I have this gurl I’ve been dating for close to a year now. I love her so much and she claims she does love me too. She stays in Warri while I stay in port Harcourt and we get to see like once every month, but calls are very regular when we’re apart. I’d started nursing the idea that she was the one I’m going to settle down with.

When I met her she told me she wasn’t a virgin, but later told me she was one, I was mad at her for lying to me, but she cried and begged that she had to lie because most guys don’t like virgins, and she didn’t want to lose me, that was why she told me initially that she wasn’t a virgin. I hadn’t made love to her all this while, because she was always resisting, and I didn’t want force her, but the last time she came, I discovered she might not be a virgin after all(I had penetrated, her without any hindrance, but had to leave her alone because she pretended it was hurting) .

She went home for hols last Monday. On Friday, I called her around 2pm, and she told me she was going to church for a program with mom, and was going to be back around 6pm.Her phone was switched off till like 7.30pm (something she never does) Yesterday afternoon, when I called her, she said she was at the market, I asked her to call me when she got home. She sent a text 10mins later that she was in church and wouldn’t be back till 6pm.somthing told me she was lying.

Today, she left home around 3pm for a program in church that she said would end around 4pm, but that she wanted to “stretch her legs” that’s why she’s still going. At intervals between 4pm and 5pm, I called her line but it was not available. I then called her sister who told me that my girlfriend wasn’t at home, and that she was going to flash me when the gurl comes home.

I called her line around 5.30pm, the call went thru. She told me she didn’t meet the program, and that she was at home now. I asked her why the whole house was quiet(which was unusual),she said she was in her room, and every other person was in the living room. I knew she was lying. To confirm, I called her sister again and asked her why she didn’t flash like she promised when my gurl came home. Her sister told me my gurl wasn’t home yet. I called her 10mins later and found out she was on the road, apparently coming back from where she was. She was quick to lie to me that a bike just dropped her at home, that she had gone back to church, to get a bunch of keys she had forgotten in church. This confirmed my suspicion

I am beginning to think she’s been “stretching her legs” for some other guy for the past 3days and the thought of it is killing. What do you guys think? What do I do?

mennnnn its obvious shes lying to u o jare but as for seeing someone else hmmm i cant say and as fo her virginity u guys will know naw wtout being told they must be a tiny barrier to stop u on ya way,but if the road is express then that person is not one

no long thing, be ''stretching your legs too''.

@ poster
You are obsessed. Give the girl a breathing space!

michelin which kain breathing space breathing space for d babe to dey continue deceive herself or continue lying?

jennykadry:

michelin which kain breathing space breathing space for d babe to dey continue deceive herself or continue lying?

Innocent until proven guilty, eh?

he he he jackal u don come back,ok i agree but y did she have to lie that shes a virgin?instead of d road to be blocked and tight,it was wide open

jennykadry:

he he he jackal u don come back,ok i agree but y did she have to lie that shes a virgin?instead of d road to be blocked and tight,it was wide open

I guess she forgot she was no longer one. Who knows, she might be amnesiac!!!!
People forget their names, DOBs, addresses. . . . .so be rest assured she might have forgotten her cherry was popped!

storyyy jackal


ok why did she tell d guy that she was athome when she wasnt?because her sister said she wasnt at home ,so tell me again did she end up at another persons house wtout knowing it?

. .so be rest assured she might have forgotten her cherry was popped!

and dats y she pretended as if it was hurting her as d guy was penetrating right?

jennykadry:

storyyy jackal

ok why did she tell d guy that she was athome when she wasnt?because her sister said she wasnt at home ,so tell me again did she end up at another persons house wtout knowing it?

Momentary madness should be blamed for that.  
Besides, she could be scared of the repercussions if she had told him the truth.
Cut the gurl some slack.

rotflmao jackal u no well

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Why is it that when a guy doesn't know the whereabout of his gf then she is definitely cheating, give her and yourself space to breath jo

jennykadry:

rotflmao jackal u no well

U reckon?
Dan Dollar is too possessive. . . . .He should give the chic some space.
Let a dog roam and it will find his way home. . . . . . .  .

tope she shouldnt lie about her whereabouts should she?if d guy no call its d same babe that will complain that he doesnt love and care about her,ok d guy come dey call her and shes busy lying to him telling him shes at sodom and gomorra while shes at sokoto,lets be truthful to ourselves o jare


im not saying shes cheating on d guy,but y all the lies its not necessary is it

All the space weh de their house no reach am breath?

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jennykadry:

michelin which kain breathing space breathing space for d babe to dey continue deceive herself or continue lying?

Abeg, the guy too dey control. Haba! Why he nor pack him bag go meet the girl for house so he go know where she dey go and nor dey go? Wetin be him problem wey he go call babe more than 15 times a day? And i nor even add the call he dey make to the sister join am. Make the guy go rest jare!

@michelin

y him no go call d babe,no be love again,na so person open thread talk say her lover no dey too call am and she say d guy no love am,na so women dey shout for d thread say d guy no love d girl,say make d babe leave am,naw another case don come but d guy dey call d girl una still dey complain ,na wetin haba?is it naw a crime for him to call d babe because hes missing her

lol

jennykadry:

tope she shouldnt lie about her whereabouts should she?if d guy no call its d same babe that will complain that he doesnt love and care about her,ok d guy come dey call her and shes busy lying to him telling him shes at sodom and gomorra while shes at sokoto,lets be truthful to ourselves o jare


im not saying shes cheating on d guy,but y all the lies its not necessary is it

Tru tru make we no lie jenny the girl dey cheat, first no be virgin, later she be virgin, after faking it hurts during sex to cover up her virgin story.

jennykadry:

@michelin

y him no go call d babe,no be love again,na so person open thread talk say her lover no dey too call am and she say d guy no love am,na so women dey shout for d thread say d guy no love d girl,say make d babe leave am,naw another case don come but d guy dey call d girl una still dey complain ,na wetin haba?is it naw a crime for him to call d babe because hes missing her

That one nor be miss. The guy is controlling the girl's move. The girl might have paid an innocent visit to a male friend but considering how possessive the guy is she must have preferred to keep it to herself.

Anyways I just want to say that the girl lied big time about her virginity. Who talk say Naija men nor like virgins when na only virgin threads full this place?

That one nor be miss. The guy is controlling the girl's move. The girl might have paid an innocent visit to a male friend but considering how possessive the guy is she must have preferred to keep it to herself.

Anyways I just want to say that the girl lied big time about her virginity. Who talk say Naija men nor like virgins when na only virgin threads full this place?

must she lie?wwhich kain innocent visit na so she lie say she be virgin naw na innocent visit


@tope

my sis d babe dey cheat jare,u talk well

jennykadry:

must she lie?wwhich kain innocent visit na so she lie say she be virgin naw na innocent visit

Me sef know say she lie when she talk say she be virgin. Only a sleeping lover like the poster go believe am.

As for the rest, whether the girl dey lie or she nor dey lie o, make the guy nor dey call am 15 times a day. Which kind yeye love be that?

its wrong for d babe to lie michelin?if d babe talk true of where she go dis guy no go dey call her like dat,lets face d fact

jennykadry:

its wrong for d babe to lie michelin?if d babe talk true of where she go this guy no go dey call her like that,lets face d fact

Lying is bad, cool. But the guy's behaviour isn't among the best too. As for me they fit each other. The girl see am as mugu, the guy true true act mugu!

I guess the question i'm going to ask is why do women lie?

She is lying confront her with all the information you have.

Go with your CIA self

proo212:

I guess the question i'm going to ask is why do women lie?

Women lie to capture the hearts of men!!
It's no rocket science.

@ poster,take it easy nd do not allow it kil u .it might jst not be wat u're thinkin nd even if it is,ma guy,der's nuttin u can do dan to pray she doesn't tell u to take a dive if u confront her. sm1 else must ve swept her off her feet


try talkin to her,ask 4 an xplanation to her recent behaviour