u only mentioned the hair style tat u dont like. what of money and sex? don't u like them?

IJI777: u only mentioned the hair style tat u dont like. what of money and sex? don't u like them?

lol...funny. Do you know if i'm married or a nun?

Caracta:

lol...funny. Do you know if i'm married or a nun?

Ur not married ur not a nun ur a Nigerian woman. So basically its not about u asking for money from a guy I don't have problem with that. Its about u thinking its ur birth right a guy gives u money (financially dependent on a guy) especially bcuz u both r bleeping each other. Only done in naija.

I have said it before and I will say it again. Any girl that thinks it is her boyfriend's duty to give her money, needs to have her head checked. Is he your father? Is he your husband?

pimp_lucious :


Ur not married ur not a nun ur a Nigerian woman. So basically its not about u asking for money from a guy I don't have problem with that. Its about u thinking its ur birth right a guy gives u money (financially dependent on a guy) especially bcuz u both r bleeping each other. Only done in naija.

Haba!

I'll stand beside you on all points except the request that guys not open threads to whinge hehe ... (also I support weaves 100% when they aren't looking like haphazard organ donations).

Caracta: I have seen a couple of threads on Nigerian women. So many generalizations and accusations.

1. Money
The men keep complaining that Nigerian women like money. I ask, "Who gives them money?" Men! Why give them and complain later? I'm sure they didn't point a gun at your head when you gave them money or gifts. Stop aiding them. If you are one of the men that shower gifts and money on women, please don't come and open a thread to complain. Thanks.

2. Sex
Who sleeps with them? Men! Some of those pointing accusing fingers have slept with not less than 30 women, especially teenagers (remember NYSC days). Next time your girlfriend opens her legs for you, close the legs. Help save the world. Or better still, stop complaining.

3. Fake Hair
A lot of you admire girls on weaves then come here to make noise. The last girl you asked out on a date, was she not wearing fake hair? I am not a great fan of Weaves but that is not enough reason to condemn others. Next time your girl is wearing fake hair, yank it off. Or better still, don't come hair to complain. We can't help you.

I agree that there are promiscuous girls (in large numbers). Some will even plead with you to sleep with them. I also agree that there are gold diggers (in extremely large numbers). There are good girls too. Stop generalizing. It's childish.

Or what do you think?

u made an open invitation to talk about ur topic and u are sounding anti men.

This typo discussion is out of vogue already!

It's gettin more boring by the minute.

Caracta:

lol...funny. Do you know if i'm married or a nun?

who tell you say nun no dey f^kc? tah!

Lol... The Generalized Accusation Will Go On Till Whenever Because Why?



90% Of Men Can't Say No To A Woman/Lady Except They Have No Choice Or They've Been Pushed. To The Wall Hence They Do All They Do For The Lady Unwillingly. What Happens After Doing Something Unwillingly? One Grumbles Of Course.

Caracta:

lol...funny. Do you know if i'm married or a nun?

There She Goes Again

See who dey talk of sex... Na person like you go say bobo no correct or hin thin no dey work if no sex...


Abeg make we hear word...

Why we are complaining is that
1. The only way to chop the punny is to drop the cash. The punny , we must chop so invariably we are forced to drop the cash.
2. My definition of fake hair is only when it is too much on ur head or e dey smell. Nothing wrong with a decent cute weave

It is better to stay single than end up with some girls I swear. But come to think about it ooo, a lot of the guys complaining have been shown a thing or two by ladies and to some extent, it is not their fault.

1). When a thread was opened about if ladies would pay for their meal if they go out, a lot of the ladies (on NL) came out to say "it is the guy's responsibility to pay for the meal. Some argued that although they don't support putting all their burden on a guy, the guy should show some charity. That's the same reason why if a guy goes to see a guy, he is expected to go with something, flowers, biscuit or something but if a girl is coming to see you, all she has to do is show up.

2). A lot of guys have had experiences with girls who they decided to respect and keep away from sex so the girl can appreciate them more but we all know what ends it. A lot of girls would go around to brand such guys as fools who can't "do" anything and see them as childish

3). What's the deal with fake hair sef? It is not about the guys, a lot of people (both guys and girls) are insecure with themselves hence the need to upgrade and add "attachments". The thing is, if you see something you don't like, talk about it. A lot of guys use NL as a sort of fish pond where they search for GF hence it is good put their preferences out there so the ladies would see.

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Either you married or Nun,Does that you mean you do not like money and sex?Nun self dey do self service ..you better Gboju!

About the fake hair 'thingie'. I watched a documentry by Chris Rock, famous American actor, which proves that some of these fake hair-wigs are actually sacrificed hair of devotees in a Hindu Temple. Some others were forcefully stolen from their rightful owners. And our women are wearing them even without first binding or delivering the spirits that may be lurking within. No wonder, nowadays, girls are going gaga!

ITbomb: Why we are complaining is that
1. The only way to chop the punny is to drop the cash. The punny , we must chop so invariably we are forced to drop the cash.

so u want ur money for.ur pocket and her back for.ground?......i see.

I bet a lot of comments made above was made by pple who have nt been committed in a relationship,say marriage. Fine. Let me take it from this angle. Basically when two people are in a relationship of any sort,short or long term,taking care of their dates shuld be a shared responsibility,whether it's paying for rm service,paying for their meal or flight ticket. Gifts are to be frm the hart and nt forced,besides it shuld be given when the resources is available. Altho bf/gf relatnships r difrent frm real marriages,i tink everybody shuld knw wat they're bringing.

Sex must be acceptable by both parties in a relationship except they are gays or lesbos. And it shuld neva be paid for. Bt if after having sex wit ma gf,assumin am nt married,and i rememba she needs help in runnin some errands for herself,if i gv her dat money immediately after sex,den i have let her knw for wat purpose am giving it to her so she wnt tink am payin for d sex. Sex shuld neva be paid for. If both parties are nt willing to sex each other even wen there is no dime,den it aint a relationshp. She can as wel help me out financially if she has d resources,be it after sex or nt.

Every woman deserves to look smart becos they're always pleasing to look at. Any man who doesnt like dat is immature. Wen i got married newly,wen going out wit ma wife, i notice a lot of men stare at her and it hurts me. Bt i've come to realize dats how it shuld be because a beautiful smart woman is always a pleasure to see. Afterall i stare too. Pls women,kp fixing dat hair,kp looking smart,bt nt at d peril of ur natural hair. If ur artificial hair fixing is affecting ur natural hair,pause for some time and takia of dat natural beauty.

IMHO.

Amen!!!

Caracta: I have said it before and I will say it again. Any girl that thinks it is her boyfriend's duty to give her money, needs to have her head checked. Is he your father? Is he your husband?

yes o.lol

Caracta: I have said it before and I will say it again. Any girl that thinks it is her boyfriend's duty to give her money, needs to have her head checked. Is he your father? Is he your husband?

gbam!! u don talk am

Mynd_44:
1)... That's the same reason why if a guy goes to see a guy, he is expected to go with something, flowers, biscuit or something but if a girl is coming to see you, all she has to do is show up.

Ah!

Alagba, correction is urgently needed ASAP sir!

2s£xy:
See who dey talk of sex... Na person like you go say bobo no correct or hin thin no dey work if no sex...


Abeg make we hear word...

Why are you like this? Did you read other people's comments? Did they throw shots? See guy, nobody is fighting with you here. I read your comments on other threads and i wonder why you are usually harsh and spoiling for a fight.

Biko, take it easy. This is a thread, not a battle ground. This thread is not just about me, don't take it personal. No vex, you hear?

brb after church

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Caracta, I pity you.. By the time the likes of dailynews and 190 and lefoollefool "cash" you, your name will be sorry

lalaosky:

Lmao.. And cataract makes another mistake.. Second time I'm seeing your typos.

See as human hair dey sweet you sotay you convert HERE to HAIR

*watch her edit it*

Yeeeeee!

*kneels down*

Lala, my love, the man in my dreams, my heartbeat, pls modify your post as i rush to edit.

*puppy face*

No be vex na... I am no faker that's why my comment may come across as anger...

I call a spade a spade... Mind you, I am not a sex freak like most guys and I am talking based on what I have observed.

When a guy does not wanna have s*e*x with his girlfriend, he is seen as a mugu or impotent.

Been there done that and got this to say... But now the reverse.


As for money, no girl is worth my money but her dignity and integrity does.

She does not have to ask me for money if I have it... because I am not the stingy type. Also, I am a giver to either male friends or female so any girl who feels cos she is dating me she has right to get any money from me might just die of hunger...

I don't place girls above males just because she got something between her legs... It could only work on sex freaks... Not my kind...

BTW, it's good Sunday for me BUSINESS-WISE and I don't wanna spoil my day
Enjoy ur thread

Caracta:

Why are you like this? Did you read other people's comments? Did they throw shots? See guy, nobody is fighting with you here. I read your comments on other threads and i wonder why you are usually harsh and spoiling for a fight.

Biko, take it easy. This is a thread, not a battle ground. This thread is not just about me, don't take it personal. No vex, you hear?

Thank you 2s£xy. I get your point. Guys, una dey try o. If you do, wahala. If you no do, trouble!

I'm glad i'm a woman. Wouldn't trade that for anything in the world

@op, money attract women, yes or no?

Women don't like poor guys,yes or no?

Women complain about guys being stingy,yes or no?

I've dated working class ladies in the past few years, they were all the same. Seems that thing is natural.

Caracta:

Yeeeeee!

*kneels down*

Lala, my love, the man in my dreams, my heartbeat, pls modify your post as i rush to edit.

*puppy face*

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