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My Boyfriend Doesnt Treat Me Like His Girlfriend? by Nobody: 2:54pm On Jul 25, 2013
How do I tell my boyfriend that he treats me like **** and I don't feel like im his girlfriend or rather his only girl friend . May I add he is a rapper in the music business its badenough that I have to deal with the groupies .
but anyways , last night when we talked to each other , I asked him why he acts the way he does . He said cause I always bring drama & I am always bitching .but it's hard nottoo. So today I texted him saying I miss him he said I miss yhu too ,& i texted him again twice and he didn't reply . He barley ever reply and i understand that he is a rapperand all and he's busy but , i just feel unwanted and ignored sad May I do alot more than he does in the relationship! Like I have to do everything.
So i wanna send him a text tonight so he can see it when he wakes up .But idk what to say or how to say it without it seeming like im bitching im not trying to break it off right now!
So , can someone please tell me what i can text him, A FULL DETAILEDMESSAGE PLEASE, please help . SERIOUS ANSWERS PLEASE .
-_- IT WILL SURELY BE APPRECIATED.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index%3Fqid%3D20120314234915AAp9i42
Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Treat Me Like His Girlfriend? by Drpazienza: 3:07pm On Jul 25, 2013
first to comment, may b u shud just move on and see if he is going to cum brk.
Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Treat Me Like His Girlfriend? by Strongfaze(m): 3:22pm On Jul 25, 2013
Maybe his creed is: seek ye the money first and every other thing shall be added onto him. Lady please give him some space, or follow your heart.
Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Treat Me Like His Girlfriend? by Nobody: 3:29pm On Jul 25, 2013
Do you really think that words can Change his ways?
I don't want to hurt you but I think that you are not his priority like he is yours. Take the relationship the way it is or leave it but I don't think he is going to change any time soon. The more you do, no matter how nice your intentions, the more you'll push him away.

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Treat Me Like His Girlfriend? by omiobo: 3:32pm On Jul 25, 2013
Free him and find a better thing to do with your life. Move on!

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Treat Me Like His Girlfriend? by Genovese(m): 5:04pm On Jul 25, 2013
It doesnt mean dat ur bf doesnt love u..he is a hustler wit the OT MOB, dnt hold him bck, encourage him, do tins positive towards his dream n tins will get better

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Treat Me Like His Girlfriend? by saxxylola: 5:30pm On Jul 25, 2013
Well grlfrnd...am not going to say your boyfrnd doesn't love you,cos I kinda find mysef I such situation,I do d calling,texting & wat hv u,but I noticed somtyn anytyme I tend not to call hm 4 some days & he calls deirs alwys a difference,he start callin me all dose pet names dat somtymes I ask mysef I can't rememba d last tyme I heard it,den I tld mysef am gonna gv hm space,men naturally don't lyk we ladies chokin dem,cos dts wat it seems 2 dem,gv hv room 2 miss u,deir & den u wud knw ur stand in d relationshp..my advice

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Treat Me Like His Girlfriend? by ejifranks(m): 5:51pm On Jul 25, 2013
Divepen: How do I tell my boyfriend that he treats me like **** and I don't feel like im his girlfriend or rather his only girl friend . May I add he is a rapper in the music business its badenough that I have to deal with the groupies .
but anyways , last night when we talked to each other , I asked him why he acts the way he does . He said cause I always bring drama & I am always bitching .but it's hard nottoo. So today I texted him saying I miss him he said I miss yhu too ,& i texted him again twice and he didn't reply . He barley ever reply and i understand that he is a rapperand all and he's busy but , i just feel unwanted and ignored sad May I do alot more than he does in the relationship! Like I have to do everything.
So i wanna send him a text tonight so he can see it when he wakes up .But idk what to say or how to say it without it seeming like im bitching im not trying to break it off right now!
So , can someone please tell me what i can text him, A FULL DETAILEDMESSAGE PLEASE, please help . SERIOUS ANSWERS PLEASE .
-_- IT WILL SURELY BE APPRECIATED.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index%3Fqid%3D20120314234915AAp9i42
sorry to say it but you sound desperate!!!! think thats the first thing you should work on
Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Treat Me Like His Girlfriend? by Beync(f): 6:07pm On Jul 25, 2013
Stay in that relationship at your own peril girl

He already told you

You brings drama

You bitch a lot

And I add that u must be clingy

Girl I bet he doesn't like ur type

and I don't think he will change for you

Becos nothing much attracts you to him

Except his music and meeting other people.

U better swallow the bitter pill and move.
Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Treat Me Like His Girlfriend? by Austeenxx: 6:17pm On Jul 25, 2013
What the f**k??!
Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Treat Me Like His Girlfriend? by Austeenxx: 6:18pm On Jul 25, 2013
What the f**k??!



Save the Queen!



This isn't English!
Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Treat Me Like His Girlfriend? by majalisa(m): 10:03pm On Jul 25, 2013
Beync: Stay in that relationship at your own peril girl

He already told you

You brings drama

You bitch a lot

And I add that u must be clingy

Girl I bet he doesn't like ur type

and I don't think he will change for you

Becos nothing much attracts you to him

Except his music and meeting other people.

U better swallow the bitter pill and move.
my dear sister u nid not tell a blind woman dat is raining cats n dogs..na Imbe she b?

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Treat Me Like His Girlfriend? by RealJenny(f): 11:09pm On Jul 25, 2013
Divepen: How do I tell my boyfriend that he treats me like **** and I don't feel like im his girlfriend or rather his only girl friend . May I add he is a rapper in the music business its badenough that I have to deal with the groupies .
but anyways , last night when we talked to each other , I asked him why he acts the way he does . He said cause I always bring drama & I am always bitching .but it's hard nottoo. So today I texted him saying I miss him he said I miss yhu too ,& i texted him again twice and he didn't reply . He barley ever reply and i understand that he is a rapperand all and he's busy but , i just feel unwanted and ignored sad May I do alot more than he does in the relationship! Like I have to do everything.
So i wanna send him a text tonight so he can see it when he wakes up .But idk what to say or how to say it without it seeming like im bitching im not trying to break it off right now!
So , can someone please tell me what i can text him, A FULL DETAILEDMESSAGE PLEASE, please help . SERIOUS ANSWERS PLEASE .
-_- IT WILL SURELY BE APPRECIATED.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index%3Fqid%3D20120314234915AAp9i42
Babe u just need to chill and give him some space, I can totally relate to this cos I'm dating one and we've been thru this phase b4 (although I don't bitch sha) and what I did was front for him and Let him be infact I deleted him from my social media and in no time he came begging so yea the guy is a hustler he needs his fans don't drive them away but also knw where to draw the line and if he's the emotional type u need to understand that he needs to shut you out for some time so he can focus on getting inspiration without distractions so my advise is basically back off a little and wen he comes back, support his music and treat him right and try to be understanding too.
Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Treat Me Like His Girlfriend? by Nobody: 12:06am On Jul 26, 2013
because u're the side-dish. and forgive me, but i think u may have an inkling but u just dont want to admit. save ur self the stress of high BP, let him be.
Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Treat Me Like His Girlfriend? by Beync(f): 11:38am On Jul 26, 2013
majalisa: my dear sister u nid not tell a blind woman dat is raining cats n dogs..na Imbe she b?
. Some girls who don't believe in themselves, until they are told they may never wake up from slumber.
Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Treat Me Like His Girlfriend? by majalisa(m): 9:08pm On Jul 26, 2013
Beync: . Some girls who don't believe in themselves, until they are told they may never wake up from slumber.
I see...she really is as imbe as the come
Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Treat Me Like His Girlfriend? by RealJenny(f): 9:16pm On Jul 26, 2013
Wait o but the poster's profile shows that he/she is male undecided
Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Treat Me Like His Girlfriend? by Nobody: 1:20am On Jul 27, 2013
Dr pazienza: first to comment, may b u shud just move on and see if he is going to cum brk.
exactly.... Why waste yur time, energy and resources on what wont be fruitful at the end of the day?
Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Treat Me Like His Girlfriend? by daisyella: 2:55am On Jul 27, 2013
If he doesn't treat you like a girlfriend, den don't treat him like a boyfriend, its as simple as dat
Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Treat Me Like His Girlfriend? by majalisa(m): 11:55pm On Jul 29, 2013
RealJenny: Wait o but the poster's profile shows that he/she is male undecided
he is probably gay,within dat cycle d dominated one is D chic.
Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Treat Me Like His Girlfriend? by 190: 1:04am On Jul 30, 2013
and how are girlfriends treated! grin grin grin
Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Treat Me Like His Girlfriend? by Nobody: 1:14am On Jul 30, 2013
RealJenny: Wait o but the poster's profile shows that he/she is male undecided
i gave the link of the site i got the story
Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Treat Me Like His Girlfriend? by jemsi(f): 1:24am On Jul 30, 2013
He's not in luv wit U so move on and stop deceiving urself. Find someone who values U and luvs u for who u are
Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Treat Me Like His Girlfriend? by Skinni10ne: 3:59am On Jul 30, 2013
Please do urself a favor and move on. Delete his # and stop all communication. Stop acting desperate, you seem to have low self esteem. Start loving you and doing you and see if he wont come looking for you. Men chase women, not the other way around smiley
Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Treat Me Like His Girlfriend? by lexib(m): 7:23am On Jul 30, 2013
Wat do u do for a living?? Dating a musician znt a funny fin if u r not one... Babe colet ur hrt n give to sm1 else cos it will only get worse as he bcoms more famous... Get a dcent guy n leave him for his type... if u cnt do dat, continue beggin for attention, afterall hrtbrks r therapeutic...
Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Treat Me Like His Girlfriend? by Monicasque(f): 12:19pm On Jul 30, 2013
this guy is making me say nasty things now but here i wil say. Just keep him until you get another one who will cherish you. I was in a similar situation 2 years ago. I was dating this guy who '' was busy than all human beings''. He made me feel like i was unwanted or as if he was doing me a favour. I made him aware that i did not like the way he was treating me. I still stayed in the relationship for another 6 months and funny coz after i tell him my concerns he would change for a day or two. So i noticed that he knew what he was doing. I decided to dump him and before long i was dating my now fiance and gues who was now running after me? mmmmm the busy brother but honey it was already too late coz i was in another person's warm hands. So maybe you should date other people while u are keeping him around, maybe just until you meet someone u are comfy with. Since he does not have time for you, he will not even notice maybe but this would depend on the type of community you stay coz if you stay in one of those communities where everyone minds everyone's business they will call you ashawo but if you stay in an area where nobody cares about any other person's activities you will be just fine. I hate men who think they are doing you a favour by being with u
Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Treat Me Like His Girlfriend? by Nobody: 2:37pm On Jul 30, 2013
Jst tell im u wana do im a big favour by walking out of hez lyf!
Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Treat Me Like His Girlfriend? by majalisa(m): 10:06am On Jul 31, 2013
Harbosede02: Jst tell im u wana do im a big favour by walking out of hez lyf!
easier said Dan done..the fact is she myt be addicted to his phalus..or can u figure out oda reasons y she still sticks to d guy despite d shock treatments

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