” are full of crap, all they want is sex and nothing more

4 him ur wrong, just pointing out how guys will do anything. even lie about being married. n have children out side not caring if it destroys there other home. blah blah I've been married now 4 over 7yrs. I deleted full post b/c people continue 2 say they dont understand b/c it not written in pidgen,

thanx troof , @ least someone on her understands, yes,

Wow, a very complicated story.

I had to read it 3 times, and at last understood.
I'd say, you've been hoodwinked by a couple of Nigerian guys, but the problem is, you let it happen.

Sorry to hear about the loss of a child - I didn't see the pre-edited version with pictures.

We all make mistakes in life, but most of us learn from them, I hope you too.

Good luck.