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Should Two Sisters Marry To The Same Family? by uduoyibo(f): 2:24pm On Jul 04, 2013
This is bothering me seriously. I need some advise if it is proper for two sisters to marry to one family, not to one person but two brothers from one family.
uduoyibo: This is bothering me seriously. I need some advise if it is proper for two sisters to marry to one family, not to one person but two brothers from one family.
Re: Should Two Sisters Marry To The Same Family? by thorpido(m): 4:44pm On Jul 04, 2013
Technically,it is allowed but really something is just not right about it.I've seen twin sisters get married to twin brothers but for two sisters to marry two brothers.....I don't know o.

Can't you fish far?
Re: Should Two Sisters Marry To The Same Family? by Nobody: 5:51pm On Jul 04, 2013
My own view...

It depends on the family, culturally Nigerians see marriage as a merging of two families, if a family is already one by a previous marriage another marriage could be like committing Inc.est. Yorubas even view it as a taboo or they believe a curse could come upon the family. My aunty got married into a family that her cousin had already married from, uptil this moment my grand mum feels like the reason why my aunt is not rich is because the marriage was wrong.

Dont try to diss culture, it has some powers as long as you are african, culture has some roots in you. grin

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Re: Should Two Sisters Marry To The Same Family? by Afam4eva(m): 5:51pm On Jul 04, 2013
As long as they're not marrying the guys cos they're from the same Family. There has to be a very cogent reason for marrying them and it has to be independent of the other person.
Re: Should Two Sisters Marry To The Same Family? by Nobody: 5:52pm On Jul 04, 2013
why not? undecided No be love be the most important thing?
Re: Should Two Sisters Marry To The Same Family? by Nobody: 5:53pm On Jul 04, 2013
thorpido: Technically,it is allowed but really something is just not right about it.I've seen twin sisters get married to twin brothers but for two sisters to marry two brothers.....I don't know o.

Can't you fish far?

The net is too short

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Re: Should Two Sisters Marry To The Same Family? by Nobody: 5:53pm On Jul 04, 2013
no biggie

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Re: Should Two Sisters Marry To The Same Family? by Sleekbaby(f): 5:54pm On Jul 04, 2013
Dere z notin wrong wit it provided is nt d same person dt dey r gttin married 2 n dt d 2 families r comfortable wit it
Re: Should Two Sisters Marry To The Same Family? by Nobody: 5:54pm On Jul 04, 2013
uduoyibo: This is bothering me seriously. I need some advise if it is proper for two sisters to marry to one family, not to one person but two brothers from one family.

If the family is good I don't see any problem unless.
Re: Should Two Sisters Marry To The Same Family? by ehiblessing(f): 5:55pm On Jul 04, 2013
For be its definetly NO, I don't ve a reason but capital letter NO
Re: Should Two Sisters Marry To The Same Family? by sylve11: 5:55pm On Jul 04, 2013
hehehe, e nor go tey u go tire for everything. Nor start abeg, there is nothing like destiny there. cool
Re: Should Two Sisters Marry To The Same Family? by supaeagles(m): 5:56pm On Jul 04, 2013
If the the father of the two sons is a millionaire / billionaire then .... yes.... you kuma should even find the third brother to marry smiley

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Re: Should Two Sisters Marry To The Same Family? by larger20(m): 5:56pm On Jul 04, 2013
I have seen this happen where 3 sisters married 3 brothers from the same family. 4th sister also married a cousin of the three brothers. It worked...they are all living...No divorce..

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Re: Should Two Sisters Marry To The Same Family? by ifyude(f): 5:56pm On Jul 04, 2013
There is nothing wrong in it so far they are not marring the same man. it happened in my family my uncle(my dad's younger brother)married the elder sister and the younger sister came to live with her along the line my cousin(my dad's elder brother's son) fell in love with the younger sister and wants to marry her ,thou my dad's elder brother resisted initially but he was unable to separate them bc the son(my cousin)refuse to marry any other lady and today they are both married in our family answering the same surname. is not a big deal ones there is love

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Re: Should Two Sisters Marry To The Same Family? by lainex(m): 5:58pm On Jul 04, 2013
its nt proper what wud da guyz or ladies younger ones call dere children and things might go wrong in future
Re: Should Two Sisters Marry To The Same Family? by Nobody: 5:58pm On Jul 04, 2013
Please no need for people to say much about this.
It is not wrong.
As long as you guys are ready to stay in love.

LOVE IS A CHOICE.

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Re: Should Two Sisters Marry To The Same Family? by rhames(m): 6:00pm On Jul 04, 2013
some traditions dont allow that to happen.
Re: Should Two Sisters Marry To The Same Family? by slimyem: 6:03pm On Jul 04, 2013
teeo: My own view...

It depends on the family, culturally Nigerians see marriage as a merging of two families, if a family is already one by a previous marriage another marriage could be like committing Inc.est. Yorubas even view it as a taboo or they believe a curse could come upon the family. My aunty got married into a family that her cousin had already married from, uptil this moment my grand mum feels like the reason why my aunt is not rich is because the marriage was wrong.

Dont try to diss culture, it has some powers as long as you are african, culture has some roots in you. grin
This is some thought.
Re: Should Two Sisters Marry To The Same Family? by Nobody: 6:03pm On Jul 04, 2013
@topic: I've been wondering the same thing too.
Re: Should Two Sisters Marry To The Same Family? by Kikyben2(f): 6:07pm On Jul 04, 2013
I see nothing wrong in two sisters marrying two brothers, if twins could get married, how much more two brothers to two sisters?...its no big deal...

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Re: Should Two Sisters Marry To The Same Family? by Odunharry(m): 6:08pm On Jul 04, 2013
ekwah: why not? undecided No be love be the most important thing?
abi na...i dnt tink it wrng,bt wait o..wat hapnd 2 oda guys?if u r sure u love each oda no biggie..
Re: Should Two Sisters Marry To The Same Family? by Nobody: 6:13pm On Jul 04, 2013
Kikyben_2: I see nothing wrong in two sisters marrying two brothers, if twins could get married, how much more two brothers to two sisters?...its no big deal...

How many Nigerian twins have married each other, and dont look at the wedding alone check for details about the marriage
Re: Should Two Sisters Marry To The Same Family? by mysticgal(f): 6:13pm On Jul 04, 2013
its no problem,but personally i wont feel comfortable,coz i love my privacy
Re: Should Two Sisters Marry To The Same Family? by minute(f): 6:14pm On Jul 04, 2013
I wouldn't say it's wrong. It sounds rather unlikely. I don't know many girls who would want

to share their weddings with their sister.


Who cares anyway-if the two couples are happy-happiness is the bottom line.
Re: Should Two Sisters Marry To The Same Family? by freecocoa(f): 6:16pm On Jul 04, 2013
I know I wouldn't like to marry my BIL, it just doesn't seem right.
Re: Should Two Sisters Marry To The Same Family? by Koolking(m): 6:23pm On Jul 04, 2013
thorpido: Technically,it is allowed but really something is just not right about it.I've seen twin sisters get married to twin brothers but for two sisters to marry two brothers.....I don't know o.

Can't you fish far?

If twin sisters can marry twin brothers in the same family, why can't two sisters marry to two brothers in the same family? What differentiate twins from two sisters born in different days?

Life has no manual. Go for what makes you happy. Damn what people may say. Remember, every move you make, people must have something to say. Do I care?

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Re: Should Two Sisters Marry To The Same Family? by somegirl1: 6:32pm On Jul 04, 2013
freecocoa: I know I wouldn't like to marry my BIL, it just doesn't seem right.

Your brother in-law's brother isn't your brother in-law, he is your sister's brother in-law.

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Re: Should Two Sisters Marry To The Same Family? by OkikiOluwa1(m): 6:33pm On Jul 04, 2013
In my culture, it's no. They ll call it in breeding.
Re: Should Two Sisters Marry To The Same Family? by xynerise: 6:41pm On Jul 04, 2013
It sounds odd to me.
Re: Should Two Sisters Marry To The Same Family? by Temismith(f): 6:47pm On Jul 04, 2013
To be on d safe side, twill be better u look else where. U never can say wat d future holds. Just save urself future regrets. Wish u well.
Re: Should Two Sisters Marry To The Same Family? by dayokanu(m): 6:49pm On Jul 04, 2013
Whats wrong with it?
Re: Should Two Sisters Marry To The Same Family? by Fhemmmy: 6:51pm On Jul 04, 2013
thorpido: Technically,it is allowed but really something is just not right about it.I've seen twin sisters get married to twin brothers but for two sisters to marry two brothers.....I don't know o.

Can't you fish far?

So what is the difference to what she is asking and what exactly is wrong with it? . . Just wanna know oh

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