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Re: She Argues Alot....very Unsubmissive by Nobody: 9:22pm On Jul 12, 2013
Royal Roy: Okay guyz....ease up on the poster please!!
I understand ur feelings & how much ur ego has been bruised!!!
A wealthy chic....got more education than you...probably the same age too....yea yea....and very stubborn & a feminist right?
Well, u need to give her a break!!!
Build up yourself.....make some money to boost ur confidence....train urself to be more opened & less temperamental.!!!
U don't need to fight her, u only need to communicate with her on these issues!!
If her siblings agreed that she is very obstinate & argumentative, then just give her some time to sort herself out....if after a while she doesn't show signs of letting go of such confrontational attitudes, move on Sir!!!
Life is too sweet to be bitter!!!
Cheers brov!
thank God this is comming from a man o. For the first time In a long while,I can see a man making balanced judgements.infact this person has summarised the whole isshh
Re: She Argues Alot....very Unsubmissive by Nobody: 9:26pm On Jul 12, 2013
joeace2020:

Plant a kiss on her lips yl shes arguing, n aked her n lie her on d bed, den bleep heaven n earth out of her, dress up, walk away for good. Never come bk. Tenk
what kind of retard is this one




What nonsense are you typing






Biko grow up







Btw nairaland is nor primary school graduates.I think seun should start putting age limit on nairaland so that someone will stop seeing some childish sh1ts here.mshewwwwwww
Re: She Argues Alot....very Unsubmissive by Nobody: 9:38pm On Jul 12, 2013
mgbeketoto: With a BIG BLOKOS!
I HAVE NEVER ARGUED WITH A MAN WITH A SHARP-BIG-BLOKOS O!
Who born moi? grin
Even if im no get money. . .I GO DASH AM MY BANK ACCOUNT O! kiss
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Re: She Argues Alot....very Unsubmissive by gedtalks(m): 1:33am On Jul 13, 2013
U guys are making fun over an issue that is serious to the guy. As a matter of fact these replies can make him decide to do away with her (he could be the only bachelor that even considers her for marriage,,, because of her ''intellectual prowess'' *..cof...cof...*). Very likely SHE will be heart Broken and Curse all of you on nairaland who caused to miss the only man that even considered her (although she is very preety).

Fact is that its not necessarily the ''intellectual prowess'' that is the issue. HOW ABOUT HER ATTITUDE TO OTHER PEOPLE like her lecturers (both male and female) when she was in school where she developed her ''intellectual prowess'' , ........ the guys that asked her out when she realised that she too could also have two B R E A S T S . Were her B R E A S T S developed from her ''intellectual prowess'' ...... The way she talks to the maids at home, .... Her colleagues at work..etc ....Okay maybe SHE IS MORE ''INTELLECTUALLY PROW+ENTIAL'' THAN NIGERIA.

Fact number 2 is: some females actually get SWOLLEN-UP at the slighteset gift God has given to them, OR THEIR IMAGINARY WORLD about their ''worth''.

My advice to you OP is this: first of all thank God that you have started noticing these characters before marriage. Only a fool would see fire and jump into it. There are a lot of females that are ABHORED by wise / very intelligent men.

You don't even need to ask for anybodys opinion my brother just look very well before you leap.
Re: She Argues Alot....very Unsubmissive by DBestDoc(f): 8:28am On Jul 13, 2013
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Re: She Argues Alot....very Unsubmissive by ireneidiva(f): 8:58am On Jul 13, 2013
angry
Temismith: Is u people married?
Is this a joke or what?
Re: She Argues Alot....very Unsubmissive by gedtalks(m): 4:27pm On Jul 13, 2013
ireneidiva: angry
Is this a joke or what?

is are not a joke o !
Re: She Argues Alot....very Unsubmissive by mgbeketoto: 4:37pm On Jul 13, 2013
kulyie: lolgrin you and blokos ehen grin

Have you looked at his fingers? wink
NOW. . .GO H-ARGUE WITH DAT! kiss

Ngwa nu. . . BEGIN DEY H-ARGUE. kiss
All these small-small BLOKOSES with OVER-SIZED POOHSIES wey dey make noise for MARRIAGE and SINGLEDOM!
Shiooooooooooooooooooor!!!!





Did you see A REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEAL MAN OR WOMAN H-ARGUING IN THIS PISSSSSSSSSSSSHURE?
Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew!!!!
If man PEPPER WOMAN azzzzzzzzzzzzzzze gooooooooooooooooooood FOR BEDROOM. . . SHE go see mouth TAKE H-ARGUE? undecided

ARGUMENT IS A SYMPTOM OF SEXUAL FRUSTRATION. . . .Simple!!!! Especially FOR WOMEN MARRIED TO MEN with small BLOKOSES! kiss
Re: She Argues Alot....very Unsubmissive by youngalex(m): 5:00pm On Jul 13, 2013
Guess I hav to work on my temper and take it gently with her....
Re: She Argues Alot....very Unsubmissive by biolabee(m): 7:17pm On Jul 13, 2013
Hahahaa

Mgbeketoto being dealt with flavour

Testament of H-open marriage


Nabania

Mu che che che
Re: She Argues Alot....very Unsubmissive by dasparrow: 7:30pm On Jul 13, 2013
youngalex: Well we re still dating,maybe she feels she is very idependent financially,on the basis of intellect we re @ par am just unfortunate to hav not gotten a better job all dis while...guess I hav to quit before I mace her am very gentle but hot tempered

I think your ego is hurt because she is financially independent and you are financially struggling. You spoke about submissiveness. Don't you know that the law/rule of submissiveness does not apply to boyfriend/girlfriend relationships? You want a woman who is not even legally your wife to be submissiveness to you? You who is broke like a stroke and cannot afford to take her for romantic dinners in fancy restaurants yet you want her to bow to you like you are a king?

My friend go and find your level. Go and get a job and make something constructive out of your life before demanding that another human being submits to you.
Re: She Argues Alot....very Unsubmissive by EfemenaXY: 7:39pm On Jul 13, 2013
dasparrow:

I think your ego is hurt because she is financially independent and you are financially struggling. You spoke about submissiveness. Don't you know that the law/rule of submissiveness does not apply to boyfriend/girlfriend relationships? You want a woman who is not even legally your wife to be submissiveness to you? You who is broke like a stroke and cannot afford to take her for romantic dinners in fancy restaurants yet you want her to bow to you like you are a king?

My friend go and find your level. Go and get a job and make something constructive out of your life before demanding that another human being submits to you.

Choi!!

And I dey think say I get bad mouth for nland! grin grin

mgbeketoto:


Have you looked at his fingers? wink
NOW. . .GO H-ARGUE WITH DAT! kiss

Er...Callotti, what's wrong with the bobo's finger?

Or is there some sort of coded finger rule here that I'm unaware of? tongue

Biko pls explain further...I still dey learn cheesy cheesy
Re: She Argues Alot....very Unsubmissive by mgbeketoto: 8:06pm On Jul 13, 2013
Efemena_xy:

Choi!!

And I dey think say I get bad mouth for nland! grin grin



Er...Callotti, what's wrong with the bobo's finger?

Or is there some sort coded finger rule here that I'm unaware of? tongue

Biko pls explain further...I still dey learn cheesy cheesy


See his fingers like 'SURGICAL INSTRUMENTS'! Imagine THOSE. . . INSIDE YOU AND MOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOORE!!!!cool
Seeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee 'CORRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRECT POOOOHSIE-SUCKING LIPS"!
I hope you understand? wink

* SEE POOOHSIE JUICE EFRYWHAI ON MY BED? cry Please. . .Time to MASTUBLATE. . . ME SO HUNEEEE* CHAI!!! *FLAVOUR NABANIA EEEEEEEEY. . . no man around right now. . .CHAI!!!* cry




SIMPULU!
COMPLEXU!
COMPLEXU!
SIMPLULU!
LOFF TODAY!
LOFF TONITE!
MY LOVE FOR EVER!!!!!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bmSH7PZduYw
Re: She Argues Alot....very Unsubmissive by EfemenaXY: 8:37pm On Jul 13, 2013
^^ Yeah, I get you now.

Damn! Girl, you are baaaad sha kiss kiss
Re: She Argues Alot....very Unsubmissive by youngalex(m): 9:05pm On Jul 13, 2013
Very Funny a hermaphrodite said dat am broke & i should find my level.....no comment @ mgbeketoto i dont tink dis has to do with sexual satisfaction cos am not a learner
Re: She Argues Alot....very Unsubmissive by Shinatu: 3:12pm On Jul 15, 2013
@Dayo,

On how he got her to date him, the girl is probably realising that the smart ones are few and does not want to live a miserable life in this 'woman must be married to be respected' society.
Re: She Argues Alot....very Unsubmissive by ayando(m): 5:56pm On Jul 15, 2013
The question is what do you guys argue so much about? it is either you guys are not compatible or none of you is mature enough to let it be.
secondly, you want a woman who won't express her opinion on issues or what. Thirdly, I think you need to deal with your hot tempered attitude. As long as my woman is not cheating n she is respectful, I really don't mind if she earns more than me. mark the word: respect! That is what counts for me most.

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Re: She Argues Alot....very Unsubmissive by ayando(m): 6:15pm On Jul 15, 2013
if you can do this, you will win. Don't quit rather show her love and silence tactic whenever she argues with you. believe me, she will get tired as long she is not loving another man.
Re: She Argues Alot....very Unsubmissive by 2legit2qwt: 6:48pm On Jul 15, 2013
dayokanu:

Honestly the best thing is to quit this relationship and go and upgrade yourself intellectually

Your written English is so poor that its shocking you can claim to have any form of intellectual prowess

The truth is your wife is smarter and more intelligent than you. And you want her to dumb down to your level because you are the man who is still without a good job.

Let me ask, How did you convince her to date you?

Its better you quit with your agidi talaka mentality. You are poor intellectually instead of seeking knowledge, you have a hot temper to go with it

Find your own size among other babes especially Paraga sellers.

Let your girl find someone who matches her intellect

Hahahaha dayokanu grin grin
This cracked me up at work even though, it makes 100 % sense.

@op
I agree, go look for someone in the same level as yourself otherwise, it's gonna be frustrating for both of you.

No point trying to force it especially if you plan on marrying her, it's never gonna get better and you'll only be able to fix it temporarily.

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Re: She Argues Alot....very Unsubmissive by divinelove(m): 8:55am On Jul 16, 2013
youngalex: Well we re still dating,maybe she feels she is very idependent financially,on the basis of intellect we re @ par am just unfortunate to hav not gotten a better job all dis while...guess I hav to quit before I mace her am very gentle but hot tempered
d real issue here is dt she doesnt respect u enough. every woman naturally wants a man more successful than her.
Re: She Argues Alot....very Unsubmissive by Nobody: 9:46am On Jul 16, 2013
If you are a man that is very controlling,from your post I can infer that,go and look for one mgbeke that doesn't know her left from her right,the type you will say sit there and she will sit,stand up and she will stand,don't go out and she will remain indoors.abeg slippers get size.it is very obvious the kind of woman op is looking for and the girl is too intelligent for that,let him find his size jare,full stop.


@op you don't deserve that girl,she needs someone to stimulate her intellect,not someone that will suppress it with your kind of african chauvenistic trait.
gedtalks: U guys are making fun over an issue that is serious to the guy. As a matter of fact these replies can make him decide to do away with her (he could be the only bachelor that even considers her for marriage,,, because of her ''intellectual prowess'' *..cof...cof...*). Very likely SHE will be heart Broken and Curse all of you on nairaland who caused to miss the only man that even considered her (although she is very preety).

Fact is that its not necessarily the ''intellectual prowess'' that is the issue. HOW ABOUT HER ATTITUDE TO OTHER PEOPLE like her lecturers (both male and female) when she was in school where she developed her ''intellectual prowess'' , ........ the guys that asked her out when she realised that she too could also have two B R E A S T S . Were her B R E A S T S developed from her ''intellectual prowess'' ...... The way she talks to the maids at home, .... Her colleagues at work..etc ....Okay maybe SHE IS MORE ''INTELLECTUALLY PROW+ENTIAL'' THAN NIGERIA.

Fact number 2 is: some females actually get SWOLLEN-UP at the slighteset gift God has given to them, OR THEIR IMAGINARY WORLD about their ''worth''.

My advice to you OP is this: first of all thank God that you have started noticing these characters before marriage. Only a fool would see fire and jump into it. There are a lot of females that are ABHORED by wise / very intelligent men.

You don't even need to ask for anybodys opinion my brother just look very well before you leap.
Re: She Argues Alot....very Unsubmissive by Nobody: 9:53am On Jul 16, 2013
Abeg that is not true.stop the generalization joor.except you want to say every man wants an illiterate wife.as mens taste for women are different,so is womens taste for men different
divinelove:
d real issue here is dt she doesnt respect u enough. every woman naturally wants a man more successful than her.
Re: She Argues Alot....very Unsubmissive by Nobody: 9:57am On Jul 16, 2013
Stooryyy author=ayando]if you can do this, you will win. Don't quit rather show her love and silence tactic whenever she argues with you. believe me, she will get tired as long she is not loving another man. [/quote]
Re: She Argues Alot....very Unsubmissive by Nobody: 10:00am On Jul 16, 2013
Op answer this second question
ayando: The question is what do you guys argue so much about? it is either you guys are not compatible or none of you is mature enough to let it be.
secondly, you want a woman who won't express her opinion on issues or what. Thirdly, I think you need to deal with your hot tempered attitude. As long as my woman is not cheating n she is respectful, I really don't mind if she earns more than me. mark the word: respect! That is what counts for me most.
Re: She Argues Alot....very Unsubmissive by Nobody: 10:04am On Jul 16, 2013
grin nawa o.una no go kill me for this nairalandgrin
youngalex: Very Funny a hermaphrodite said dat am broke & i should find my level.....no comment @ mgbeketoto i dont tink dis has to do with sexual satisfaction cos am not a learner
Re: She Argues Alot....very Unsubmissive by Nobody: 10:11am On Jul 16, 2013
gringringrin
mgbeketoto:


See his fingers like 'SURGICAL INSTRUMENTS'! Imagine THOSE. . . INSIDE YOU AND MOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOORE!!!!cool
Seeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee 'CORRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRECT POOOOHSIE-SUCKING LIPS"!
I hope you understand? wink

* SEE POOOHSIE JUICE EFRYWHAI ON MY BED? cry Please. . .Time to MASTUBLATE. . . ME SO HUNEEEE* CHAI!!! *FLAVOUR NABANIA EEEEEEEEY. . . no man around right now. . .CHAI!!!* cry




SIMPULU!
COMPLEXU!
COMPLEXU!
SIMPLULU!
LOFF TODAY!
LOFF TONITE!
MY LOVE FOR EVER!!!!!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bmSH7PZduYw
Re: She Argues Alot....very Unsubmissive by Nobody: 10:17am On Jul 16, 2013
Gbam,end of discussion,mods oya come and do what you know how to do best








Close this thread with immediate alacricity
dasparrow:

I think your ego is hurt because she is financially independent and you are financially struggling. You spoke about submissiveness. Don't you know that the law/rule of submissiveness does not apply to boyfriend/girlfriend relationships? You want a woman who is not even legally your wife to be submissiveness to you? You who is broke like a stroke and cannot afford to take her for romantic dinners in fancy restaurants yet you want her to bow to you like you are a king?

My friend go and find your level. Go and get a job and make something constructive out of your life before demanding that another human being submits to you.
Re: She Argues Alot....very Unsubmissive by Nobody: 10:20am On Jul 16, 2013
grin grin o wonder why she is crushing on that boy grin
biolabee: Hahahaa

Mgbeketoto being dealt with flavour

Testament of H-open marriage


Nabania

Mu che che che

Re: She Argues Alot....very Unsubmissive by Nobody: 10:31am On Jul 16, 2013
grin what is so special about what is inside his boxers.na prick be thatgrin shioorrr oshisko when you are talking about oko,prick,pheenese,dck you are talking about the length of my arm and the width od a horses own grin
mgbeketoto:

Have you looked at his fingers? wink
NOW. . .GO H-ARGUE WITH DAT! kiss

Ngwa nu. . . BEGIN DEY H-ARGUE. kiss
All these small-small BLOKOSES with OVER-SIZED POOHSIES wey dey make noise for MARRIAGE and SINGLEDOM!
Shiooooooooooooooooooor!!!!





Did you see A REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEAL MAN OR WOMAN H-ARGUING IN THIS PISSSSSSSSSSSSHURE?
Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew!!!!
If man PEPPER WOMAN azzzzzzzzzzzzzzze gooooooooooooooooooood FOR BEDROOM. . . SHE go see mouth TAKE H-ARGUE? undecided

ARGUMENT IS A SYMPTOM OF SEXUAL FRUSTRATION. . . .Simple!!!! Especially FOR WOMEN MARRIED TO MEN with small BLOKOSES! kiss
Re: She Argues Alot....very Unsubmissive by Nobody: 10:46am On Jul 16, 2013
youngalex: @ dayokanu its obvious ur response is quite immature,dis is a social media u don't expect me to fine tune my english here,based on job levels we all know naija I secured a good job late(few months ago)while she has spent years on a plum job,qualification wise she has a masters degree with other certifications and I have same so what's the stress,its just dis idea of women empowerment and gender equality...guess I have to give her a break
please do and give her a break permanently
Re: She Argues Alot....very Unsubmissive by shegzyRico: 11:10am On Jul 16, 2013
dayokanu:

Honestly the best thing is to quit this relationship and go and upgrade yourself intellectually

Your written English is so poor that its shocking you can claim to have any form of intellectual prowess

The truth is your wife is smarter and more intelligent than you. And you want her to dumb down to your level because you are the man who is still without a good job.

Let me ask, How did you convince her to date you?

Its better you quit with your agidi talaka mentality. You are poor intellectually instead of seeking knowledge, you have a hot temper to go with it

Find your own size among other babes especially Paraga sellers.

Let your girl find someone who matches her intellect

I don't like this dude, I don't know you, but according to what you've written here i wont be surprise if you doing worse than him in your relationship, he only asked for insight in a polite form and there you are displaying the dept of your futility.

back to the matter,

Bros think am wella, am sure there are other ways things can be done, work on yourself, forget her income, behind that smart lady there is a babe that needs Mclovin, study her , at the end it will all work out just fine, if u break up with her, how are you sure you won't end up with same attitude or worse?
Re: She Argues Alot....very Unsubmissive by Nobody: 12:23pm On Jul 16, 2013
dayokanu:

Honestly the best thing is to quit this relationship and go and upgrade yourself intellectually

Your written English is so poor that its shocking you can claim to have any form of intellectual prowess

The truth is your wife is smarter and more intelligent than you. And you want her to dumb down to your level because you are the man who is still without a good job.

Let me ask, How did you convince her to date you?

Its better you quit with your agidi talaka mentality. You are poor intellectually instead of seeking knowledge, you have a hot temper to go with it

Find your own size among other babes especially Paraga sellers.

Let your girl find someone who matches her intellect
Dayo i refuse to be killed wit laff cheesy cheesy cheesy

@ poster
I have a guy like you. He sees me as being domineering all becos i have a job, a car and stay in a *mini flat .
He doesnt have a job, no car and stays in a room.
I helped him to write his cv and submitted to diff coys. He thinks am too bossy for doing this.
Whenever i advise him to do something , he thinks i want to take advantage of him
He always reminds me dat he is a man so i cant tell him what to do
I have decided to let him to becos he has inferiority complex which i think is the problem of this poster as well.
When People like you have a woman more successful, you think she is proud, arrogant and not submissive and you will always blame that woman for ur predicaments
This is what i told the guy:You can always go and look for a woman you can control. Someone you can bring up and not who will bring up.
You cant continue dating her let alone thinking of marriage becos when u have a job and ur money starts flowing, ur own ego and pride will start and urs will be worse because you will you will turn to a dictator and she will never dance to to ur orders.
Break up with her for good and you will be happy again

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