Guys And Their Indecent Exposure - The Flip Side (From A Female View!)

As a Christian, I've often gotten rather sick ova guys whining and blaming ladies' dressing for their sins! yes, i know som of my sisters out there are rather wild, but i always felt the guys should get a grip on their own hormones.

when the topic of dressing comes up, all attention shifts to the ladies, n then WE take the bashing endlessly. wot about the guys? why do they feel its ok to prance about in nothing but boxers, do they think we're made of wood?

Face it 99% of guys will think nothing of sitting with a lady visitor in just boxers and chatting 4 hours. they feel just because they don't have boobs its ok. my neighbour just the other day innocently changed his top in front of me, and left me struggling 4 air, the body was, wow.

now wot if, i'd grabbed the poor guy and blamed it on indecent exposure, harassment, oppression etc, nko? lol and thats wot u guys claim we do to you.

they feel just because they don't have boobs its ok.

well its not, and me i am protesting!!!

You guys need to start looking at how YOUR dressing affects ladies, and while you're at it, please lose the drooping jeans - it aint sightly!!!

For a guy talking to a chic with only boxers is indeed a shame. I agree with you that guys may feel indifferent but please you must not compare that with girls dressing half nude. That is tempting.

joomiegal:

As a christian, ive often gotten rather sick ova guys whining and blamin ladies' dressing for their sins! yes, i know som of my sistas out there are rather wild, but i always felt the guys should get a grip on their own hormones.
when the topic of dressing comes up, all attention shifts to the ladies, n then WE take the bashing endlessly. wot about the guys? why do they feel its ok to prance about in nothing but boxers, do they think we're made of wood?
face it 99% of guys will think nothing of sitting with a lady visitor in just boxers and chatting 4 hours. they feel just because they don't have boobs its ok. my neighbour just the other day innocently changed his top in front of me, and left me struggling 4 air, the body was, wow. now wot if, i'd grabbed the poor guy and blamed it on indecent exposure, harrassment, opression etc, nko? :Dlol and thats wot u guys claim we do to you.
they feel just because they don't have boobs its ok.
well its not, and me i am protesting!!!
you guys need to start looking at how YOUR dressing affects ladies, and while ure at it, please lose the drooping jeans-it aint sightly!!!

LOL, dagg girl you had me rolling on that one , I have been there before . I think the guys r just not aware that women can also be tempted visually. Though not nearly as much as guys are.

so christian men here you have heard joomiegal - watch your dressing (or lack of it) too!

face it 99% of guys will think nothing of sitting with a lady visitor in just boxers and chatting 4 hours. they feel just because they don't have boobs its ok

I disagree with this one madame. . .
No guy with his right senses will put on ''just boxers'' in the presence of visitors especially female visitors.
I agree with the fact that many guys are doing that but errrhh 99%?. . . i strongly disagree.

if a guy does,then u rab him as well like other guys supposedly grabs indecently dressed girls
a guy wearing boxers depends on the level of familiarity not forgetting that boxers is not the same thing as g-strings, u can wear boxers and a tee shirt just outside ur house or the front but u cant wear a pair of women's udies same way, also a guy can chill topless with friends so there s really no basis for comparison,

lucabrasi:

a guy wearing boxers depends on the level of familiarity not forgetting that boxers is not the same thing as g-strings, u can wear boxers and a tee shirt just outside your house or the front but u can't wear a pair of women's udies same way, also a guy can chill topless with friends so there s really no basis for comparison,

Couldn't have said it better. . .

my neighbour just the other day innocently changed his top in front of me, and left me struggling 4 air, the body was, wow.
now wot if, i'd grabbed the poor guy and blamed it on indecent exposure, harrassment, opression etc, nko? :Dlol and thats wot u guys claim we do to you.

HAHAHAHAH IH MY GOODNESS. Now you have left me looking for air with this. LOLOLOLOLOL.

Giiiirrrrrllll I understand.

In that situation, being a Catholic, I do the sign of the cross and say "Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit, as it was in the beginning so shall it be now and forever, Amen."

or 3 Hail Mary's.

I have to be single since I am not ready for marriage. When I am done with school God will send a good friend to come and the wait won't be for long. Amen.

But um comparing a man wearing boxers to a woman's undies showing is not exactly fair comparison o. One shows more skin than the other. You can actually outline a woman with her undies but not a man with his boxers o.
Most boxers look like regular shorts anyway.

I own some and walk out wearing one.

Please forgive us guys, for we know not what we do.

LOL!
This thread is funny . Boxers may not be as explicit as a woman's undies, but it is still inappropriate for guys to chill with girls with just boxers on. As for the whole shirtless business - well, maybe girls aren't all the same in this regard. Personally I don't go shirtless even in the comfort of my own home, and I recall that my female housemate and some of my other female friends have complained that they've never seen me shirtless. They were Christians too,
Your point is well taken nevertheless. Guys ackrite!

joomiegal:

Guys And Their Indecent Exposure - The Flip Side (From A Female View!)

As a Christian, I've often gotten rather sick ova guys whining and blaming ladies' dressing for their sins! yes, i know som of my sisters out there are rather wild, but i always felt the guys should get a grip on their own hormones.

when the topic of dressing comes up, all attention shifts to the ladies, n then WE take the bashing endlessly. wot about the guys? why do they feel its ok to prance about in nothing but boxers, do they think we're made of wood?

Face it 99% of guys will think nothing of sitting with a lady visitor in just boxers and chatting 4 hours. they feel just because they don't have boobs its ok. my neighbour just the other day innocently changed his top in front of me, and left me struggling 4 air, the body was, wow.

now wot if, i'd grabbed the poor guy and blamed it on indecent exposure, harassment, oppression etc, nko? lol and thats wot u guys claim we do to you.

they feel just because they don't have boobs its ok.

well its not, and me i am protesting!!!

You guys need to start looking at how YOUR dressing affects ladies, and while you're at it, please lose the drooping jeans - it aint sightly!!!

My sister you've spoken well
Personally I don't like seeing strange men with boxers.
I'm a Christian too.
It's almost impossible for your eyes not to zero in on his "arsenal" when you see such
and their endless  "abunna" grabbing just screams, "take a look at the actual size"
It can be disgusting too.
it's like they're checking if it's still there and at the same time showing it off
That's just my guess.

I can even handle all that,I'm covered by the blood
the one that I find utterly disgusting is an overweight man shirtless and wearing little shorts.
A big don't if you ask me

For one the  shorts at the center dissappear into the crotch area and they keep pulling it down
tufiakwa!!
then on the top,you are basically forced to look at the disgusting man boobs without an accompanying double D bra.
the overhanging belle nko?.
and then if he has bush growing on his chest,needing a lawn mower, that's a whole 'nother issue
let me stop so far,I'm sure we all get the picture

lucabrasi:

boxers is not the same thing as g-strings

Definitely!

Which kain topic person no go see for una

@Poster

What about a wrinkly dilapidated 75 yr old fella rocking some stretched draws?

Or a pale, "past his sell by date" 80yr old daddy flashing his stale vegetables?

Would you call that indecent dressing too or would you throw your guts up?

Tacky g-strings is a turn off!

Radiant:

Definitely!

Which kain topic person no go see for una

It's getting uncontrollable!!!!!
Year 2008. . . . . .a woman is accusing men for visual harrassment. . .
Its a strange world.

pls can anyone help me get a job pls

kennyp:

please can anyone help me get a job please

for fuc.k sake you stupid plank, this is not a job agency!

face it 99% of guys will think nothing of sitting with a lady visitor in just boxers and chatting 4 hours. they feel just because they don't have boobs its ok


You got this one wrong, thats for sure.

my neighbour just the other day innocently changed his top in front of me, and left me struggling 4 air, the body was, wow.


I must confess, i like your sincerity. Most girls wouldn't have accepted it that way.

I cant help laughing at this. Somebody help me!!!

kennyp:

please can anyone help me get a job please

do you have boxers and a ripped physique?
If not go push wheelbarrow for main market

In my wildest imagination i neva thot d male physique can actually attract, word is _cough i mean was it disgusts, 4rm shirtless to the d main LGA.

So e dey attract ehn _{thinking e b like say i go begin exercise regularlyooo, 2 loose d extra belle, make my fine legs thick, jerry curl my hair 4rm LGA to de chest so that i feet sample dat nu boxers wen i get, e get this nu babe wey dey do shakara 4 me if she just see me, omo she go bow quik quik. oya push up push down 1, 2, 3, puff puff, e b like say my heart one fail me} , HELEP! I DEY DIE OOOO!

tulk2mi:

In my wildest imagination i never thot d male physique can actually attract, word is _cough i mean was it disgusts, from shirtless to the d main LGA.

So e dey attract ehn _{thinking e b like say i go begin exercise regularlyooo, 2 loose d extra belle, make my fine legs thick, jerry curl my hair from LGA to de chest so that i feet sample that nu boxers when i get, e get this nu babe wey dey do shakara 4 me if she just see me, omo she go bow quik quik. oya push up push down 1, 2, 3, puff puff, e b like say my heart one fail me} , HELEP! I DEY DIE OOOO!

LOL. . .good luck with the jerry curls n push ups.

@talk2mi
if you won die die now

i believe most of these guys go around with their boxers on purpose most expecially when they are in the presence of some people (girls to be precise) and also guys just to show off their physic.

Ur arguments here are baseless, u cant compare both. Remember men are moved mostly by what they see, while women are moved mostly by what they hear.
we guys just generally like been free, and those that talk to ladies in boxers have no such hidden intentions, its just kinda a guy thing. i still cant believe that ladies are moved by seeing a guy in boxers, except its a guy she sleeps with or is in love with or a lady who just has sexual imaginations when she is around a boxer wearing guy.

So my dear poster, u cant use this as a basis for saying gues dress indecent.
You can perform a live practical, let a lady with pant and bra and a guy with boxers take a walk in a busy street and see the amount of guys or gals that we get aroused, in fact the will see the guy as giong mad,while we will see the almost naked lady as,

Why are men insisting that ladies are not affected by nude men. How would you know?

ehie007:

your arguments here are baseless, u can't compare both. Remember men are moved mostly by what they see, while women are moved mostly by what they hear.
we guys just generally like been free, and those that talk to ladies in boxers have no such hidden intentions, its just kind of a guy thing. i still can't believe that ladies are moved by seeing a guy in boxers, except its a guy she sleeps with or is in love with or a lady who just has sexual imaginations when she is around a boxer wearing guy.

So my dear poster, u can't use this as a basis for saying gues dress indecent.
You can perform a live practical, let a lady with pant and bra and a guy with boxers take a walk in a busy street and see the amount of guys or gals that we get aroused, in fact the will see the guy as giong mad,while we will see the almost naked lady as,

Seun:

Why are men insisting that ladies are not affected by nude men. How would you know?

Abeg help me ask him oh.

ehie007, perhaps the guy does it innocently but it doesn't matter. I don't have to be in love with a guy to be physically attracted to him. Christian men also have a responsibility to cover up and not tempt the ladies. It goes both ways.

the comparison doesnt work, no sane dude will go out in public clad only in boxers yet u find females in public (sometimes even in church in their own version of , personally, i d only entertain my chic in my boxers but sometimes sh.t happens.

please this is a fact. we get attracted by a guys sexy physique,and its very tempting.

one might want to have a feel of the body,so plssssssssssssssssssssssssss cover up if you know u got the supple body

now wot if, i'd grabbed the poor guy.



maybe the poor guy was also thinking the same,ie wanting to grab you also and ,
you too like bad thing girl[color=#006600][/color]

Still not convinced that women are attracted when they see a guy in boxers. If the guy doesnt have a sexy bod nko, may be a lepa guy, guess its the sight of "junior" that attracts the ladies.

ehie007:

your arguments here are baseless, u can't compare both. Remember men are moved mostly by what they see, while women are moved mostly by what they hear.
we guys just generally like been free, and those that talk to ladies in boxers have no such hidden intentions, its just kind of a guy thing. i still can't believe that ladies are moved by seeing a guy in boxers, except its a guy she sleeps with or is in love with or a lady who just has sexual imaginations when she is around a boxer wearing guy.

So my dear poster, u can't use this as a basis for saying gues dress indecent.
You can perform a live practical, let a lady with pant and bra and a guy with boxers take a walk in a busy street and see the amount of guys or gals that we get aroused, in fact the will see the guy as giong mad,while we will see the almost naked lady as,

Who says that a woman is not moved by sight? For me, a guy with a very sexy physique (broad chest, flat abs, straight legs and six packs) wearing only boxers is as erotic as a woman wearing a pant and bra especially those with heavy packages at the middle! Just imagine such moving around with no inner restraints(you know what i mean) God! you need to see what some wear as swimming trunk at the pool, its like its's going to burst out from the Lycra! Some of ours bros now wear tight fitted  pants with no underwear, every now and then they get an erection around you not knowing that we notice, abeg leave matter, we no be stick!

@Poster, correction taken. Jokes apart, some of us male folks don't know there is a remote possibility that women can be harrased (just like men are by women) by the way we dress (especially around the house!).

@poster, Thanks 4 ur sincerity!