I am 28 and married with a child.
I got married to the brother of my best friend’s husband. I did this because of how responsible and respectful my friend’s husband is..... He is caring, thoughtful and very much of a family man. He is always there for his wife and children and has never lifted his finger against his wife.

This made me very determined to marry into his family. With the help of my friend, a meeting was arranged between his immediate brother and I. At the end of the day, we got married. About three weeks into the marriage, I discovered the only thing he has in common with his brother is the surname they share. He is world apart from him. He is disrespectful, unfaithful and irresponsible. By the time I was six months pregnant, he has started beating me, calling me names like ugly, amoeba and pig. I didn’t know what to do anymore since reporting him to his brother didn’t make any much difference. If anything, it only made him worse.
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No need to keep reading.
This is exactly what you get when you marry for other reasons besides love.

U arranged for the f*cking and de marriage...why not arrange for the feelings?