for those who've experienced it or ve a take on it reply.

You know wen you and someone else are cut in somekind of attractive coonection, and the person suddenly asks for a kiss, instead of going wiv the flow and just kiss without any hassle. Am i the only one dat hates it, or are there other ppl as well.

To me it turns me off instead turning me on.

Ive never experienced this but I'd feel weird and embarrassed.
Thats definately a turn off.

Its not a turn off for me. What I really dislike is being kissed when I am not expecting it. *cringe*

that really sucks. i dont like embarrasing ppl is sucks, u r meant to go with the beat of the dance floor. u know what i mean? shake dat shit like u just dont care. go with the rhythm dont spoil it by asking dumb questions. anyway dats my opinion, some ppl might actually like being asked first, there choice. i repect that.

@ Afeni dont u think being kissed wen not xpecting it is kinda romantic, cuz d only reason u'll be cut in that sort of situation is if u nd the gal or guy ve d hots 4 each oda.

ToyM28, that would be true if I actually allow my self to come under the spell of love or romance. I keep my emotions under control. Falling in love or having the hots for someone is lack of control. I will not and I cannot accept to lose control. There you have it. Yes, I am not a romantic guy.

dislike

Well, nt like i like or dislike it per say n if we are realy into each other he would know better, also it depends on how it is asked n i will turn it to fun.

Major turn off. Just do it!!

It depends.
If the guy is a cheesy guy who just wants to get lucky - he better ask. If i give him all the right signs and he goes for it - fine. If i don't like the one bit and he tries to kiss me, it is not going to be funny.

@ J-girl. LMAO

thats messed up big time, you have to go with da flow

Iono about u guyz, but if it's someone dat i'm feeling and i'm sure he's feeling the same, i won't b insulted! i think it's sweet being kissed unexpectedly sha, _{not just by anyone tho} my 2cents tho!

@ ToyM28
Yes, it is a bit annoyin, but then again, its respectful, just so u don't regret later, u'ld know he asked.

It sucks. Before goin in for the kiss, there's enough communication to know if its welcome or not and if I'm not sure I just hope for the best. Of course I don't go around tryin to kiss all kissables.

How exactly does a person ask for a kiss?, "can we kiss?" after that its, "can I touch your breasts?", "No", "what if I touched just one, the left one?"

Pathetic.

Turn off for sure.

The guy should know the moment is right and just take it. Asking for permission messes up the flow and is a stop sign for sure.

Women like confident men. If you know your the shit then act like it and take that kiss at the right moment.

sistawoman:

The guy should know the moment is right and just take it. Asking for permission messes up the flow and is a stop sign for sure.

Agreed

Unless the woman is angry then sometimes you better ask before she chews off your bloddy lips

My best girl friend asked for it and I gave it to her 2 days later. If u dont they get annoyed like you dont like them. Mind you we are not going out, she's just a friend, she only needs a kiss there and then, but i gave it to her later, and it has continued ever since,,

It all depends on mood,timing and body language,I mean you can't just start a fire where there is no heat.
At times you don't need to Ask you just need to Act;Often times too you might need to ask that is if the body language is urging you too.
All in All,Beware of asking when the mood is not right or you stand a chance of losing some flesh

turn off definately

Its called "being spontaeneous"
Girls complain when a guy is not like that. . . they say he's a slacker
If u dont like it then why get entangled in an attraction/a connection?

To all the ladies especially Sistawoman, what if you don't want to kiss him and he tries to kiss you, what do you do? Slap him?