marvelling: yep! i can trust him to fvck the living day light out of her

sexkillz: You see your life?

sexkillz: You should trust your partner, not your best friend. . . No matter what a best friend does or says to your partner, if he or she is not swayed, nothing happens. The fault always comes from the partner. The final choice rests on them.

So, do you trust your partner? If no, why on earth are you still with someone you cannot bring yourself to trust? Don't you think something is wrong with you, if you fall in this category?

Ms_Steph: gals can have sef control but it is not dat easy for a guy. Plus not every post on nairaland is happening to d owner of d post.

Mynd_44: Why not?

mikelreal: Bros talk true. even if ur bestfriend is a priest..highly not adviceable.

Mynd_44:
I walk with a cool and trustworthy circle of friends who can die for someone else. Plus why be with a girl I can't trust? It is silly and a waste of time

Ms_Steph: "trust" is a strong word. Try putting it into test

sexkillz: You should trust your partner, not your best friend. . . No matter what a best friend does or says to your partner, if he or she is not swayed, nothing happens. The fault always comes from the partner. The final choice rests on them.

So, do you trust your partner? If no, why on earth are you still with someone you cannot bring yourself to trust? Don't you think something is wrong with you, if you fall in this category?

Mynd_44: I walk with a cool and trustworthy circle of friends who can die for someone else. Plus why be with a girl I can't trust? It is silly and a waste of time

ogugua88:



See my boys.

mikelreal: all na wash, why not just try it and see? @sexkillz et al

mikelreal: all na wash, why not just try it and see? @sexkillz et al

Ms_Steph: gals can have sef control but it is not dat easy for a guy. Plus not every post on nairaland is happening to d owner of d post.

Self control is subjective to individuality, no? And where did I say the post is happening to you, or are you guilty? Did your boyfriend leave you with his best friend and his best friend. . .?

mikelreal: all na wash, why not just try it and see? @sexkillz et al

Mynd_44:
If she does that, she is doing me a favor and saving me from future troubles

mikelreal: lol twas so easy typin that abi? most people commit murder. dunno seems most of us dont know the gravity of ur bf/gf sleepin with ur bestfrnd.mehn its the highest form of backstabbin. that is why it is highly adviceable you prevent such from happening. just play safe.

"thou shall not tempt your partner"

sexkillz: Try what and see? That is the problem with most guys. Laying claim to what is not.

Look here, young man. As long as you are not married to a lady, she owes you nothing except expected loyalty, and even that is not forced. She is a free moral agent and has monopoly over her decisions. The choice of remaining loyal to you is solely hers and vice versa. If she chooses your friend over you, suck it up. That she even did anything with him should give you a clue as to what her true intentions are, and what you should do is go down on your knees and thank whoever you worship for revealing that to you. I ask you again. Do you trust your partner? If you trust her, you can leave her anywhere and waka. Trust brings peace of mind. Try it and see. If you don't trust her, don't be in a relationship with her, maga-muguing yourself.

Why are you scared she'll leave? You don't expect her to leave with your best friend, but what if she does? You kill her or you kill yourself? Because. . .?

Oahray: If you don't trust someone, you have no business being his/her best friend or partner.