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Re: Ladies:: Drop The Qualities You Want From A Man!! by spookem(m): 10:57am On Sep 03, 2013
bettyaliu: perhaps u're still a boi the qualities supra was meant for matured man nt boiz angry
from your pic, i can see you're on your late thirties...well, goodluck on your search undecided
Re: Ladies:: Drop The Qualities You Want From A Man!! by Nobody: 11:02am On Sep 03, 2013
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Re: Ladies:: Drop The Qualities You Want From A Man!! by Smartiegurl(f): 11:08am On Sep 03, 2013
Omg!! mynd44 will laugh at me.
Re: Ladies:: Drop The Qualities You Want From A Man!! by UjSizzle(f): 11:16am On Sep 03, 2013
I only ask that he be God fearing, loving and have a functional brain...Amen

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Re: Ladies:: Drop The Qualities You Want From A Man!! by spookem(m): 11:18am On Sep 03, 2013
bettyaliu: lol pics cud be deceptive thanks for the compliment am so happy l look and behave 30.how about u? I ain't searching ok, am sure lack most of this qualities thats why u sound so immature. Hence u just showed me the category u belong anyways cheers to men nt boiz
you changed your pic bcoz of my previous comment? smh... I meant you no harm.
like i said before, I wish you good luck on your search
be a little nice and say, thank you
Re: Ladies:: Drop The Qualities You Want From A Man!! by spookem(m): 11:21am On Sep 03, 2013
Smartie gurl: smiles.....atimes wishes come to pass! Can't i wish for something again?
If wishes were horses, beggars
would ride
Re: Ladies:: Drop The Qualities You Want From A Man!! by Nobody: 11:36am On Sep 03, 2013
spookem: you changed your pic bcoz of my previous comment? sms.. I meant you no harm.
like i said before, I wish you good luck on your search
be a little nice and say, thank you
lol ur opinion does nt count dear,l didnt search l just got found by a man nt a boi (happy)

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Re: Ladies:: Drop The Qualities You Want From A Man!! by bukatyne(f): 11:40am On Sep 03, 2013
spookem: all this? you're on a very long thing

Do you read the post at all?
Re: Ladies:: Drop The Qualities You Want From A Man!! by spookem(m): 11:44am On Sep 03, 2013
bukatyne:

Do you read the post at all?
no
Re: Ladies:: Drop The Qualities You Want From A Man!! by Nobody: 11:49am On Sep 03, 2013
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Re: Ladies:: Drop The Qualities You Want From A Man!! by spookem(m): 11:53am On Sep 03, 2013
lwkmd4h grin grin ^^^you seriously need a man in your life...you are beginning to get frustrated...
Re: Ladies:: Drop The Qualities You Want From A Man!! by Chomzy19(f): 11:54am On Sep 03, 2013
OH LORD! My request is not as plenty as that of my sistas here, I jus want A BILLIONAIRE as a husband, dt is d only thing I ask of U, one who will make me a signatory to his accounts... As d END TIMES are near, may I attend Events wit likes of Dangote's Otedola's n Adenuga's... In places lyk Dubai n Miami in my private jets n yatchs B4 d world finally comes to an End...Lord pls answer my prayers... AMEN
Re: Ladies:: Drop The Qualities You Want From A Man!! by Nobody: 11:57am On Sep 03, 2013
bettyaliu: I want a man that is competent, fun loving, wit huge sense of humor, cute, romantic, caring, discipline, happy always, a man who support my career, an honest man, a man who is goal oriented and has a sense of direction, humble, gentle, loving, presentable, someone l can hold an intelligent conversation with, he must be verse, a man who l cn see the world in his eyes, a man who makes me better, a man he see me more than just a sexy girl or sex object but someone worth keeping and being wit, a man who cn stick to one girl, a man l cn lean on when am in distress, a man who doesn't boast of his achievement, a man who dnt exchange obnoxious words with a girl, a guy who respect women, a man who is nt judging and insecure, a man who is nt egocentric and self centered, a man who is willin to take responsibility for he's actions, a man he is open to change, a man who is loved and respected by ppl around, a man who have aura and charisma, a man who is forgivin, a man who is nt abusive, a man who sees me as his best friend, above all a man who loves himself and doesn't think less of people and love God and is naturally kind. I better stop here no one is perfect however some guys really need to possess few of this qualities in order for them to get the attention of an intelligent girl with self worth. Also a real man mustn't use abusive words on ladies its so gross treat them as though they are ur sisters thats the difference btw a man and a boi.lncase ur are wondering how one man can possess all dis quality my boo has them all am ready to catch a grenade for him and give him the world if it were at my finger tips. For some ladies who think all guys are jerks its all fallacy just because u've bin meetin d wrong set of guys doesn't mean all guys are the same, some are heaven sent and its high time everyone start workin on their peosonal flaws nstead of looking for qualities u ursef dnt possess. No one can really make u happy true happiness lies frm within, ppl can only compliment ur personality.

Lol, because you are attracted to him right now...the tendency is for you to IMPOSE some of these qualities on him. You most likely thought your immediate ex was the sh*t at the onset grin.
Re: Ladies:: Drop The Qualities You Want From A Man!! by Nobody: 11:58am On Sep 03, 2013
Chomzy19: OH LORD! My request is not as plenty as that of my sistas here, I jus want A BILLIONAIRE as a husband, dt is d only thing I ask of U, one who will make me a signatory to his accounts... As d END TIMES are near, may I attend Events wit likes of Dangote's Otedola's n Adenuga's... In places lyk Dubai n Miami in my private jets n yatchs B4 d world finally comes to an End...Lord pls answer my prayers... AMEN

grin grin grin
Re: Ladies:: Drop The Qualities You Want From A Man!! by spookem(m): 11:58am On Sep 03, 2013
Chomzy19: OH LORD! My request is not as plenty as that of my sistas here, I jus want A BILLIONAIRE as a husband, dt is d only thing I ask of U, one who will make me a signatory to his accounts... As d END TIMES are near, may I attend Events wit likes of Dangote's Otedola's n Adenuga's... In places lyk Dubai n Miami in my private jets n yatchs B4 d world finally comes to an End...Lord pls answer my prayers... AMEN
grin grin grin grin
Re: Ladies:: Drop The Qualities You Want From A Man!! by Monicasque(f): 12:40pm On Sep 03, 2013
succesful, humble family man
Re: Ladies:: Drop The Qualities You Want From A Man!! by Smartiegurl(f): 12:48pm On Sep 03, 2013
Lolzz@chomzy, worry less
Re: Ladies:: Drop The Qualities You Want From A Man!! by Monicasque(f): 12:52pm On Sep 03, 2013
potential to b a success, humble family orientated guy
Re: Ladies:: Drop The Qualities You Want From A Man!! by EejaNla01(m): 12:56pm On Sep 03, 2013
Chomzy19: OH LORD! My request is not as plenty as that of my sistas here, I jus want A BILLIONAIRE as a husband, dt is d only thing I ask of U, one who will make me a signatory to his accounts... As d END TIMES are near, may I attend Events wit likes of Dangote's Otedola's n Adenuga's... In places lyk Dubai n Miami in my private jets n yatchs B4 d world finally comes to an End...Lord pls answer my prayers... AMEN

End time woman! grin grin kiss
Re: Ladies:: Drop The Qualities You Want From A Man!! by Rhemar(m): 12:57pm On Sep 03, 2013
traffickz: Most Ladies don't get their prayers answered on their Ideal/desired man - I just don't know why.

May be they are not qualified for what they sought for.

Research mode!
that is because they most times marrying a man for the wrong reasons at which time all d qualities mentioned by the op might be irrelevant 2 her when d time to decide comes
Re: Ladies:: Drop The Qualities You Want From A Man!! by spookem(m): 12:59pm On Sep 03, 2013
Eeja Nla01:

End time woman! grin grin kiss
cheesy cheesy
Re: Ladies:: Drop The Qualities You Want From A Man!! by Rhemar(m): 1:02pm On Sep 03, 2013
onegig: can you see for your self? You listed almost 1million things you would want and not want in a man. But to list just few of the qualities you possess is a big deal. Common , am a hard working woman who loves being independent statement would have been enough.
From what you posted i can already deduce the qualities you have, so no need to even list them out.
Listing her qualities is of no use to you what if she states out what she's not but even if she doesn't possess the right qualities she's still entitled to look out for the qualities she wants of a man.
Re: Ladies:: Drop The Qualities You Want From A Man!! by Nobody: 1:07pm On Sep 03, 2013
Kslib:
Lmao!!! Women like list sha..
You like better thing sha..
Each colour represents a quality..
..
All izz well sha!!
lolz

@ OP, good list.


spookem: what's the need of all this.... "You Can't Always Get What You
Want"
Yes, you can angry
Re: Ladies:: Drop The Qualities You Want From A Man!! by Nobody: 1:08pm On Sep 03, 2013
I think bettyaaliu & spookem should hookup sha. wink wink
Re: Ladies:: Drop The Qualities You Want From A Man!! by ejemeaaron: 1:12pm On Sep 03, 2013
[quote
author=bettyaliu]I want a man that is competent, fun loving, wit huge
sense of humor, cute, romantic, caring, discipline, happy always, a man
who support my career, an honest man, a man who is goal oriented and has
a sense of direction, humble, gentle, loving, presentable, someone l
can hold an intelligent conversation with, he must be verse, a man who l
cn see the world in his eyes, a man who makes me better, a man he see
me more than just a sexy girl or sex object but someone worth keeping
and being wit, a man who cn stick to one girl, a man l cn lean on when
am in distress, a man who doesn't boast of his achievement, a man who
dnt exchange obnoxious words with a girl, a guy who respect women, a man
who is nt judging and insecure, a man who is nt egocentric and self
centered, a man who is willin to take responsibility for he's actions, a
man he is open to change, a man who is loved and respected by ppl
around, a man who have aura and charisma, a man who is forgivin, a man
who is nt abusive, a man who sees me as his best friend, above all a man
who loves himself and doesn't think less of people and love God and is
naturally kind. I better stop here no one is perfect however some guys
really need to possess few of this qualities in order for them to get
the attention of an intelligent girl with self worth. Also a real man
mustn't use abusive words on ladies its so gross treat them as though
they are ur sisters thats the difference btw a man and a boi.lncase ur
are wondering how one man can possess all dis quality my boo has them
all am ready to catch a grenade for him and give him the world if it
were at my finger tips. For some ladies who think all guys are jerks its
all fallacy just because u've bin meetin d wrong set of guys doesn't
mean all guys are the same, some are heaven sent and its high time
everyone start workin on their peosonal flaws nstead of looking for
qualities u ursef dnt possess. No one can really make u happy true
happiness lies frm within, ppl can only compliment ur personality.
[/quote] lyk seriously? ah dn't tink one man has all these qualities oh.! haba! u no even leave anytin 4 oda gurls....
Re: Ladies:: Drop The Qualities You Want From A Man!! by Nobody: 1:19pm On Sep 03, 2013
Chomzy19: OH LORD! My request is not as plenty as that of my sistas here, I jus want A BILLIONAIRE as a husband, dt is d only thing I ask of U, one who will make me a signatory to his accounts... As d END TIMES are near, may I attend Events wit likes of Dangote's Otedola's n Adenuga's... In places lyk Dubai n Miami in my private jets n yatchs B4 d world finally comes to an End...Lord pls answer my prayers... AMEN
i like you.U are open and honest.Dnt mind al dis galz dat are doin eye service here.When a rich guy comes knocking at their door,i bet they will abandon their mr nice guy.
Re: Ladies:: Drop The Qualities You Want From A Man!! by Nobody: 1:29pm On Sep 03, 2013
[quote author=bettyaliu]I want a man that is competent, fun loving, wit huge sense of humor, cute, romantic, caring, discipline, happy always, a man who support my career, an honest man, a man who is goal oriented and has a sense of direction, humble, gentle, loving, presentable, someone l can hold an intelligent conversation with, he must be verse, a man who l cn see the world in his eyes, a man who makes me better, a man he see me more than just a sexy girl or sex object but someone worth keeping and being wit, a man who cn stick to one girl, a man l cn lean on when am in distress, a man who doesn't boast of his achievement, a man who dnt exchange obnoxious words with a girl, a guy who respect women, a man who is nt judging and insecure, a man who is nt egocentric and self centered, a man who is willin to take responsibility for he's actions, a man he is open to change, a man who is loved and respected by ppl around, a man who have aura and charisma, a man who is forgivin, a man who is nt abusive, a man who sees me as his best friend, above all a man who loves himself and doesn't think less of people and love God and is naturally kind. I better stop here no one is perfect however some guys really need to possess few of this qualities in order for them to get the attention of an intelligent girl with self worth. Also a real man mustn't use abusive words on ladies its so gross treat them as though they are ur sisters thats the difference btw a man and a boi.lncase ur are wondering how one man can possess all dis quality my boo has them all am ready to catch a grenade for him and give him the world if it were at my finger tips. For some ladies who think all guys are jerks its all fallacy just because u've bin meetin d wrong set of guys doesn't mean all guys are the same,.[/quote/]***************GOOD.Now can u tel me y u deserve a man with such qualities.What are ur own qualities to show u really deserve a guy like dat.
Re: Ladies:: Drop The Qualities You Want From A Man!! by yemi2plus(m): 1:35pm On Sep 03, 2013
bettyaliu: I want a man that is competent, fun loving, wit huge sense of humor, cute, romantic, caring, discipline, happy always, a man who support my career, an honest man, a man who is goal oriented and has a sense of direction, humble, gentle, loving, presentable, someone l can hold an intelligent conversation with, he must be verse, a man who l cn see the world in his eyes, a man who makes me better, a man he see me more than just a sexy girl or sex object but someone worth keeping and being wit, a man who cn stick to one girl, a man l cn lean on when am in distress, a man who doesn't boast of his achievement, a man who dnt exchange obnoxious words with a girl, a guy who respect women, a man who is nt judging and insecure, a man who is nt egocentric and self centered, a man who is willin to take responsibility for he's actions, a man he is open to change, a man who is loved and respected by ppl around, a man who have aura and charisma, a man who is forgivin, a man who is nt abusive, a man who sees me as his best friend, above all a man who loves himself and doesn't think less of people and love God and is naturally kind.
wait for Jesus Christ, he is coming very soon.
Re: Ladies:: Drop The Qualities You Want From A Man!! by spookem(m): 1:36pm On Sep 03, 2013
Yield: I think bettyaaliu & spookem should hookup sha. wink wink
undecided
Re: Ladies:: Drop The Qualities You Want From A Man!! by yfo: 2:00pm On Sep 03, 2013
Smartie gurl: Left for me, I'm not looking for a perfect man, after all paragon does not really exist yet there are certain qualities i desire from a man. A man of integrity, someone who is responsible and gentle. I kinda despise possessive and authoritatic men, not that he should be effeminate but at least he should respect ma own decision as his partner in life. I will rather stay on ma own than to meddle with a man who smoke or anything addicted to liquor neither will i dine with a man who is a CULTIST( this i detest so much) as for a stingy man who believes only in taking care of himself, lolzz, i berra take to ma heels.

I love hardworking, understanding generous and an enduring man who will understand that the world is not a bed of roses. A man who raises hands on his partner for any damn reason....godamn you!! I will will detest you to the core. I would rather not get married than to marry and be messed around with a one i call my man.

Above all, i love a God fearing and understanding man. Drop yours...

sounds like u just crafted out your perfect man.. undecided
Re: Ladies:: Drop The Qualities You Want From A Man!! by vicoson(m): 2:10pm On Sep 03, 2013
A career woman or one that works hard may not need a man to take care of her. A woman that trains her tongue well and understands her role in marriage need not worry about a wife beater. If you are happy with ur self, u don't need anybody to make u happy. The main reason why people are unhappy in any relationship is that they make someone else responsible for their happiness, which is a huge burden to carry. My advice to young ladies out there looking for an angel as a husband is- make up ur mind to accept ur man, respect him, support him, appreciate him, encourage him,accept his leadership, be honest in everything and be faithful too. We get what we give. Some people want to eat their cake and have it.
With ur stinking behavior and bad character, u want a so called "mature man" who would simply say ' baby, don't do that again' while making no real effort to improve. And when a man losses his cool, she brands him imature while seeing nothing wrong with herself. This I call double standard.

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Re: Ladies:: Drop The Qualities You Want From A Man!! by DEGREE2466(m): 2:13pm On Sep 03, 2013
Yield:
lolz

@ OP, good list.



Yes, you can angry




i need a girl that will not want me to treat her like a toddler always

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