bejahisky: In this ferocious situation,the agility of your wife and characteristics of the dramatical entertainmentology is condensed to ability of her attitude.So you evaporate the situation,and microphize it.Your decision will be jejuned and based on the fantasious dream.You have to hipopotarize her and crocodilate.Hope you understand me.

bejahisky: In this ferocious situation,the agility of your wife and characteristics of the dramatical entertainmentology is condensed to ability of her attitude.So you evaporate the situation,and microphize it.Your decision will be jejuned and based on the fantasious dream.You have to hipopotarize her and crocodilate.Hope you understand me.

I.Joan:


Did you feel smart after writing this?

-Mr Cork-:



..u tnk Sanboy is a lady?..serrrriously?

Sanboy25:
Of course, her career wouldn't last long, I'd do anything for her to be unsuccessful without she knowing that I am doing so. When it (her career) all ends, she'll see me as her savior and confident who was here for her all the time in times of trouble not as the one who killed her career.
She'll love me even more for that and I'll have my wife back at my side.

Abu Mikey: Man never fear Nothing!
**If I don get babe,I go come comment!!**

alutacontinua:

bejahisky: In this ferocious situation,the agility of your wife and characteristics of the dramatical entertainmentology is condensed to ability of her attitude.So you evaporate the situation,and microphize it.Your decision will be jejuned and based on the fantasious dream.You have to hipopotarize her and crocodilate.Hope you understand me.

mastroesco:

I don't buy this Idea of killing someone's dream for ur own heart desire. If you don't want an actress, just stay clear instead of going on with bad intentions.
What if she finds out halfway into the Marriage you killed her career, do you think dat marriage will ever be the same?

mastroesco:

I don't buy this Idea of killing someone's dream for ur own heart desire. If you don't want an actress, just stay clear instead of going on with bad intentions.
What if she finds out halfway into the Marriage you killed her career, do you think dat marriage will ever be the same?

abpatrick7: kk mikey.. We dey wait.

mastroesco:
If you don't want an actress, just stay clear instead of going on with bad intentions.

The poster stated that in this situation, we are already married. Are you trying to say that I'll have to divorce her just because she wants to be an actress even if I love her with all the fibers of my heart and that she also ? Don't you think that it'll be even more worse for her, because I'll put her through the dilemma of choosing between her career and her husband that she love. Don't you think that this way of killing her dream is worse than my original plan ? With this method you're putting a strain on her mind forcing her to choose between the stability of her family and her biggest dream thus exposing her to potential depression and other unwanted psychological matters...
As a matter of fact, if she chooses you over the dream of her life a.k.a her carer, I'm sure that her love for you will diminish because you put her in this situation, she'll see you as the wicked man who didn't care about her happiness or the one who stomped on her goals. She'll become angry and bitter, she'll make you see hell on earth, you'll be fed up and you'll divorce...
-> All that to say that sometime the righteous and honest solution is not the best.

mastroesco: What if she finds out halfway into the Marriage you killed her career, do you think dat marriage will ever be the same?

She'll never find out. I'll make my way so that it remains a secret under the carpet. If she is suspicious of something, I'll tell her to trust me and I'll say 'After all the support I showed you how can say such things, I always wanted the best for you, I'm your number 1 fan, I pray everyday for your career to thrive, I'm disappointed.' She'll feel guilty and she'll love me more.

bejahisky: In this ferocious situation,the agility of your wife and characteristics of the dramatical entertainmentology is condensed to ability of her attitude.So you evaporate the situation,and microphize it.Your decision will be jejuned and based on the fantasious dream.You have to hipopotarize her and crocodilate.Hope you understand me.

Sanboy25:
[b] The poster stated that in this situation, we are already married. Are you trying to say that I'll have to divorce her just because she wants to be an actress even if I love her with all the fibers of my heart and that she also ? Don't you think that it'll be even more worse for her, because I'll put her through the dilemma of choosing between her career and her husband that she love. Don't you think that this way of killing her dream is worse than my original plan ? With this method you're putting a strain on her mind forcing her to choose between the stability of her family and her biggest dream thus exposing her to potential depression and other unwanted psychological matters...
As a matter of fact, if she chooses you over the dream of her life a.k.a her carer, I'm sure that her love for you will diminish because you put her in this situation, she'll see you as the wicked man who didn't care about her happiness or the one who stomped on her goals. She'll become angry and bitter, she'll make you see hell on earth, you'll be fed up and you'll divorce...
-> All that to say that sometime the righteous and honest solution is not the best. [/b]

She'll never find out. I'll make my way so that it remains a secret under the carpet. If she is suspicious of something, I'll tell her to trust me and I'll say 'After all the support I showed you how can say such things, I always wanted the best for you, I'm your number 1 fan, I pray everyday for your career to thrive, I'm disappointed.' She'll feel guilty and she'll love me more.

daisyella:
Lolzzz what an advice

abpatrick7: You just woke up one morning, and your fiancee whom you did be settling down with in a couple of months, tells you she wants to be an actress and she's got some industry entertainment-heavyweights ready to bankroll her rise to stardom, to be a brand and household name in Nigeria.

As a hubby to be, would you agree?

If you would agree, would you be 100% committed? and can you brace up for the challenge ahead?

If you won't agree or would rather let the marriage pass, would you just abandon something real and genuine; a feeling btw u both rarely felt in a lifetime?

She's not ready to do anything else other than to trend and to be on motion pictures.

While he, a private person, abhors publicity, or anything that would impact negatively on his marriage / family. Doesn't want anything to do with the film industry.

This is the dilema. ^^^^^^

What would you do?