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Why Girls Don't Ask For A Guys Number On The First Day by drwhopl(m): 2:17pm On May 02, 2008
whats up my people how u'all doing?there's an observation i got to find out and i've been looking for clues and answers so i guess you guys can help out.

why is it that when a guy meets a girl on the first day like maybe at an occassion and you guys start talking and start enjoying each others prescence and u start acting as if u have know each other for about 20 years.then when you guys are about to depart,i observed that when the guy ask the girl for her number,she gives it to him.but she on her own part won't ask for his.even if the guy doesn't ask at all.
so i'm trying to figure out here that if u like this person and he shows concern and even ask for your number why don't you.

so u guys should tell me what that means, and this goes out especially to the girls.

i'm waiting

Re: Why Girls Don't Ask For A Guys Number On The First Day by kayowalemi(m): 3:34pm On May 02, 2008
I know they will shy away
Anyway, they expect you to ask so that it can be given to you
Re: Why Girls Don't Ask For A Guys Number On The First Day by iice(f): 3:42pm On May 02, 2008
Because some dudes will automatically think she's a slut undecided
Warped mentality
Re: Why Girls Don't Ask For A Guys Number On The First Day by kayowalemi(m): 4:02pm On May 02, 2008
iice:

Because some dudes will automatically think she's a slut undecided
Warped mentality
But a right thinking person shouldn't think that way since he met her at a function and not brothel
Re: Why Girls Don't Ask For A Guys Number On The First Day by Nobody: 4:03pm On May 02, 2008
kayowalemi:

But a right thinking person shouldn't think that way since he met her at a function and not brothel
what if the majority aren't 'right thinking'? tongue
Re: Why Girls Don't Ask For A Guys Number On The First Day by tngtech(m): 4:06pm On May 02, 2008
iice:

Because some dudes will automatically think she's a slut undecided
Warped mentality
exactly.
Re: Why Girls Don't Ask For A Guys Number On The First Day by iice(f): 4:07pm On May 02, 2008
Does this thread give a little insight?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-52616.0.html
Re: Why Girls Don't Ask For A Guys Number On The First Day by Emeka72(m): 4:10pm On May 02, 2008
because dats how nature sets it the boy should take the first move and not the babe. The babe only has to present herself to the guy.
Re: Why Girls Don't Ask For A Guys Number On The First Day by oziomatv(m): 4:24pm On May 02, 2008
girls can ask number first, it's only in Nigeria that guys have this village mentality of calling girls who has courage of going for what they like names.
I can say that majority of girls I've dated asked me out, they told me plain that they need me or show signs of interest for me to notice, it was an honor for me that a girl choose me, than rating them cheap. Maybe I grew up in that system I don't know.
Re: Why Girls Don't Ask For A Guys Number On The First Day by Uche2nna(m): 4:28pm On May 02, 2008
@ iice

Why did You not point out that the poster recieved some tongue lashing as a response to his post  grin


@ topic

A girl giving u her number does not neccessarily mean she wants to be third degree'd . She might give her number to u without hesitation. But when it comes to giving the precious, na dat time u go know say khaki no be leather grin
Re: Why Girls Don't Ask For A Guys Number On The First Day by kayowalemi(m): 4:37pm On May 02, 2008
ibkaye:

what if the majority aren't 'right thinking'? tongue
I Still don't believe decency in you will not speak ahead of you.
Re: Why Girls Don't Ask For A Guys Number On The First Day by joey007(m): 4:49pm On May 02, 2008
for me i dont really see any thing wrong with a girl asking after a guys nos even before he ask.
altough not all girls does that.
Re: Why Girls Don't Ask For A Guys Number On The First Day by sheniqua: 5:07pm On May 02, 2008
ladies please don't cheapen yourselves and ask for a man's number.
That action may come back to bite you in your ikebe
Re: Why Girls Don't Ask For A Guys Number On The First Day by sheniqua: 5:07pm On May 02, 2008
let him do the chasing.
That's the way it was meant to be.
Re: Why Girls Don't Ask For A Guys Number On The First Day by NaJaHaJe(f): 5:24pm On May 02, 2008
i won't ask for a guys number . . . . . . undecided

i love the chase grin grin grin
Re: Why Girls Don't Ask For A Guys Number On The First Day by frank316(m): 5:26pm On May 02, 2008
iice:

Because some dudes will automatically think she's a slut undecided
Warped mentality
you've said it all.

but thats sad, we are making our girls so rigid with this culture, some will even give you wrong number and unfortunately these grls think it makes them sharp and valued by the male folks
very very sad.
Re: Why Girls Don't Ask For A Guys Number On The First Day by oziomatv(m): 6:23pm On May 02, 2008
NaJa HaJe:

i won't ask for a guys number . . . . . . undecided

i love the chase grin grin grin
You never jam man wey go turn your head on, nobody go tell you make you give sign.
Re: Why Girls Don't Ask For A Guys Number On The First Day by bawomolo(m): 6:27pm On May 02, 2008
sheniqua:

let him do the chasing.
That's the way it was meant to be.

and who decided how it was meant to be.
Re: Why Girls Don't Ask For A Guys Number On The First Day by NaJaHaJe(f): 6:37pm On May 02, 2008
oziomatv:

You never jam man wey go turn your head on, nobody go tell you make you give sign.

that man go jam remember say God created him to chase moi! grin
Re: Why Girls Don't Ask For A Guys Number On The First Day by naijadiva2(f): 6:44pm On May 02, 2008
cuz unlike guys, we are not desperate.
Re: Why Girls Don't Ask For A Guys Number On The First Day by Scopium: 6:49pm On May 02, 2008
NaJa HaJe:

that man go jam remember say God created him to chase moi! grin

[size=13pt]Really? Howcome Adam woke up to a ready made Eve? when did he chase? undecided[/size]
Re: Why Girls Don't Ask For A Guys Number On The First Day by NaJaHaJe(f): 6:50pm On May 02, 2008
Scopium:

[size=13pt]Really? Howcome Adam woke up to a ready made Eve? when did he chase? undecided[/size]

His rib did the chasing wink wink wink wink wink grin
Re: Why Girls Don't Ask For A Guys Number On The First Day by Scopium: 6:51pm On May 02, 2008
naija_diva:

because unlike guys, we are not desperate.

[size=13pt]This is the most truthful lie I've ever heard[/size]
Re: Why Girls Don't Ask For A Guys Number On The First Day by oziomatv(m): 6:51pm On May 02, 2008
NaJa HaJe:

that man go jam remember say God created him to chase moi! grin
  real men are had to find, and beautiful girls many. na kpangolo dey run up and down for women.
Re: Why Girls Don't Ask For A Guys Number On The First Day by Scopium: 6:53pm On May 02, 2008
NaJa HaJe:

His rib did the chasing wink wink wink wink wink grin

[size=13pt]Ok I see grin grin grin
How are you Naje?[/size]
Re: Why Girls Don't Ask For A Guys Number On The First Day by NaJaHaJe(f): 6:53pm On May 02, 2008
oziomatv:

real men are had to find, and beautiful girls many. na kpangolo dey run up and down for women.

so are you agreeing with me then? grin grin grin

Scopium:

[size=13pt]This is the most truthful lie I've ever heard[/size]

keep deceiving yourself
Re: Why Girls Don't Ask For A Guys Number On The First Day by NaJaHaJe(f): 6:54pm On May 02, 2008
Scopium:

[size=13pt]Ok I see grin grin grin
How are you Naje?[/size]

am fine. . . . . thank you.

Howz ya day been?
Re: Why Girls Don't Ask For A Guys Number On The First Day by oziomatv(m): 6:54pm On May 02, 2008
Had it being I'm still in high school I'll still believe this shit.
Re: Why Girls Don't Ask For A Guys Number On The First Day by CrazyMan(m): 6:55pm On May 02, 2008
Because they feel it’s the guy who should do the calling.
Re: Why Girls Don't Ask For A Guys Number On The First Day by Scopium: 6:58pm On May 02, 2008
[size=13pt]My day is great Naje[/size]
Re: Why Girls Don't Ask For A Guys Number On The First Day by oziomatv(m): 6:59pm On May 02, 2008
That's why oto na aka nne full here and there.
Re: Why Girls Don't Ask For A Guys Number On The First Day by NaJaHaJe(f): 6:59pm On May 02, 2008
crazykid:

Because they feel it’s the guy who should do the calling.

you've missed the point totally.

Its not about who does the calling rather its about who does the 'asking out' by asking for the number.

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