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| lol by jugz(f): 11:37am On Jun 04, 2008 |
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| Re: lol by yemivictor: 12:16pm On Jun 04, 2008 |
My dear! Here's what you should do since if you confront her she might deny it and even intimidate you & if you tell your dad, you may never know what to expect of his reaction! Go and buy a brand new MTN sim pack, then text your dad some clues/tips anonymously!! In conclusion, tell him to be more vigilant of his wife!!! Remove the new sim card from your phone, break it into 2 pieces & flush down the toilet!  Sit back & watch as events unfold!!  |
| Re: lol by ehie007(m): 2:16pm On Jun 04, 2008 |
@yemivictor, i agree wiv you. |
| Re: lol by jesusfreak(f): 2:57pm On Jun 04, 2008 |
 story is so sadi can imagine what u must be going tru. d suggestions are quite okay but u must thread carefully, are u sure u want ur dad to find out about ds? and even after all the evidences, i still think u shld confront her with the facts. let her knwo that it wwill affect her marriage and in turn affect ur own life as her children cos if she gets separated from ur dad, it wont be too good for u and ur sis. if u do ds, observe her again(make sure ure thorough cos she might be sleeky this time around, making it difficult to catch her again) dont rish into telling ur dad firts, ds shld be d last option. good luck, remember to apply wisdom cos whatever happens will directly have an effect on ur life too  |
| Re: lol by jugz(f): 3:07pm On Jun 04, 2008 |
jesusfreak: thanks a lot y'all |
| Re: lol by cherrypie: 3:50pm On Jun 04, 2008 |
@poster, i'll advise u thread carefully cos its a dicey situation, there is a way you will go about it and you'll just end up breaking your home. on the other hand, if u keep quiet, things might get out of hand. I really think you should get enough evidence to substantiate your suspicion, then have a dialogue with your mum. good luck |
| Re: lol by Radiant(f): 4:15pm On Jun 04, 2008 |
Thought I just saw this topic elsewhere  |
| Re: lol by Nobody: 11:15pm On Jun 04, 2008 |
see pple giving good advises here,unlike those pple on d romance section,poster go with yemi advise |
| Re: lol by Godalone(m): 10:37am On Jun 05, 2008 |
@poster, You need to apply wisdom in every step you are going to take. |
| Re: lol by yemivictor: 11:11am On Jun 05, 2008 |
By the way, why are you calling yourself "jugz"!? Are you very well endowed!?? |
| Re: lol by ifyalways(f): 2:27pm On Jun 06, 2008 |
@OP how old are you?time to mind your own biz methinks,let the two married people sort out theirselves abeg.close your eyes and walk on by.simply |
| Re: lol by shylladear(f): 2:39pm On Jun 07, 2008 |
@poster let your mom be and dont confront her and if u are angry at her for cheating on ur dad just wait for the right time cause the truth will surely come out and am sure when it does u will regret why it did cause the consequencies might be very harsh not just on your mom but it will also affect you and your siblings word |
| Re: lol by mohawkchic(f): 1:50am On Jun 08, 2008 |
~I suppose "So~Called Uncle" means he's not a blood relative? ~Did your "Uncle" have a close relationship with your mum before the dispute with his mrs? ~I don't know. . . but am thinking this cud possibly not be what your suspect it to be!! ~Taking into account your suspicion,you seemed very much convinced she's cheating!!!. . .it's likely your thoughts get clouded with mistrust, misunderstand certain suitations,jump to conclusions. . .i'll tell you one thing though when the shite hits the fan,it flies everywhere so don't be hasty to make accusations. . . for all you knw there could be a reasonable explanation for your mum's sudden closeness with your so called uncle!! ~Do you seriously think your mum will Intentionally flaunt her extra marital affair in your presence? ?or give you reason to be suspicious of her activities? |
| Re: lol by spoilt(f): 11:46pm On Jun 08, 2008 |
stay out of your mum's business. Adults do things for a reason. Have you gone to kano to investigate your dad too? |
| Re: lol by yemivictor: 10:44am On Jun 09, 2008 |
spoilt: Not only adults, but everyone does things for a reason! Question is the reason a good one or a bad one!! And it's actually easy for you to just tell her to stay out of her mom's business because you're not the one who's going to be psychologically stressed, are you?!!  The least the mom could have done was to apply a bit of discretion . . . fidelity's hard to come by these days!!!  |
| Re: lol by ima1(f): 9:17pm On Jun 09, 2008 |
Confront your mom, i will do the same if either of my parents were unfaithful |
| Re: lol by yemivictor: 9:32am On Jun 10, 2008 |
ima1: Word!  |
| Re: lol by spoilt(f): 6:31pm On Jun 10, 2008 |
yemivictor: I believe the mom was being discreet until her snoopy daughter starting checking her phone records. Didnt she even lie she was going to see a customer? Thats being discreet. or at least trying to be discreet. It is none of her business. |
| Re: lol by yemivictor: 9:41am On Jun 11, 2008 |
spoilt: Are you legitimizing adultery ma'am!? |
| Re: lol by Ifeniyi22(m): 1:48pm On Jun 11, 2008 |
ask her oo |
| Re: lol by tybanky(f): 2:28pm On Jun 11, 2008 |
If I were in ur shoe, I will confront her and am sure mum will have something to say and I try everything in I can to stop her but I dont support the idea of sending message to your daddy, because that can leads to seperation and it will affect the whole family. |
| Re: lol by spoilt(f): 1:09am On Jun 12, 2008 |
yemivictor: we meet again. i guess this is a carry over from the other thread, I'm the one who has several times tried to be a true friend by reporting and recounting what i saw. Lets just say that nothing prepares you for the reaction you get when you finish your story.nothing. I have learnt to mind my damn business. |
| Re: lol by yemivictor: 9:29am On Jun 12, 2008 |
spoilt: Yes, we meet again! Hence the need to apply wisdom by choosing to remain incognito just like i adviced in the other thread!! Truth is, the least you could for a genuine friend is to alert him/her, in one way or another, of their partner's infidelity!!! |
| Re: lol by spoilt(f): 1:08pm On Jun 12, 2008 |
If i cant do it to your face , i will not do it at all. |
| Re: lol by yemivictor: 1:45pm On Jun 12, 2008 |
The end point is the same i.e. the partner who's been cheated on gets to know! You have only chosen the most unreasonable path to reach this point!! |
| Re: lol by Eaglebabe: 1:56pm On Dec 11, 2009 |
Caution young Lady,If this issue is blown open u will suffer it too.If ur father sends her away u will have a step mother to contend with, and ur father must tell his pple and his in-laws y he is sending his wife away,shame number two:When it is time for u to marry,this issue will come up.Mothers will discourage their sons from coming near u.Because as ur mother is seen as unfaithful,so will they see u.LIKE MOTHER LIKE DAUGHTER.SO THINK B4 U ACT. |
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