hrmkz: Let get serious and proffer solution to these lingering issue.

There are 2 categories of ladies that is mostly affected.
(A) Ages 20yrs to 30yrs- this age is when u should ensure you are in the right relationship and after fun, you need not make huge demands from your man and accept his financial standard. The shopping, cinema's and eatery things should be from him and not you insisting. You can even decline some of his offers to take you by simply saying "instead of eating out today again, why don't you take me to market so I can prepare you a good meal".
Be concerned about his prospects, his future,advice on how he can improve on his weakness and take interest in him being succesfull no matter what.
When you guys talk about marriage, he will be willing and optimistic since his "wife to be is not finacially inclined", and when he eventually get rich...you will both enjoy the wealth.

(B) This ladies of above 30yrs...now let say this " what am going to say here is strictly my opinion".

It is only in Nigeria and some few countries that we plague the above 30yrs women, we detest them and make fun of them where they are not all at fault.
So,what is the solution for these women to get married?
The only one I can think of is polygamy... Yes, POLYGAMY.
At that age, majority of the suitors that would come are married men, many of whom want to chop and clean mouth, it is now left to you to play your cards wisely, meet his sexual demands and fill in the gaps, where the wife is not meeting up.
Accept to be a second wife if you meet a man who wishes to have one, or make yourself a second wife by being pregnant. Never go diabolical to achieve this, use your woman "power",It not a curse to be a second wife.
Again, be nice to his first wife if eventually you become the second, you need not treat his first wife and children badly either and be submissive...this is Africa.

Like I wrote above, being a second wife and having your kids is better to remain single. Am not saying you cannot find a single guy to date you but we all know the chances are very slim.
Most family in Nigeria and Africa will never allow their son to marry and older woman.

Let me allow peoples contribution before saying more..

effisyman: Women are the cause of their own problem. ..
let me share a scenario.
My wife parents gave birth to three female's, I married one. The remaining two are over 30yrs and the only suitors coming forth are married men who genuinely wish to take them as second wife.
There mother is even the one pushing thst they should go ahead and marry those men but my wife refuses to seek my opinion because she and her mother have fought me because I want to take a second wife.

You see, if a man is willing and capable enough to marry more than one woman, we should encourage them since most African culture accept polygamy.

If we embrace polygamy totally and wives don't go about fighting each other, if they totally accept what fate beckons on yhe them.
Until then before population of singe but marriageable ladies will reduce.

Deluxe8000: I need a serious lady in my life o @30. 08158952934. Am serious.

190-the-clown:
yes true!

every man begin marry four four wives let us help our ladies out so they dont DIE single

swtchicgurl: smh...try your best, you can't prevent a prophecy.

You had better marry me nau oh so u can retain number 1 spot in my house

190-the-clown:


You had better marry me nau oh so u can retain number 1 spot in my house

swtchicgurl:

*yawns*

dont worry wen ure 33 . .

I'll be yawning while im at alter with you making you my 6th wife

Wu Zetian: ^^I can't believe your argument against polygamy is, "women weren't created to share"!

ITbomb:
Me too

dmcdad: **Bar man abeg give me two bottles of Harpic make I use cool my body down...**

Ehn! **Wait make I confirm first; abeg dem dey drink Harpic ni?**

To avoid stories that touch...

190-the-clown:



dont worry wen ure 33 . .

I'll be yawning while im at alter with you making you my 6th wife