If your partner cheated on you before marriage, can you forgive them and take them back? And if it was after marriage, can you?

Ah cnt forgive oo.. Ah aint jesus of nasal-RENT

Hell no.

SniperInADiaper: Hell no.

no is NO.. Wich one na "HELL NO"

SniperInADiaper: Hell no.

Hell Yes

Mr knowitall.:

Hell Yes

More power to you

I can't, both before and after marriage

All of you saying no, why not? What If they promise never to do it again? Or maybe they even cheated to provide for you from alhaji?

Princessmel: All of you saying no, why not? What If they promise never to do it again? Or maybe they even cheated to provide for you from alhaji?

The answer is still no.

Mtcheeew

yeah cos ?

Princessmel: If your partner cheated on you before marriage, can you forgive them and take them back? And if it was after marriage, can you?

Before marriage, there's no oath and no real commitment so there's absolutely no reason reason to take them back. You can forgive them but that should be the end of the relationship.

After marriage, well, that's another "devil."

Can better topics ever make frontpage ?

I will, afterall I'm cheating too.

My Babe cheated on me once and i forgave her 'once'. If she tries it again,err
I know thunder cant strike twice in a particular spot

ebamma 3: Can better topics ever make frontpage ?

No, we are okay with the good ones. Once u get better topics, you'll be clamoring for best

here we go again! 'women always want to be forgiven but they are never willing to forgive'
you can argue this all day but it's the truth, especially when she has her friends around her, they would be telling her to dump him. but when she is d one that cheated, the same friends would be calling you asking you to forgive her that it was the devil's work...SMH!!

Its so unfortunate in9ja dat when a guy cheats its normal but when a lady cheats she is a prostitute i pray God give us the grace to be faithful

Sure i can always do, Even though i just did that and am back to My Relationship with a good knowledge on what the lapses are and also a way to knock out the cause of the CHEATING..

Women would but men no way their egos would not allow. That is why the woman caught in the very act of adultery in the bible no man was mentioned and she was to be stoned alone.

Yup, yup! She'll be degraded to fc.uk mate though!

READ THE MANUAL OF LIFE THE BIBLE . CHECK WHAT NUMBERS CHAPTER 5 SAYS:

IT IS NOT ACCEPTABLE BY SPIRITUAL LAW BUT FORGIVNESS IS STILL ALLOWED IF YOU CAN.

No.

Not anymore.

Is not good even do u forgive her, dont take her bk, because it has hapon to me i saw them, people preach to i take her back after the story change pls if hapon u pls let go.

Lakayanah: Women would but men no way their egos would not allow. That is why the woman caught in the very act of adultery in the bible no man was mentioned and she was to be stoned alone.

pls stop generalising. I met my babe a virgin but she is no longer a virgin now and 've never slept with her b4 but we are still dating, how did it happen, magic??

Virginity of ol tings dat she cheated on me with, nb, dat's one of many cases of it. Am just giving her a chance to know dat no matter how fun dis world might be, it ol leads to destruction. It doesn't pay to cheat!!

NO OOO I CANT

We always mix forgiveness and Trust. Forgiveness let's go of the past, trust governs future behaviour. I would forgive a cheating partner but moving forward depends on how we solve the problem. Cheating is a consequence of a deeper problem how we resolve the problem will govern the future.

Les: pls stop generalising. I met my babe a virgin but she is no longer a virgin now and 've never slept with her b4 but we are still dating, how did it happen, magic??

Virginity of ol tings dat she cheated on me with, nb, dat's one of many cases of it. Am just giving her a chance to know dat no matter how fun dis world might be, it ol leads to destruction. It doesn't pay to cheat!!

It's possible she was rapped. Thanks for standing by her. Hope you are not doing it out of pity but out of love.

I won't take shit from anybody, but I will first give my warning. Once u fail, u are gone and gone for life. Rubbish...why should u cheat on me.