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| What's Your Take On This?...na serious matter o. by Nobody: 9:15pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
Hello everyone... Pls kindly read through my scenario. Babes, lets assume uv worked so hard in some years time, saved yourself some cash and rewarded yourselves with a nice cute car of your choice. Then along your bumpy ride through life  , you met a guy not too long ago, say last 3weeks... Wooing u , like crazy ...talking about love and seeing both of your future together , in a space of 3weeks... U played along, at least, there's no risk in trying a new relationship... Then, one fateful evening, your bf says that he's so stressed taking bus and okadas, that pls can he share using your car with u?... As in, u drive to work,in the morning then he takes the car keys from u , after uv parked and drive off to sort out his business errands, then will drop the car at your house, when he's done for the day.. As a babe,, what will be your response? Will u give him the car keys Or as a guy, will u give your babe your car keys? Pls sincere answers from the depths of our Hearts.... Thanks. |
| Re: What's Your Take On This?...na serious matter o. by IZUKWU(m): 9:23pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
No, i will not give him my car keys, to drive my car to and fro his work place or to run around for his business but if i can ,i would rather drop him and pick him ,rather from his work place ,if i can. If not ,then no,it is too early for that. Don't start what you will regret later. 3 Likes |
| Re: What's Your Take On This?...na serious matter o. by Nobody: 9:25pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
Thank you, Izukwu... God bless you...and he's making me feel like a bad person, not giving him d keys...cause he claims to love so much....  Pls more response will be appreciated. |
| Re: What's Your Take On This?...na serious matter o. by djeezy(m): 9:28pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
She played along? Hmmmmn!, isn't there love in sharing? Oh I forgot she played along. Definitely will someone playing along not give out the car keys. |
| Re: What's Your Take On This?...na serious matter o. by Nobody: 9:30pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
And he does not have a specific place of work he goes to....cos he monitors the building of different sites...in different locations...so he can be anywhere with d car! |
| Re: What's Your Take On This?...na serious matter o. by IZUKWU(m): 9:32pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
djeezy: She played along? Hmmmmn!, isn't there love in sharing? Oh I forgot she played along. Definitely will someone playing along not give out the car keys. |
| Re: What's Your Take On This?...na serious matter o. by IZUKWU(m): 9:37pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
djeezy: She played along? Hmmmmn!, isn't there love in sharing? Oh I forgot she played along. Definitely will someone playing along not give out the car keys.i understand her played along as give the guy a chance or trial ,there is noting bad there, but this issue of sharing a ride and inconveniencing her ,am not comfortable with. It is too early in this r/ship. Is this why he went after her in the first place? . He has been managing before, he should continue jor . What if he disappear with the car or has an accident or they break up tomorrow. I am not comfortale with that 1 Like |
| Re: What's Your Take On This?...na serious matter o. by djeezy(m): 9:39pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
@op, could you pls enlighten us on your reasons why you don't feel its okay to share your car with him to aid his hustle? |
| Re: What's Your Take On This?...na serious matter o. by IZUKWU(m): 9:40pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
djeezy: She played along? Hmmmmn!, isn't there love in sharing? Oh I forgot she played along. Definitely will someone playing along not give out the car keys.i understand her played along as give the guy a chance or trial ,there is noting bad there, but this issue of sharing a ride and inconveniencing her ,am not comfortable with. It is too early in this r/ship. Is this why he went after her in the first place? . He has been managing before, he should continue jor . What if he disappear with the car or has an accident or they break up tomorrow. I am not comfortale with that .and when she needs the car sometimes ,he may be somewhere else. If she allows him that much access to the car,it will lead to that r/ship heading for the rocks . |
| Re: What's Your Take On This?...na serious matter o. by djeezy(m): 9:42pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
IZUKWU: i understand her played along as give the guy a chance or trial ,there is noting bad there, but this issue of sharing a ride and inconveniencing her ,am not comfortable with. It is too early in this r/ship. Is this why he went after her in the first place? . He has been managing before, he should continue jor . What if he disappear with the car or has an accident or they break up tomorrow. I am not comfortale with thatI get your point,very good. However I think it depends on evaluation of the individual in question. Don't you think he could be testing her? He could be richer than that, just wanna see an act of selflessness. I may be wrong though. |
| Re: What's Your Take On This?...na serious matter o. by Enegod(m): 9:45pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
so, you refused to give your husband to be your car key..are you that stingy?  |
| Re: What's Your Take On This?...na serious matter o. by Nobody: 9:47pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
f djeezy: @op, could you pls enlighten us on your reasons why you don't feel its okay to share your car with him to aid his hustle? I feel the relationship has just started... Some guys are something else these days... And I don't trust blindly.. Not with what av actually worked hard for... And it's for my comfort, and also for my unborn kids, when I do get married ... Not for a bf , nah ...afterall , av dated few guys in the past who had cars, and trust they don't joke with their cars.... They protect their keys like a bank.. So why shud I joke with mine  1 Like |
| Re: What's Your Take On This?...na serious matter o. by Nobody: 9:49pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
Enegod: so, you refused to give your husband to be your car key..are you that stingy? When has he become my husband to be , within 3 weeks?  ... Haba!... There's every possiblilty we could end up , apart...And he could bloody well , disappear with the car.. |
| Re: What's Your Take On This?...na serious matter o. by clip: 10:04pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
Before he meet you, he has been coping without a car. If he can cope then I do not see why he can not cope now. Assuming the car broke down for four weeks what will happen? You can drop him at his place of work. It should even be a challenge for the guy to hustle to buy his own. If he feels bad for you not giving him the car key,he is a parasite send him away. He does not have value to add o you. 1 Like |
| Re: What's Your Take On This?...na serious matter o. by Ab025(m): 10:46pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
@amelian.......I think 3weeks is too early for ur new guy to be asking for car keys He is a man and he shud atleast be a bit shy or ashamed of u droppin him in his work atleast in dis early stage of d r/ship bt instead he is askin for d whole car... Though we argued much in d other thread bt right here, I tink u shud hold on to ur keys cos d next thin is he will ask for ur house key wether he can start crashing overnight at ur place durin d 4th week. Btw, seems u choose d dubious ones most of d time, I tink u shud start changin those qualities u seek in a man cos it seems it is leadin u to d wrong guys.... Gudluck dear |
| Re: What's Your Take On This?...na serious matter o. by Nobody: 10:55pm On Aug 10, 2013 |
How dare you give a guy you met in just three weeks your car keys? Are you ok? damn! that's the stupidest thing i have heard lately. you better watch your back babe, or else, your car will be gone! I mean he's gonna sell your car real soon. Don't say i didn't tell you! |
| Re: What's Your Take On This?...na serious matter o. by Pdizzle(m): 12:51am On Aug 11, 2013 |
dont do it |
| Re: What's Your Take On This?...na serious matter o. by Nobody: 1:42am On Aug 11, 2013 |
U are smarter than I know. U know the answer already... |
| Re: What's Your Take On This?...na serious matter o. by Nobody: 4:03am On Aug 11, 2013 |
OP you are nice, 3 weeks the only thing that person will get from me will be a boring lecture. drive my car (assuming i ad one ) in three weeks i might as well be giving her my house key too. besides he's a man since when did entering bus kill anyone. abeg make him enter bus jare 3 weeks in a relationship is not a relationship you are not obliged to do shi.t. |
| Re: What's Your Take On This?...na serious matter o. by Nobody: 4:52am On Aug 11, 2013 |
As a guy itz nt bad if u gv ur gf ur car keys,bt as a gurl itz wrong n sumhw,itz even bad of d guy 2 ask in d first place. |
| Re: What's Your Take On This?...na serious matter o. by Nobody: 5:38am On Aug 11, 2013 |
Harbosede02: As a guy itz nt bad if u gv ur gf ur car keys,bt as a gurl itz wrong n sumhw,itz even bad of d guy 2 ask in d first place.why ? because men are providers that must give and give at all times and its wrong to receive from women, you post reeks of inequality. 3 weeks is too short to do anyone any kind of favours. what you just said is as good as saying its right for men to give women money but not for men to ask from a woman, at least i'd like to know the option is open if i decided to ask if not what you're describing is "being selfish" |
| Re: What's Your Take On This?...na serious matter o. by cretin: 7:28am On Aug 11, 2013 |
Nonsense.the guy is a shameless gold digger . Dump his sorry a/s.s at any chance u get.he won't forget nor forgive ur not giving him the car keys. 3wks is too early....if u r the one that made the offer...then it's different. |
| Re: What's Your Take On This?...na serious matter o. by Nobody: 7:29am On Aug 11, 2013 |
3 weeks is too fvcking early. Don't let him blackmail you. BTW, is he an architect? |
| Re: What's Your Take On This?...na serious matter o. by Deiok(m): 7:33am On Aug 11, 2013 |
Amelian i will advice you to hold on to your key. If you dont want be driving it to work just park it, than handing it to a guy who saw you driving and jump in with you. The guy should have an iota of shame nah haba. As a guy he should be happy he is into a relationship with who will not be dependant on him. just my little advice. |
| Re: What's Your Take On This?...na serious matter o. by hoodboy(m): 7:50am On Aug 11, 2013 |
The dude is shameless...better hold on to your keys...just 3 weeks of dating and he is making such bold request, after two months he will be requesting your pay slip if you grant him this favour. Please ditch the player (Which kain love, the owe we haven't seen before ba!)and to you who is saying maybe he is testing her...come on, there are other ways to 'test' definitely not asking for her to relinquish the key of her car she bought through her hustle. |
| Re: What's Your Take On This?...na serious matter o. by Nobody: 8:05am On Aug 11, 2013 |
pc guru:i mean itz 2 early 4 d guy 2 start demanding..isn't d guy ashamed of imself?...itz rare 4 guys do 2 dat,especially at d early stage of a relationship..m sure hez up 2 sumfin 1 Like |
| Re: What's Your Take On This?...na serious matter o. by Nobody: 8:18am On Aug 11, 2013 |
Harbosede02: i mean itz 2 early 4 d guy 2 start demanding..isn't d guy ashamed of imself?...itz rare 4 guys do 2 dat,especially at d early stage of a relationship..m sure hez up 2 sumfinonce the guy gets the car keys Gone in 60 seconds |
| Re: What's Your Take On This?...na serious matter o. by Godson201333(m): 8:49am On Aug 11, 2013 |
Why would a guy ask for your car?That guy must be very stewwpid,Very soon he is gonna ask for an exchange of your phone ! It just to early and i would say nope do not give him your car keys. |
| Re: What's Your Take On This?...na serious matter o. by femmy2010(m): 8:54am On Aug 11, 2013 |
No harm in sharing but the guy/Lady was handling his/her biz before they met 3weeks ago? 3weeks is a short time to take a car away oo. Take time to know him/her more. |
| Re: What's Your Take On This?...na serious matter o. by Nobody: 8:58am On Aug 11, 2013 |
@op, dnt mind all dis posters here. Most of them r kids wit no relationship xperience. As for ur topic, wat do u tink of d guy, d chemistry between the two of u, d kinda hustle u claim he does is very very lucrative, (talkin frm xperience), from observation do u tink he can afford a car? If yes, advice him to get one to aid his hustle and watch his response. If he can not afford a car, dnt giv him ur keys. Left for me, I'm nt use to askin my woman for any kind of financial assiatnce or help! I'll rather ask my guys. |
| Re: What's Your Take On This?...na serious matter o. by Skinni10ne: 9:05am On Aug 11, 2013 |
3 weeks! Ur a really nice person  3 weeks! Lol Drop him off yes, give him the keys... 3weeks! Loool Why would a man/woman ask their partner for the keys to their car the first 3 weeks of the relationship? Unless u guyz were very good friends b4 then thats different. |
| Re: What's Your Take On This?...na serious matter o. by kike100: 10:57am On Aug 11, 2013 |
To cut all these already said grammar, you are his maga and to prove that to his friends your car is the bait! Also, its to pick up his REAL babe! Shikennna!!!! NO is NOOOOOOOOOO, no emotions ohhh |
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