Good morning everyone, I recently met this great guy barely a month ago and we hit it off almost immediately. He is so nice and caring so naturally I told a friend about him. My boyfriend told me that my friend wants him and naturally I denied for my friend.
To prove me wrong he collected her number from my phone n called her and told her he would like to see her and she said no problem and told her not to tell me about it. II waited all night for her to call me but she didn't. The nxt day (ysdy) she fumed nice and called to chk on me and ask if I was going to be wiv my bf all day I said no. And she immediately placed a call to my bf telln him how she can't wait to see him and all. The thing is I hv knwn this guy barely a month n my friend for ovr 5yrs. I felt ashamed and betrayed that a friend that I hv helped in so many ways can do this to me. Should I confront her or let things be and stay away from her?

Did you introduce her to your boy friend? Or how were they able to exchange numbers? Maybe you should investigate your boy and then confront your girl.

Dang!!!!

Yea I did. I gave him the number because I wanted to prove to him she's wasn't a w**e

Shit happens...

U just learnt a lesson in d hard way mehn...

Never trust any body 100%

u lucky ur guy told u... Some guys will enjoy d fun of aving 2 paddies..
I tink u shld let her no u no..

That friend is no good one. Check if that ttitude is in her character and if yes jettison her

that kind of friend can ruin your marriage if you let her in......... i am hapi you found out now than leta!!!!!!!!!

You no what hurts most? I just got out of a terrible relationship my x got another girl pregnant and didn't tell me about it till she gave birth. I cried my heart out and she was aware of everything n aftr all the pressure to move on, this!!!

Some women are like that. Good for you that you found out in the early stage.
Your boyfriend is such a gem

OP, this is what you get when you tell your friend how wonderful and nice your boyfriend is. Girls get jealous of themselves. So, be warned.

My current girlfriend is just like you and her friend almost did same thing to me but she cleaned up the mess without my girfriend knowing about it.

It's not something I cant prove and I can't even tell my girlfriend something that has no prove but honestly, I knew where she was going.

And do you know what she did? She quickly went to my girlfriend and told her her side of the story. Since they have been friends since childhood, my girlfriend believed her and when I tried to explain to her(my gf) and possibly tell her to be careful of that girl and not tell her things about me, my girlfriend just said she has been gisted what happened.

How did it happened and how did God intervened?

Honestly, I never knew they were friends. She added me on whatsapp and we got talking. All along, things went well until I asked for her name,which she gave. That name rang a bell in my head. So, I told her she just reminded me of someone. So, I asked her if she knew any so and so name. She said no but that there is one that is like a sister to her. I gave a describtion of whom I know and she gave hers. Gbam... It was same person.

The sad part is that my girlfriend often talked about a certain person with that name(the friend's name). That is to tell you how she loved and trusted her friend.

When it started, she said she was looking for a long time friend whose number is 08055555555 but my number is 07055555555...

So, una my people, how person go dey look for owner of 08055555555 and whatsapp go carry am go meet 07055555555? Is that ever possible? I leave you to do the math.

Just be careful of what you tell your fellow girls, they are willing to take your place.

I remember a woman did same to her friend, snatch her boyfriend and even had a child for the man. He was our neighbour and had money... They went on to marry and have more kids.

Be careful what you tell your female friends...

hippyzuki: Good morning everyone, I recently met this great guy barely a month ago and we hit it off almost immediately. He is so nice and caring so naturally I told a friend about him. My boyfriend told me that my friend wants him and naturally I denied for my friend.
To prove me wrong he collected her number from my phone n called her and told her he would like to see her and she said no problem and told her not to tell me about it. II waited all night for her to call me but she didn't. The nxt day (ysdy) she fumed nice and called to chk on me and ask if I was going to be wiv my bf all day I said no. And she immediately placed a call to my bf telln him how she can't wait to see him and all. The thing is I hv knwn this guy barely a month n my friend for ovr 5yrs. I felt ashamed and betrayed that a friend that I hv helped in so many ways can do this to me. Should I confront her or let things be and stay away from her?

2s£xy:
OP, this is what you get when you tell your friend how wonderful and nice your boyfriend is. Girls get jealous of themselves. So, be warned.

My current girlfriend is just like you and her friend almost did same thing to me but she cleaned up the mess without my girfriend knowing about it.

It's not something I cant prove and I can't even tell my girlfriend something that has no prove but honestly, I knew where she was going.

And do you know what she did? She quickly went to my girlfriend and told her her side of the story. Since they have been friends since childhood, my girlfriend believed her and when I tried to explain to her(my gf) and possibly tell her to be careful of that girl and not tell her things about me, my girlfriend just said she has been gisted what happened.

How did it happened and how did God intervened?

Honestly, I never knew they were friends. She added me on whatsapp and we got talking. All along, things went well until I asked for her name,which she gave. That name rang a bell in my head. So, I told her she just reminded me of someone. So, I asked her if she knew any so and so name. She said no but that there is one that is like a sister to her. I gave a describtion of whom I know and she gave hers. Gbam... It was same person.

The sad part is that my girlfriend often talked about a certain person with that name(the friend's name). That is to tell you how she loved and trusted her friend.

When it started, she said she was looking for a long time friend whose number is 08055555555 but my number is 07055555555...

So, una my people, how person go dey look for owner of 08055555555 and whatsapp go carry am go meet 07055555555? Is that ever possible? I leave you to do the math.

Just be careful of what you tell your fellow girls, they are willing to take your place.

I remember a woman did same to her friend, snatch her boyfriend and even had a child for the man. He was our neighbour and had money... They went on to marry and have more kids.

Be careful what you tell your female friends...

. My dear wiv friends like that who needs enemies? Should I ask her?

Interesting

Mynd_44: Interesting

lol to you right?

It depends... Since your boyfriend was the one who told you about it, it mean he truely love and respect you.

Confrontation could be good but talk to your boyfriend and see how he wants it and get his POV.

Both of you can even set her up and disgrace her for her mischief.

It can be done with your guy inviting her to his abored while you are inner room. Or something along that line. Just do anything to catch her redhanded.

Don't just confront her, do it with prove. As in catch her in the act...

It would be fun if your boyfriend would agree to it. Ask him and see his reaction. If he agrees, he is a greate guy!

If na me, I go agree lol cos I dey like this kind rubbish. When u don catch her, me go just excuse u make u rubbish her any how u like...

hippyzuki: . My dear wiv friends like that who needs enemies? Should I ask her?

Well he suggested somethn like that. She don evn call am dis morning sef n call me to ask for my location n mvt 2dy. She evn askd him to pick a place tym were dem go meet. Will defo catch her 2dy

hippyzuki:
lol to you right?

2sexy is not complaining no more.

Very interesting

hippyzuki: Well he suggested somethn like that. She don evn call am dis morning sef n call me to ask for my location n mvt 2dy. She evn askd him to pick a place tym were dem go meet. Will defo catch her 2dy

Oh please, come back and tell us the full gist of how you caught her.
I would really love to know how it turns out

2s£xy:
It depends... Since your boyfriend was the one who told you about it, it mean he truely love and respect you.

Confrontation could be good but talk to your boyfriend and see how he wants it and get his POV.

Both of you can even set her up and disgrace her for her mischief.

It can be done with your guy inviting her to his abored while you are inner room. Or something along that line. Just do anything to catch her redhanded.

Don't just confront her, do it with prove. As in catch her in the act...

It would be fun if your boyfriend would agree to it. Ask him and see his reaction. If he agrees, he is a greate guy!

If na me, I go agree lol cos I dey like this kind rubbish. When u don catch her, me go just excuse u make u rubbish her any how u like...

Nice one @op take this advise I endorse am

*AYAF DIEDED*

Mynd_44:
2sexy is not complaining no more.

Very interesting

2s£xy:



*AYAF DIEDED*

Hallelujah.....things are improving and your ministry is going to the permanent site

Amen oooh

Mynd_44:
Hallelujah.....things are improving and your ministry is going to the permanent site

hippyzuki: Good morning everyone, I recently met this great guy barely a month ago and we hit it off almost immediately. He is so nice and caring so naturally I told a friend about him. My boyfriend told me that my friend wants him and naturally I denied for my friend.
To prove me wrong he collected her number from my phone n called her and told her he would like to see her and she said no problem and told her not to tell me about it. II waited all night for her to call me but she didn't. The nxt day (ysdy) she fumed nice and called to chk on me and ask if I was going to be wiv my bf all day I said no. And she immediately placed a call to my bf telln him how she can't wait to see him and all. The thing is I hv knwn this guy barely a month n my friend for ovr 5yrs. I felt ashamed and betrayed that a friend that I hv helped in so many ways can do this to me. Should I confront her or let things be and stay away from her?

Even when u get married, some areas of life is a no no for friendship. Rule 001 in my marriage is no discussion about sex life with friends. If there is a problem, 1. lets talk, 2. Internet, 3. Professional Help by Gods grace we have not gone beyond no 1.

Many husbands have ended up sampling all (5- of their wives friend just to compare the feedback their friend is giving them. Truth however is that good is relative all are usually dissapointed.

sexkillz: Yes. Confront her. She has betrayed you. There is no guarantee of you finally settling with the guy, but then, boundaries exist amongst friends, and should be respected. Even if she ends up dating that boy, let her know that you valued her friendship over a boy you met less than a month ago and that it is sad she decided to do this to you. She'll beg you for forgiveness, DO NOT forgive her immediately. Let her really feel remorse over what she has done, and even when you do forgive her, never ever ever tell her such things again.

This is life and an experience. You don't buy experience in the market. After this episode, you'd have learnt a thing or two. Dont be caught unawares next time.

It's pointless setting her up. Your boyfriend has proved he is loyal even though the relationship is still in it's early stages. No need taking it that far as to him touching her and you catching them red handed cos he is human as well. Emotions can flare, and again, he may realize his "opportunity" after the girl must have told him he "fuckedup" for telling you. When that happens, he may finally fall to her wiles and the ministry will continue without you knowing.

You've found out. Confront her and end it there. No need for the red handed stuff.

God bless you dear. Thnxx

Mynd_44:
2sexy is not complaining no more.

Very interesting

as in eh!
Part of why i clickd on this thread,make i knw if ex did similar tin. Thank God she didn't.

@ op,no need for confrontation, jst make sure you are there with bf wen she comes. Na she go dey confronted.

Friend of 5 years vs a punny hunter? of 1 month.
What if the girl thought that you are not serious with the guy.
What if you have had flings like that and always told your friend about them and your friend thought this one was just like one of your flings inspite of you telling her it is real.
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My 2 kobo
Give a dog a good name to save him. I treasure my loyal long term friends so much that if they mess up. I give them a second chance to realy mess up before I 'destroy' them.
Tell your friend, you found out that she n ur guy have been communicating (from the guy call logs of course). Assure her that since that you have been friends for long, you would not expect her to disappoint you in any way.
That should send her to a long rethink and give her enough rope to hang herself if she still go ahead.
Anyway, it depends on the persona you have. I am a Libra and hate confrontations, but if you disappoint me twice, I wont still confront you, I will harm you physically, emotional, socially, financially.

Either way, I concur...


Confrontation it is!!!

sexkillz: Yes. Confront her. She has betrayed you. There is no guarantee of you finally settling with the guy, but then, boundaries exist amongst friends, and should be respected. Even if she ends up dating that boy, let her know that you valued her friendship over a boy you met less than a month ago and that it is sad she decided to do this to you. She'll beg you for forgiveness, DO NOT forgive her immediately. Let her really feel remorse over what she has done, and even when you do forgive her, never ever ever tell her such things again.

This is life and an experience. You don't buy experience in the market. After this episode, you'd have learnt a thing or two. Dont be caught unawares next time.

It's pointless setting her up. Your boyfriend has proved he is loyal even though the relationship is still in it's early stages. No need taking it that far as to him touching her and you catching them red handed cos he is human as well. Emotions can flare, and again, he may realize his "opportunity" after the girl must have told him he "fuckedup" for telling you. When that happens, he may finally fall to her wiles and the ministry will continue without you knowing.

You've found out. Confront her and end it there. No need for the red handed stuff.

2s£xy:
OP, this is what you get when you tell your friend how wonderful and nice your boyfriend is. Girls get jealous of themselves. So, be warned.

My current girlfriend is just like you and her friend almost did same thing to me but she cleaned up the mess without my girfriend knowing about it.

It's not something I cant prove and I can't even tell my girlfriend something that has no prove but honestly, I knew where she was going.

And do you know what she did? She quickly went to my girlfriend and told her her side of the story. Since they have been friends since childhood, my girlfriend believed her and when I tried to explain to her(my gf) and possibly tell her to be careful of that girl and not tell her things about me, my girlfriend just said she has been gisted what happened.

How did it happened and how did God intervened?

Honestly, I never knew they were friends. She added me on whatsapp and we got talking. All along, things went well until I asked for her name,which she gave. That name rang a bell in my head. So, I told her she just reminded me of someone. So, I asked her if she knew any so and so name. She said no but that there is one that is like a sister to her. I gave a describtion of whom I know and she gave hers. Gbam... It was same person.

The sad part is that my girlfriend often talked about a certain person with that name(the friend's name). That is to tell you how she loved and trusted her friend.

When it started, she said she was looking for a long time friend whose number is 08055555555 but my number is 07055555555...

So, una my people, how person go dey look for owner of 08055555555 and whatsapp go carry am go meet 07055555555? Is that ever possible? I leave you to do the math.

Just be careful of what you tell your fellow girls, they are willing to take your place.

I remember a woman did same to her friend, snatch her boyfriend and even had a child for the man. He was our neighbour and had money... They went on to marry and have more kids.

Be careful what you tell your female friends...

nyc talk....dat gal 4 whatsapp dy play...she na knw say u n ur gf lov each oda...

Some gals sha na wah o..wen guys plentina dia fwnd guy dm want sha...gals jus nid 2 b careful

Hmmm... You are even more deadly.

I know your type and I am smilling here but people would often take your gentleness for stupidity. They don't you could be an uranium bomb...

AnodaIT:
Anyway, it depends on the persona you have. I am a Libra and hate confrontations, but if you disappoint me twice, I wont still confront you, I will harm you physically, emotional, socially, financially.