dayokanu: Let the guy carry the erecction to show the Mother In law

or ask the Mother In law directly that what is he supposed to do or does it make sense to her that her daughter is failing to do her marital duty using her as the excuse

dayokanu: Let the guy carry the erecction to show the Mother In law

or ask the Mother In law directly that what is he supposed to do or does it make sense to her that her daughter is failing to do her marital duty using her as the excuse

Sisi_Kill: So they wanna be ooohing and aaahing and give it to me hard babing with momma in the next room....with the doors open? Why not kukuma just invite momma for menage a trois and be done with it.

dayokanu: Let the guy carry the erecction to show the Mother In law

or ask the Mother In law directly that what is he supposed to do or does it make sense to her that her daughter is failing to do her marital duty using her as the excuse

Osama10: When it's time for action you can close the doors and reopen after the whole show now.

slimyem: The couple shoud start shutting their door and let grandma handle the kids now that she's around or what else is she in the house for?
Someone also suggested soft music in the background to drown the oohs and aahs.

ileobatojo: More importantly, these dullards leave the door ajar even when having se*x so that the children can have access to them whenever they want? Okay now, they will soon meet the fruit of their labor in front. When the children begin practicalizing what they've been watching from the ajar door, everyone will be shouting how children of nowadays are getting spoilt quickly.

Mom is right to tell her daughter it is weird for them to leave the door open so she can hear all their action. Who is interested in hearing that shyte. Daughter is wrong to take it to mean they shouldn't have se*x anymore when mom is around.

Sisi_Kill: So they wanna be ooohing and aaahing and give it to me hard babing with momma in the next room....with the doors open? Why not kukuma just invite momma for menage a trois and be done with it.

coogar: in that case, mother-in-law has to vamoose!
after collecting my yams and the other stuff included in the brideprice? where did she think her grandkids came from? oyingbo market??

dayokanu: Let the guy carry the erecction to show the Mother In law

or ask the Mother In law directly that what is he supposed to do or does it make sense to her that her daughter is failing to do her marital duty using her as the excuse

PureOhio: I’m happily married with two young kids ages 2 and 4. We stay in a 2-bedroom apartment and usually leave the connecting door ajar so that if the kids wake up during the night they may have access to our room to seek comfort, which is very frequent especially during these noisy thunder storms.

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My problem started with the arrival of my mother-in-law, less than a week ago to spend 2 months. Of course, she sleeps with her grand kids in their room. This doesn’t stop them from frequenting our room during the night, so the door is still left ajar. Much to my amazement, my wife has now told me that she will no longer allow us to copulate during the time her mother is with us. She said her mum scolded her and feels we are rude to engage in lovemaking knowing fully well that she is in the adjoining room.

My wife has always feared her mum so it is impossible for me to convince her that this is her house, not her mum’s. I don’t see myself going one week without sex, talk less of 2 months! Is it my fault that the bed creaks or that my wife has to make noise at her height of ecstasy?
I feel that my mother-in-law is being very intrusive and insensitive and I’m prepared to talk to her and ask her to leave if she insists on tormenting my wife, but I know that my wife won’t find it
funny at all. What should I do?

- Culled from LindaIkeji.

Nashville:

I completely agree with your solution. Hopefully this will help. But the mother sef get problem. How can you come to a married couple's house and tell them they cannot have sex while you are around. I mean, does the woman even listen to herself? You tell your a married woman, it is rude to have sex with her own husband. Who should the man have sex with instead? This is how people destroy their own children's homes.

Poster, you can suggest the solution above, but let your wife know you cannot stay for two months without sex with her sleeping next to you every night. If she insists, then she should come up with ways of ensuring you enjoy sex while she is on sabatical!

MMotimo: How does it make any sense to leave the door open during lovemaking when the MIL is next door?

What is the meaning of that? If the door cannot be closed, it's time to move the games to a different turf/location. Every town has a hotel or you find cheaper alternatives like the back of your car.

Haba, have some respect naw! I wouldn't even leave the door open with a sibling next door not to talk of a mother. No child of mine should disrespect me that way o! Because I came to help them with their kids? Orisirisi. Kia, I don carry my bag, face my house

yellowpawpaw:
U dey mind them! Highest form of disrespect to an elder! Why not walk naked around d house cos its ur house and u lv being naked?
Very immature.
They will one day be granny and their own kids will do worst things b4 dem.
The thing just dey vex me. Utter nansense!

LoveAmaka:

Why do you have to say marital duty! Too harsh it's not a duty...it's lovemaking. Sweet good old fashion love making. Duty sounds like she go to work. Maybe I'm too sensitive.

3 The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights (goodwill, kindness, and what is due her as his wife), and likewise the wife to her husband.

4 For the wife does not have [exclusive] authority and control over her own body, but the husband [has his rights]; likewise also the husband does not have [exclusive] authority and control over his body, but the wife [has her rights].

5 Do not refuse and deprive and defraud each other [of your due marital rights], except perhaps by mutual consent for a time, so that you may devote yourselves unhindered to prayer. But afterwards resume marital relations, lest Satan tempt you [to sin] through your lack of restraint of sexual desire.

She said her mum scolded her and feels we are rude to engage in lovemaking knowing fully well that she is in the adjoining room.